Hello Parents! This week I am providing a curriculum on families that includes information about family conflict and domestic violence. We will read an age-appropriate book that depicts family abuse. Your child may be upset to learn about this social problem, and may want to talk with you afterward. This week will be a time for your child to learn and grow in a topic they may not be familiar with! I encourage you as parents to use this opportunity to discuss your values with your children!
What is Domestic Violence?
7 tips on talking to children about violence: Domestic violence is a pattern of abusive behavior in any relationship 1. Reassure children that they are safe. that is used by one partner to gain or Make sure they know when at school maintain power and control over they are safe and explain that all another intimate partner. Domestic feelings are okay. violence can be physical, sexual, 2. Make time to talk. Be patient. Some emotional, economic, or psychological children may prefer other methods actions or threats of actions that besides talking about it, such as influence another person. This includes drawing a picture or listening to music. any behaviors that intimidate, 3. Keep your explanations manipulate, humiliate, isolate, frighten, developmentally appropriate. terrorize, coerce, threaten, blame, hurt, 4. Review safety procedures. injure, or wound someone. 5. Observe the childs emotional state. Some children could be at risk for more intense reactions so keep your eye on the child. 6. Limit television viewing of these events. Limit the childs exposure to hateful comments that could be misunderstood or taken out of context. 7. Maintain a normal routine. Keep a regular schedule.
Ms. Scherrs Classroom Newsletter Page 2
Books We Will Read This Week: 1. A Place for Starr by Howard Schor Monday we areas learning a. This story follows a brave girl and Today her family they about dinosaurs. break the cycle of violence. Tuesday
2. Healing the Bruises by Lori MorganToday we are learning about pets.
a. This book makes the experience ofWednesday
searching for and Today restoring peace in a troubled family bothwe are learning about the solar system. understandable and positive.
3. Hear my Roar by Gillian Watts
Thursday Today we are going on a field trip to the zoo.
a. Papa bear is mean to Mama and Orsa, but with the
Friday help of friends they try to break the cycle of violence.
Today we have a special guest from the fire
department to tell us about fire safety.
Reminders to Students
Bring money for field trip lunch
Bring umbrella in case it rains Think of a supplementary text
to share with the class about
domestic/family violence.
Methods I will use to teach this
curriculum: o Students will read supplementary text.
For example, lyrics from popular
music such as Goodbye Earl.
o Students will read multiple texts.
For example, we will do literature
circles in class. Students will read 4 different books all about domestic violence but each book has different viewpoints and characters.
o Students will read from a resistant
perspective. Reminders to Parents
Your child will need to do or bring
the following this week: 1. Backpack 2. Reading folder 3. Sign off on the progress report 4. Lunch box 5. Talk to your child about domestic violence and their feelings towards it.
They will confront stereotypes
written in a text and deconstruct value being privileged.
o Students will produce counter texts.
They will create multi-media
presentations from the voices that are marginalized or silenced.