NgRtJ vg;gb?

15 Fwpg;Gfs;

vg;gbg; Ngr Ntz;Lk;> vg;gbg; Ngrpdhy; cq;fs; Ngr;R

vLgLk; vd;gijr; nrhy;ypf; nfhLf;f ‘buhg; jp gpq;f;
vyp/ngz;l;’ vd;nwhU Gj;jfk; te;jpUf;fpwJ.

eL Nuhl;by; oU gpq;f; epw ahid Mb mire;J ele;Jte;jhy;

vg;gb ,Uf;Fk;? mJNghy> ek;Kila Ngr;rpy; cs;s rpd;dr; rpd;d
FsWgbfs;$l> kw;wtHfSf;Fg; nghpa cWj;jyhfj; njhpAk;
vd;fpwhH> ,e;jg; Gj;jfj;jpd; MrphpaH gpy; nkf;/gHyd;.

ek;Kila jpdrhpg; Ngr;rpy; gpq;f; epw ahidfs; jiyfhl;lhky;

jtpHg;gjw;F Rygkhd gjpide;J topKiwfisr; nrhy;fpwhH.

1. xUthplk; Ngrj; njhlq;Ftjw;F Kd;dhy;> cq;fis ePq;fNs

%d;W Nfs;tpfisf; Nfl;Lg; gjpy; jahH nra;Jnfhs;Sq;fs;:

 ehd; vd;d Ngrg;NghfpNwd;?

 ehd; ahhplk Ngrg; NghfpNwd;?
 mtUf;F ehd; ,e;j tp\aj;ij vg;gb tpsf;fpr; nrhy;yNtz;Lk;?

2. cq;fs; Ngr;R eyy tp\aq;fisg; gw;wpajhfNt ,Uf;fl;Lk;.

3. mLj;jtHfs; NgRk; NghJ FWf;fplhjPHfs;. mtHfs; nrhy;fpw

thHj;ijfisAk;> nrhy;yhj czHTfisAk;$l cd;dpg;ghff;
ftdpAq;fs;. vjpuhspiag; Ghpe;J nfhz;L ePq;fs; mtHfSila
vjpHghHg;Gf;F Vw;wtpjkhfg; gjpy; nrhy;fpwNghJ>
mtHfs; ,d;Dk; mf;fiwNahL cq;fsplk; goFthHfs;.

4. kw;wtHfsplk; NgRk; NghJ> xUNtis mtHfs; jg;Gr;

nra;jpUe;jhYk;$l ePq;fs; Nghgg;glhjPHfs;>
vhpr;ryilahjPHfs;. mikjpahf> czHr;rptag;glhky; cq;fs;
gf;fj;J epahaj;ij vLj;Jr; nrhy;yg; goFq;fs;. mg;NghJ jhd;
vjpuhspAk; mehtrpakhf vfpwhky;> rz;il Nghlhky; RKfkhf
cq;fSila thHj;ijfis Vw;Wf;nfhs;thH.
5. rpe;jpf;fhky; vijAk; NgrhjPHs;. mJ kpfg; nghpa Mgj;J.
tpisTfisg; gw;wpr; rpe;jpj;Jg; NgRq;fs;.

6. rpf;fyhd tp\aq;fis tpsf;fpr; nrhy;Yk; NghJ> nghpa nghpa

thHj;ijfisf; nfhl;b Fog;ghjPHfs;. mLj;jtHfSf;Fr; Rygkhfg;
GhpAk;gbahd vspa cjhuzq;fisg; gad;gLj;Jq;fs;.

7. xUNtis cq;fs; gf;fk; jtW ,Ue;jhy;> jaq;fhky; kd;dpg;Gf;

NfSq;fs;. me;j kd;dpg;G ntWk; cjl;lstpy; ,Ue;Jtplhky;>
cz;ikahf ,Uf;fNtz;Lk;.

ve;j xU kd;dpg;gpYk; %d;W tp\aq;fs; mtrpak;

,Uf;fNtz;Lk;> vd;fpwhH gpy;nkf/gHyd;. mit:

 Regret (tUj;jk;)
 Reason (,J Vd; ele;jJ?)
 Remedy (jPHT: ,dpNky; ,g;gb elf;fhky; ghHj;Jf; nfhs;tJ
vg;gb?)

8. Njitapy;yhky; cq;fs; Ngr;rpy; vjpHkiw thrfq;fis

Eiof;fhjPHfs;. mjd;%yk; mLj;jtHfSf;F cq;fs;kPJ re;Njfk;jhd;
tUk;.

9. cq;fisr; Rw;wpAs;stHfs; xU ey;yJ> mJTk; clNd

ghuhl;Lq;fs;.

cq;fis xUtH ghuhl;bdhy;> ‘ehd; vd;d nghprhr;

nrQ;Rl;Nld;’ vd;W jd;dlf;fj;Jld; nespahjPHfs;. ‘ed;wp’
nrhy;yp kfpo;r;rpAld; me;jg; ghuhl;il Vw;Wf;nfhs;Sq;fs;.

10.ahNuDk; jtW nra;tjhf cq;fSf;Fj; Njhd;wpdhy;> vy;NyhH

Kd;dhYk; mtHfis tpkHrpf;fhjPHfs;> mtkhdg;gLj;jhjPHfs;.
Jdpikapy; mtHfisr; re;jpj;J cq;fSila fUj;ij ntspg;gilahfr;
nrhy;ypg; goFtJ ey;yJ. mjd; %yk;> mtH jdJ jtiwj;
jpUj;jpf;nfhs;s ePq;fs; xU tha;g;Gf; nfhLf;fpwPHfs;.

11. vijAk; jd;dk;gpf;ifNahL Ngrpg; goFq;fs;. ‘VNjh vd;dhy

KbQ;rijr; nra;aNwd;’ vd;W G+rp nkOfhk;y;> ‘ehd;
 epr;rakhf ,ijr; nra;Ntd;’ vd;W njk;NghL nrhy;fpwtHfisj;jhd;
cyfk; urpf;fpwJ.

xU Ntis cq;fSf;F me;j tp\akk; epr;rakhfj;

njhpahtpl;lhy;> ‘vdf;F ,J njhpatpy;iy’ vd;W xg;Gf;
nfhs;Sq;fs;> mjw;fhf ePq;fs; mtkhdg;glNtz;bajpy;iy.
vy;yhk; njhpe;jtHfs; vd;W ,e;j cyfj;jpy; ahUk; fpilahJ.

12. ‘vd;dg;gh? vg;gb ,Uf;Nf?’ vd;W ahuhtJ Nfl;lhy;> ‘VNjh

,Uf;Nfd;’ vd;W mtek;gpf;ifNahL KdfhjPHfs;. vg;NghJk;
cq;fisg; gw;wpg; NgRk;NghJ ghrpl;bt; thHj;ijfisg;
gad;gLj;Jq;fs;. cq;fis ePq;fNs jho;j;jpf;nfhs;shjPHfs;.

13.vg;NghJk; ngha; nrhy;yhjPHfs;. ,dpg;Gj; jltpa

ngha;fistpl> frg;ghd cz;ik Nky;.

14.ekf;F Rthu];akhfj; Njhd;Wk; xU tp\ak;> kw;wtHfSf;F nrk

NghH mbf;fyhk;. MfNt> vijr; nrhd;dhYk;> mijf;
Nfl;fpwtHfSld; nghUe;jpg;NghFk;gb nrhy;Yq;fs;.

15. nld;\dhf ,Uf;Fk; Neuj;jpy; ahhplKk; Kf;fpakhd tp\aq;fisg;

Ngrhky; js;spg;NghLtJ nuhk;g ey;yJ.

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