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CHAPTER II
Let the Games Begin
Y
ou’ve got the basics. Now, you pick the right approach to use.
let’s put them into action— Ready? Let the games begin.
and you that much closer to 2.1
it. First, we’ll review the rules, and
Knowing the Rules:
then we will show you how to lead
the women you want to bed. Because
Always and Never
we know you’re male and filled with
testosterone, we will then show you
all the best ways to know when a
Y eah, we know, MORE rules. It
sucks but these are important
ones so shut up and listen. There are
woman is interested in you (because
some pretty black and white rules
sad as it may be, most of the time
here, otherwise known as “always”
you completely miss the clues she is
and “nevers”.
sending your way!) and finally, help
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ALWAYS Remember YOU are the

prize, not the girl: it is essential that
you have this attitude to maintain
your self-esteem and confidence.
ALWAYS Women want a man who has value.
ALWAYS Pursue more than one ALWAYS Keep in mind that women
woman: otherwise you will become are sending signals to you all the
obsessed with her and dependent time: even if you are not picking up
upon her for your self-esteem, sex on them, learn what they are and
and everything else. You will be less then use the information wisely.
patient with other women you meet
and there is always another woman ALWAYS Talk to a woman the
waiting for you. Unless you are moment you see her: there’s an
literally out there playing the field in adage that says “he who hesitates,
search of a wife, date multiple masturbates”. Talking to a woman
people. Even in that case, you right away forces yourself past any
should consider dating multiple doubts and demonstrates your
people to ensure you’ve made the confidence.
right choice for a wife!
NEVER
ALWAYS Initiate every step of the
encounter: this ensures the fact that NEVER Take it personally: if you are
you keep the power and proves your rejected, it is because of who she is,
worth to her. This includes every not who you are. She might be
phase from the initial eye contact to married, she might be a lesbian, she
asking for a phone number to calling might just not like men—remember,
to the first kiss and even to the first her issues are not about you but
one to initiate breaking up. about what is happening in her life.
ALWAYS Have a goal or outcome in NEVER Say “I don’t know, what do

mind: do not initiate any action you want to do?”: This is an
without coming up with a goal first, automatic turn off for women; they
whether it is talking to 10 women to want a decisive man who is
getting the first kiss. knowledgeable, can make plans and
be creative. All it takes is one “I don’t
know” to lose her interest and have
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her move on to someone else.

Instead, tell her a story about this The more women you come in
great place you know that is so____ contact with, the more you will get to
(fill in the blank). Women love to talk to.
uncover new things and be the first The more you get to talk to, the more
to know about them. that will give you their phone
numbers.
NEVER Give up: persistence is the
key to success and without it, you The more phone numbers you get,
might as well stay home and watch the more dates you will have.
the game by yourself.
The more dates you have, the more
NEVER Lie: It’s wrong, you will get sex you will get.
caught, it makes you look weak and it
gives her unspoken permission to lie Simple, huh?
right back to you.
2.2
NEVER Talk about: her old
Finding the Women:
boyfriends or your past girlfriends,
also avoid politics (too serious), too
Looking in all the
much personal information about Right Places
yourself or fishing for compliments.
NEVER Wait for a “good time” to T he rules are clear, but they are
rather pointless if you don’t
know any women to apply them to.
approach a woman: there is no
better time than now. The worse So, let’s find these sexy women, shall
thing you can do is to get caught up we?
analyzing whether and when you
should take to a woman. Your lack of Here are the most typical places to
confidence will show on the outside find women. There are definite
and you’ll miss an opportunity to talk advantages to them: there are more
to her that may not arise again. women there and many of these
women are single and looking to
Have you even used probabilities to meet someone, plus the environment
study baseball scores? You can do it is often designed for flirting and
with dating statistics too. Just hitting on each other—hence the
remember this formula: loud music, dancing and abundant
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amounts of alcohol. On the other Restaurants: Do you know what the

hand, there is a great deal more best thing about restaurants is? If
competition to contend with in these you guessed juicy steaks, think again.
places—plus before you walk up, If you think it’s the classy female
women have probably heard dozens clientele, you are closer. You can pick
of pick up lines and are getting sick up some great looking broads at
of them. You need to shine there good restaurants. However, you’re
through what you learn here. still missing out on the main thing
these places offer. The best thing
Single’s bars: The women you see about restaurants—is the waitresses.
here are hoping to meet someone Often they are better looking than
(that’s why they are here!), so why any of the customers in the place and
disappoint them? Remember that since you know they will be sticking
they have heard it all so you simply around until their shift ends, you can
have to find a way to be more keep running approaches on them
original. Use the approach that you each time you stop in.
are the most comfortable and
familiar with so that you won’t Coffee shops: These places have
stumble or get lost. If the woman become so popular that they are like
doesn’t respond, happens to be the high energy form of night clubs.
married or with her boyfriend or is They also often have single women
rude, move on. There are many to sitting at tables, sipping on lattes,
choose from so don’t waste your time reading books, working on laptops
on one who doesn’t recognize what a and waiting to meet you.
prize she has in front of her.
Gyms: The perks here are obvious—
Bars/Nightclubs: Women come here tight asses, perky boobs, long legs
for two main reasons: to relax and to and skimpy workout clothes. If you
drink. What a perfect combination like your women healthy and fit, this
for you to move in and take is the place to go.
advantage of. Again, you are up
against dozens of other men hoping Cruise ships: If you go on a single’s
to get the same booty you are, so do cruise, you will be surrounded by lots
your best approach and have the of single women (yeah) but also lots
right attitude in place. of single men (crap). Eliminate the
competition by having the strongest
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attitude, the most effective approach women and a challenging on at that

and the perfect opening line. but these venues are literally filled
with women. Remember that women
Here are some of the places where love stories, romance, and passion
there may be far less women but a and these venues give women exactly
higher proportion of them, so they that. It takes a lot of courage to go to
are also probably more open to your one of these but just imagine what a
attention: woman who’s just seen a romantic
tragedy is feeling and what she’ll feel
Yoga classes: Not only will you learn when you approach her and sweep
to relax and stretch, but you will her off her feet.
meet flexible women who are thrilled
to actually see a man in class – it Movie theatres: Yet another out-of-
demonstrates part of your good the box place to meet women but just
characteristics. Act like you aren’t like the theatre, women flock to
sure how to move, and chances are movie theatres because they love
you will have several women helping stories. If you can’t do ballet do a
you and that has to be good. movie – where else do you get a
chance to sit beside and share an
Spin classes: Women are attracted to experience with a woman for 2
spin classes because often the hours? And often, women go to the
instructors are male and have that movies with their girls – bonus.
“biker-body”; think Lance Arms-
trong, not Hell’s Angels. Women also Bookstores: Smart women are fun...
love spinning because it shapes their be sure and check out the erotica
thighs and ass – something you will section first and see if any good-
love too! looking women are hanging out
there. Just think of the great
Rock Climbing: Believe it or not, conversations you might initiate
rock climbing gyms are a great to there. Otherwise, check out the
meet women. The women here are coffee shop. See what the babe in the
typically outdoors types that love a corner is reading and get ready to
challenge and are more aggressive approach.
than the women you usually meet.
Supermarkets: Put on your best “I’m
Ballet, Opera, Theatre, etc: This is helpless” look and hit the produce
an out-of-the box place to meet aisle. Ask her how to tell when fruit
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is ripe or whether to get a butternut of events tend to be New Age-y, open

or acorn squash. She will love the minded, laid back—and even eager to
opportunity to show you some tits— be laid. Take advantage of the good
we mean tips. vibes.
Cooking classes: Many women either Outdoor music events: Is anything

enjoy cooking or want to learn how more romantic than music under the
to do it better and so the vast stars? Avoid gospel or hard rock
majority of cooking classes are filled concerts and try to focus on blues,
with women. A male student would jazz, New Age or soft rock for the
certainly be the center of attention best ambiance. Any woman sitting
and if you appear a little confused alone on a blanket rocking to the
and behind in class, tutoring sessions music is ripe for the picking so get
can turn into some extra delight. A over there and get in position to
branch off of this is finding women enjoy the harvest.
in the cooking utensil section of large
department stores. Be clueless about Dance classes: A year or so ago there
whisks and spatulas and watch how was a great commercial on TV about
those previously aloof women a bunch of guys giving their buddy a
suddenly swarm all over you to help hard time because he was taking
you out. ballet classes. They stopped laughing
at him, however, when they spied
Church: Churches are one of the best him through the classroom door and
places to meet women because they he was holding ballet dancers in
often focus on single’s events like some very personal and provocative
dances, picnics, parties, and so on. places and grinning. Dance classes
Of course, you will have to tailor your are great places to meet women and
approaches for the environment—the almost all of them are fascinated and
Grand Master would not do well at attracted to men who can dance—or
all in a church setting. And don’t at least are doing their best to learn
forget the more women have been how to dance. While ballet may not
exposed (read: repressed) by religion be your cup of tea, ballroom or salsa
their whole life, the hornier they dancing is often a terrific choice. Not
become! only will you meet women, you will
learn how to dance—another turn on
Renaissance fairs and festivals: The for women that you meet later. Bring
women walking around these kinds back that slightly helpless mask and
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you’re sure to get some up close and

personal tutoring that could easily Parties: As you mingle and mix at
shift from dance floor to bedroom. the party you have been invited to,
check out what women have been
Ever been to a bar or dance club that invited as well. If they are there, they
slips in a salsa song or two into their are most likely looking for someone
mix? Chances are you have. Do you to hook up with just like you.
notice what happens on the dance
floor? Women love salsa, so they Volunteer organizations: Women
flock to the dance floor; few men often want to find ways to share their
know how to salsa, so they leave the time and efforts with others and for
dance floor. See the opportunity some, they find this through
here? Be one of those few men that volunteering. If you join too, you can
has salsa moves and you will have help your community (we know, this
your pick of hip-moving women. may not be remotely important to
you) and meet women who see you
Hotel bars: Often nothing is lonelier as compassionate, caring, respon-
than a woman traveling on business. sible and hot.
She doesn’t know the city, she
doesn’t know any people, she misses Open Mic events: One of the newer
home and she is working. All of that trends is to go to a local coffee house
can combine to be pretty damn on certain nights for what is known
depressing and you can be the one to as open mic. Anyone who wants to
cheer up her day—and night. can attend and read a poem, sing a
song, play guitar or piano, etc. up on
Lectures and workshops: If you can stage. You can really get a woman
get a little education and meet this hot by being creative and
weeks’ sex partner at the same time, emotional—reading a dramatic poem
why not do it? Check out local or singing a love song can get you
lectures, conferences and workshops closer to a woman than even the best
and see what you can learn and who opening line.
you can meet. One of the ultimate
places for meeting women is Workplace: You read right, your
personal growth seminars. They are place of work. Though they often say,
there because they are ready for “don’t shit in your own backyard”
change—and that can manifest itself this is one of the best places to meet
in you. women. Think about it. Where else
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do you already have tons in common Babies: Even better than dogs are
with women who work at the same babies—they will get more attention
company that you do? And chances than you may know what to do with.
are, the women there are already Obviously you can’t just find a baby
probably bored out of their minds at at the pet store but you might have a
work, so dying to talk to someone – friend who has a young son or
make that someone you! daughter who wouldn’t mind if you
took the baby for a walk. You might
have a niece or nephew too. Act
2.3
helpless one more time and women
And don’t forget the will quite likely beat their way to get
gimmicks... to you.
D on’t be afraid to use special

gimmicks to get a woman’s
attention. Here are few of the best:
Magic tricks: Sounds silly, we know,
but knowing some basic magic tricks
can be a great ice breaker with
women. It gives you something to do
Dogs: A cute dog—or even better, a and say when you walk up to a good
puppy—can be one of the biggest looking woman and most women like
chick magnets on the planet. Walk to be entertained.
around with one on a leash and just
watch the women come running with Handwriting analysis: Learn just
their ooh’s and aah’s. Hang out at a enough about this subject to sound
dog park and start asking the hot knowledgeable and then ask her to
babe with the canine innocent write down her name and phone
questions like what is the best food number (of course!) on a napkin so
to give puppies, how do you you can analyze it. Make sure your
housebreak a dog and more. Failing analysis is partially accurate and
that, carry around some dog treats partially very complimentary. All of
and give them to dogs with hot your predictions should be positive
women owners as they walk by. If the and you might even include one
woman asks, why you are carrying about meeting a good looking man
around dog treats, just say you just who is destined to bring her great sex
came back from a friend’s house and fun times.
where you were visiting their dog.
Something corny: Walk around in
public carrying a four foot tall teddy
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bear. Hold a dozen balloons or three

dozen carnations. Tote a giant heart While we will talk a great deal about
full of chocolate candy. You are the girl sitting alone or the group
bound to get attention—including over in the corner, let’s take a special
from women who are often attracted look at the walking set—the
to flowers, balloons, stuffed animals woman/women/group that is going
and so on. They ask what is going by you. Don’t let the chance and the
on—and the conversation begins. babe go by!
Another way to make sure you find Here is how you deal with the
women that you will have at least a moving set. First, never let it look
few things in common with is to look like you are chasing them. This
for women in the places you are lowers your value and thus your
interested in, i.e. if you like to work attraction. Here is one way to open
out, look at the gym; if you are a this particular set:
vegetarian, look at the health food
store; if you are fascinated by art, 1. Maneuver so that you are walking
look at the museums and so on. along in the same general direction but
you are just slightly ahead.
2.4
2. Turn your head back toward the
How to Best
group and use one of the many
Approach Women openers provided in this book. It can
be an opinion, a question or the very
W hen you first think about

walking up to a woman, you
most likely see yourself walking into
first line of a story.
3. Turn forward again and look

a bar and approaching that beautiful
ahead. Most of the time, the group
single babe at the bar. Those
will have hurried to catch up with
moments do exist, but they can be
you and now you just launch right
hard to find. Most of the time, you
into the group sets taught
will encounter women in a mixture of
throughout this book.
ways, from single, doubles, triples or
groups to those that are moving,
Here are some of the other sets you
walking or sitting. Each type of
will run into and how to handle
setting requires a slightly different
them:
approach.
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The woman sitting alone: Her friend may be the greatest gal on
the planet but right now she is an
It’s a dream come true, so don’t obstacle to you. She is getting
screw it up! between you and your goal.
Approach her directly if you can. You have to win over the friend
Look in her eyes when you get to her before you can win over the woman.
and smile. Don’t make eye contact with your
target. If she starts to talk, just neg
If you spot her from across the room her (explained in later chapters) and
or down the aisle or on the other side turn your focus back to the obstacle.
of the coffee shop, look at her until
she notices, make eye contact and
then immediately walk over to her. Hand your target something of yours
Don’t stop to order your latte or your if you can to make sure she doesn’t
beer or you’ve lost your best chance. wander away. It can be your hat, a
Some experts call this the “three book you’re reading—something.
second rule” which means you have
about three seconds to get over there Keep negging your target for about
and connect. It demonstrates confi- five minutes and pretty soon, she will
dence, a touch of romance, and that be working harder to grab your
you are truly attracted to that attention. Once she does this,
woman. apologetically ask the obstacle if you
can talk to her friend for a while. She
Walk up, lead with a curious state- will be on your side now and instead
ment or opener, establish contact of an obstacle, she is your ally.
and then use those false time
constraints you will learn about. Now you can throw a compliment
your target’s way (avoid it being
Do not circle her. Do not stalk her. about her looks).
Just go up to her spontaneously
(women love spontaneity!) and with When your target has two friends—
enthusiasm. or more:
When she has a girl friend with her: ► This follows the same basic
pattern as above only you have two
obstacles to charm now. Once they
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like you, they will be happy to let you make new friends with each of them
go off alone with their friend. In fact, in order to figure out the
they may even walk away and give relationships in the group.
you your long waited for privacy.
► Use some great isolating lines like, 2.5

“I would love to spend a little time
Walking the Walk
with your friend—is that okay with
you ladies?” or “Do you think we
could just have a few minutes to
talk? I have to leave in just a sec and
Y ou are almost ready to
approach, whether your future
sex partner is alone or with friends,
I’d love the chance to be alone for a
moving or sitting. Do you have the
moment.”
right attitude though? Go through a
mental checklist before you take a
When the target is with a boyfriend:
single step. Memorize it so you know
what to cover without having to pull
► Don’t just take a look, assume the
a list out of your pocket.
two are madly in love and you don’t
stand a chance so you walk away.
Am I smiling or laughing so it looks
Walk up. Talk to the man—not the
like I am having a good time already?
target. He may be your target’s
Is my body language letting others
brother, co-worker, best friend or
know how self-confident I am?
cousin from out of town.
If I stand with a group, am I making
it clear that I am the center of
► Ask how the two of them know
attention?
each other. This answers the
question right away of what their
Do I already have some women
relationship is. If he does happen to
around me to increase my value? Am
be her boyfriend, you have a new
I clearly enjoying myself with them
friend and you haven’t offended
but not showing any intentions of
anyone. He could even act as your
picking any of them up? Am I
wingman and the girl your wing
showing others that I am a social
woman for the rest of the night (we’ll
creature and not one out on the hunt
explain these concepts later).
for prey?
► If she happens to be with more

Now, approach her. Remember that
than one guy, do the same thing only
three second rule. Be confident and
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make sure that your opener is loud more than likely get laid, but do you
and attention getting. Project your really want to take home a woman
voice so not only does she hear you, who’ll pass out the minute she gets to
but those around you can’t miss you your place?
either.
Feeling scared yet? Naturally you Remember—and we will keep
are. This is all new and it goes repeating this from beginning to
against a lot of what you have been end—rejection is NOT a bad thing.
taught by others in the past. Writers Women might reject your opener.
of Magic Bullets called this They might reject your approach.
particular feeling “approach anxiety”. They are not rejecting you. In the
Banish any thoughts of overcoming meantime, you are learning at
this fear by throwing back a few extra supersonic speeds what works and
shots. Alcohol does not make you what doesn’t. Just keep practicing
more creative, charming, sexy or and you WILL get better. You WILL
articulate. It does just the opposite. get accepted. And yes, you WILL get
Probably one of the best things you laid.
can do at a bar/club is not to drink. It
puts you at an advantage over all the 2.6
other guys in the place who are
Let’s Play for a
drunk, slurring their speech, and
making poor judgment calls when While, Shall We?
approaching women.
Try going out to a bar one night and

W omen like to laugh and have
fun, so sometimes having a
few games handy to try can be
not drinking at all. Drink nothing but
helpful. For example, you might tell
water. If you’re concerned that you
her that you bet her a dollar that you
will look out of place because you are
can kiss her without moving your lips
not drinking, ask for a glass of water
or tongue. (Clearly this is to be used
in a cocktail glass with ice and a slice
after you know the girl well, not right
of lime. Go there to observe and
when you are meeting and getting to
watch as people get progressively
know each other.) Lean in closely,
drunker. Just watch how a guys’
close your eyes and give her the best
“game” get worse and worse the
kiss of her life. When you’re done,
more they drink. And women tend to
you will have lost the bet but won the
stay away from drunk guys. Sure a
girl.
drunk guy may find a drunk girl and
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in years.
Another game to play is the old-
fashioned Truth or Dare. Of course, Coming across an old letter
the adult version is far less inhibited that I had forgotten all about.
and wilder than the teen version. If
you are going to try this game, plan it The butterflies I get in my
out ahead of time so that you have stomach when I talk to a
the basic equipment you will need. beautiful woman.
Have condoms, whipped cream,
bananas, chocolate sauce, and more. Another possibility is the Question
(Is your imagination working game, a form of Truth or Dare but
overtime now? It should be.) without the dare element. Start with
simple questions but not boring
Here are a couple other games you ones. Ask “What was the best concert
can try. The first one is a little like I she ever went to” or “her favorite
Spy but instead it is I Like. . . You cartoon when she was a kid.” Slowly
want to say something you like that work your way into more personal
will become the basis for further questions like “What was your first
conversation. Some examples kiss like” or “What is your best
include: childhood memory?” If all is going
well, you can slowly work your way
Hearing my favorite song into more actually based questions
right when I am stuck in a like “Where is the most romantic
traffic jam. place you’ve ever had sex” or “If you
could only be kissed in one spot,
Showers that are so warm I where would it be?” Remember to be
am immediately covered in on guard—she will be asking you
goose bumps. questions right back so answer
wisely, but remember, be mysterious
The feel of clean sheets when I by only answering the question and
slide into bed at night. offering nothing else.
The previews that come on A spin off of this one is a finish the
before a brand new movie. sentence game. You start a sentence
and she finishes it for you. I really
Getting a phone call from like it when . . , The best way to
someone I haven’t heard from spend a weekend is . . . and so on.
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Like before, you can escalate the Women are all about hints and
questions to sexual ones if you have subtlety. We know that’s not how you
rapport with her and she is enjoying work. Hell, if you could, you’d
the game. probably just wanna walk up to the
hottest chick in the room and forget
2.7 the lines, the stories, the openers and
say, “Let’s fuck, now.” You’re direct
Identifying the
and to the point but you’d also go
Signs—They Really home alone because that isn’t how
are EVERYWHERE! women communicate. Learn her
signals and you can get to the fucking
A ll this time, you’ve probably

been thinking that you are
doing all the seduction work. It all
that much sooner.
When a man walks into a room,

falls on your shoulders to find the whether it’s the weekly PTA meeting
babes, approach them and try to win or the busiest nightclub, women
them. Wake up, man! These women check him out. You can relate to that.
are sending you signs left and right When a woman walks into view, you
that say, “Approach me! Talk to me! I usually check out her tits, her ass—
find you attractive . . . come and see and occasionally the things in
me!” and yet you are completely between. Women do that same once-
missing them. That’s right—signals over but they are looking for a lot
are being sent your way and your more than just how a guy looks.
antenna is missing each and every (Refer back to the introduction if you
one. Smack yourself in the forehead. need clarification on this.) She
You deserve it, schmuck. checks out clothing, accessories,
posture, height, attitude, facial
First of all, we hope that by now you expressions and a lot more. In a
have already accepted the fact that matter of seconds she knows if she is
chick’s minds are hardwired much interested in meeting you and she
differently than ours. They see the starts to send signals to you. She will
world and the people in it in a keep sending these signals from your
completely alien perspective—but it first minute through the door
is one we have to tune in on or we through any conversation you might
will miss out on a lot of potential sex have and beyond. Some of them are
partners. conscious—she knows she is sending
a come on over here, big boy
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message. Others she probably has no

idea she does but that doesn’t mean • Sneaks peeks at you when you
you should be oblivious to them too. aren’t looking
• Plays a game of peek-a-boo—
Learn these signals and then head looking at you and then looking
out to the closest single’s bar. Sit down and away
back and watch the women there and • Gives you side looks
see how many of these very moves • Holds eye contact with you
you can catch. Don’t attempt to hit • Pupils are dilated
on anyone this time—just watch and • Raises and lowers her eyebrows
observe. Once you are familiar with • Winks at you
the signals, you will probably know • Blinks more often than usual
whether a guy has a chance with a • Looks directly at your eyes and face
woman long before he does. Here are
the most common signals a woman Part of the body: HAIR
sends throughout your interaction
with her: GESTURE / SIGNAL
Part of the body: MOUTH • Plays with her hair, i.e. twists it or
twirls it around her fingers
GESTURE / SIGNAL • Throws it off her shoulders
• Runs her hand through it
• Relaxed smile • Lifts it off of her neck
• Bites lower lip
• Shows tip of tongue Part of the body: CLOTHING
• Licks lips
• Puts her fingernail between her GESTURE / SIGNAL
teeth
• Pouts with her lips • Raises the hem of her skirt or
• Blows smoke at you dress to show more leg
• Puts something in her mouth, i.e. • Lets it fall off her shoulder
swizzle stick, finger, etc. • Open buttons or lowers zippers
• Nipples show through shirt
Part of the body: EYES (don’t stare!)
GESTURE / SIGNAL Part of the body: VOICE
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• Waits for you if you leave to go to

the restroom
• Wants to know where you are going
GESTURE / SIGNAL if you leave
• Lets you know she is getting ready
• The volume of her voices raises and to leave
lowers to mirror yours • Does not move back when you
• The speed of her talking speeds up move forward
and slows down to mirror yours • Poses for you (wants to look her
• She laughs at your jokes best for when you glance her way)
• She speaks only to you and not to
other men 2.8
• She compliments you Coming in on
• Argues with you with a smile on
her face
Approach: Which
• Asks you to repeat something if she Route to Take
didn’t hear it
• Giggles
Y ou know the rules, found the
women and read her signals.
Now it’s time for the real moment—
Part of the body: VOICE
the approach. You’ve already read a
great deal about what to say as you
GESTURE / SIGNAL
walk up to a woman but here is more
to absorb.
• Moves with you
• Sits up straight
You have approximately 30 seconds
• Legs open
to impress this woman and keep her
• Legs rub against each other or
positive body signals positive. That
against the table leg
isn’t much time so make the most of
• Mirrors your body language
it. Think of yourself like a stand-up
• Blushes
comedian or a newspaper journalist.
• Pushes her hips forward
You had better grab a person’s
• Cocks head to one side as she
attention right away or they will have
listens to you
gone right over it to the next story,
• Bares neck and underarms
comedian—or man. Here are some of
• Goes to the bathroom and comes
the most common ways to open up a
back after primping
conversation. Even though you
• Leans towards you as you talk
should memorize them, try your best
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to sound completely spontaneous. who is making her feel that way?

Take the samples here and rework That’s you, my man.
them to make them your own.
Questions are great openers because
2.9
they automatically create a need to
respond in the woman (unless she is Question Openers
being a bitch). Stay far away from
negative topics like politics, national
tragedies and so on. They certainly W hen you begin speaking with a
woman, take about 10 to 15
seconds and end on an open-ended
won’t lighten the mood and can
create friction—but not the right question (i.e. one that cannot be
kind. answered with a simple “yes” or
“no”) that calls for some kind of
answer from her. The goal of this
Becoming the Ideal Guy
approach is to start a conversation.
Here is a surefire way to get into a
girl’s head (and hopefully pants later
Elicit curiosity with your initial
on): Ask her one simple question: If
question but make sure there
you could describe your ideal guy,
appears to be a purpose for it to give
what would he be like? Ask for
it roots so it sounds like a genuine
details. Ask about his hair, clothing,
question and not a pick up line:
and height. Ask what kind of job he
would have. Ask how he would talk,
“I read this amazing article last
dress, behave. How would he smell?
week about what people value in life
How would he touch you? If she is
and it started me thinking about my
still into the game, keep going. Ask
own values. Do you know what you
how he would make love to her?
value most in life?”
What would he do to show his
romantic side? Don’t actually take
“My friend and I are having a
notes, of course, but listen to every
disagreement and we need a
single syllable she says. She is giving
woman’s opinion. Could you tell me
you insight into the very man who
how you feel about guys who date
can claim her heart (and other parts
more than one woman at a time?”
to the south) and you can model the
behavior. Even better, as she
“Well, work about did me in today,
imagines this virtual man, she is
so I am trying to look on the bright
getting hotter and hotter—and guess
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side. What was the very best part of

your day today?” B ring up an important issue—or
a sexual one as long as it has
nothing to do with you:
“Hey, I am taking a survey of the
stupidest things men have ever come “Can you believe this new report on
up and said to women. Does this line global warming? I heard about it on
count?” CNN and I wondered—do you think
we should believe it is as serious as
“Hi, I am making a point of meeting it sounds?”
new people recently and I wanted to
add you to today’s list. What’s your “According to this study I heard
name?” about on the news, women like oral
sex almost as much as chocolate.
Learn about her—you want to learn Which do you prefer?”
as much as you can about her wants,
likes, needs, wishes, threats and “So, my buddy and I have a bet
what makes her happy or aroused. going. Could you help? Which do
Start with questions: women like better—a celebrity like
George Clooney who works for a
“So what is your favorite part of cause or someone like Paul Newman
your job?” who stays married to the same
woman for years?”
“What is the most unusual thing that
has happened to you this week/ Ask for an opinion on a neutral issue
month/ year?” that deals with dating, relationships,
gender differences, music or current
“What one trait best defines you?” culture:
“What do you think is the biggest

“What was the happiest moment of difference between men and
your life?” women?”
“What is your earliest memory?” “What the hell is up with Britney

Spears anyway?”
2.10
Issue Openers
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“Do you think the 1980s produced

any great music at all?” “Is that drink as potent as it looks?”
“What is the one piece of advice you “Is this teacher starting an all new
would most like to give to men about routine on us?”
seducing a woman?”
“Did you see that step he just did?
2.11 Man, that looked complicated.”
Complimentary
Openers As you use these openers, be sure to
use a strong, powerful voice that is
coming from your diaphragm. Vary
T hrow out an unusual but sincere
compliment: your tone so it expresses a variety of
emotions. Speak slowly. Speak
“I just wanted you to know that 99 clearly. Pause. As. You. Speak. For
percent of the women who walk in emphasis.
that door would kill their own
mothers to look half as good as you 2.13
do.” Best of all . . .
“That dress somehow makes your
Storytelling Openers
eyes look even bluer than they are. It
is an amazing look for you.”
A nd then there is the power of a
story. Telling a story almost
always lures in the reader. It works
2.12 for women as well. Couch your
Offhand Comment opening line into a story and you
Openers may get an automatic edge. Your
story needs to sound original and
C omment on the situation or

environment you are in:
spontaneous as well and should be
based, if at all possible, on a real
story that happened to you, a friend,
“Is this the best band this place has someone in your family or even in
ever had?” something you read. The story has to
have a hook line, which is the opener
“When did they remodel the entire and it creates intrigue and suspense.
bar?” It is the bait that draws in the woman
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and makes her want to hear more.

For example: “Robert and I are co-workers and we
have been friends since long before I
“Last week my best friend Robert did was promoted at the company. I
the most astonishing thing. I’ve thought I knew what he was made of.
known him for 13 years and I had no I was wrong though because when
idea he was capable of this!” we had lunch on my boat, he told me
about what he had done. He was
That is certainly enough to make standing at a busy intersection when
most women go, WHAT this little boy let go of his mother’s
HAPPENED? hand and somehow toddled away—
right into the street. A bus was
Next, you need the flow, or the main bearing down on this little guy
content of the story. This is where quickly and clearly the driver
you add in the details but make sure couldn’t see him. Without a thought
they are based on emotions not just to his own safety, Robert reached out
facts. For example, do not say: and snatched the boy away from
certain death just as the bus rushed
“Robert and I have known each other by. The boy’s mom showed her
a long time and we even work immense appreciation in quite an
together. He was standing on the unexpected way too!”
corner of 25th and Hudson when this
4 or 5 year old little boy got away Clearly the second story has a lot
from his mother and went into the more impact. Look at the verbs and
street. A Greyhound bus was picture how they paint the scene. It
approaching in the left lane at also featured something else that you
approximately 40 miles per hour and might have noticed—embedded
apparently did not see the child. information. This is subtle
Robert reached out and grabbed the information about yourself that you
kid just before the bus got there. The build into the story to make yourself
mom was really grateful too.” look better. Did you catch the clues
about your promotion and the boat?
While interesting, there are too many (The woman will certainly notice,
unnecessary details in it that detract believe us. Remember, they are ALL
from the emotional impact of the about subtlety.)
story—and with women, emotion is
the key. Use this version instead,
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Along with this, you also need to

leave a little information out at the ► “I was just thinking about an
end of the story to generate further experience I had today that I can’t
curiosity. For example, the end of the get out of my mind. It is something I
story just begs the question, “What saw when I was walking into work
did the boy’s mom do?” Now, the today. _______ (Fill in the blank).
woman is definitely hooked and you Has that ever happened to you?
just need some closure. Best of all, What was one of the most interesting
she is probably wondering if perhaps experiences you have had recently?”
this woman showed her gratitude by
giving Robert the best blow job of his
life or showing him the kinkiest sex ► “I just wanted to come up and
toy he’d ever seen—which means she thank you.... I have been having a
is thinking about SEX. That’s what really tough day from the moment
you want her to be thinking about. my alarm failed to go off. However,
When she hears the actual end of the one look at your smile when I walked
story, which is pretty tame in in here made up for all the rest of it.
comparison, she may feel let down So, really—thank you. You are
because she was hoping for SEX. Be exactly what I needed. So how has
sure and accommodate her . . . you your day treated you?”
don’t want to be rude, right?
► One expert recommends this one.
“I am pretty sure that the kiss she Walk up to a woman and say, “You
laid on him was one of the most look just like . . .” and then pause.
unexpected ones of his life!” You can bet she is listening (and
hoping for Angelina Jolie or
Catherine Zeta-Jones). “Yes, you
2.14
definitely look a lot like . . .” pause . .
A Mixed Bag of . “someone I need to get to know” or
Openers “someone who is too fascinating to
walk by without talking to.”
H ere are some other approaches

to try—but remember, make
them your own because the last thing
► Pretend like you already know
her. Don’t introduce yourself or say,
you want to do is sound like you are “Hey, didn’t I meet you here last
reciting something you read in a week” because that sounds too much
book! like the typical pick up line. Instead,
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walk up to her like you’ve had a their faces, but many will be
conversation before and say, “It’s charmed. (WARNING: do NOT use
great seeing you again because I had this on women who truly are
such a great time talking with you stunning because they’ve heard it too
last time. What has been going on often already.)
since then? Any new exciting
adventures?” Often, in order not to ► Another more advanced approach
look impolite or forgetful, she will go with takes a good share of gusto and
right along with you. balls is the making a scene style. This
is where you see a gorgeous woman
► If she does say she doesn’t know and literally do something to
you, pause, give her a longer look embarrass yourself and grab
and the say, WOW, I could have everyone’s attention in the process.
sworn . . . and then launch right into You might walk into a bar and fall to
an open ended question to keep the your knees, struck by her beauty. You
conversation going. You can modify might grab the people going by you
this by giving her a double take and in the lunch line and point to her,
then walk up looking slightly saying MY GOD! I didn’t know
sheepish and say, Man, you look women could be that beautiful! You
familiar but I’m embarrassed to say I could start dusting off the ground
can’t remember where we met. I’m she is about to walk on before she
so sorry but I’m glad we ran into walks by. Show her that you are
each other again.” willing to make a fool of yourself in
order to capture her attention.
► For the more advanced pick up
artist, there are a few other ► Do not, not, not use pick up lines
approaches. For example, Ross unless for some reason you have NO
Jeffries has the “stunning approach” OTHER choice because, for the most
in which you walk straight up to a part, they are weak and boring. If
woman with completely confidence you find you only have seconds to say
and tell her that she is the most something or everything else you
stunning woman you have ever seen practiced has suddenly vacated your
and you simply had to take the brain, here are a couple that don’t
chance to meet her. Before she can suck as much as most:
begin to react, lean into her space
and shake her hand. Some may push “Excuse me, but I wanted you to
you away and tell you to get out of know that if God made anything
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more sensual than your legs, he’s You should stare at the floor for a
keeping it a secret.” while, because I’m going to have you
staring at the ceiling for a week.
“I could keep flirting with you from
a distance but I don’t want to risk Pardon me—are you a screamer or
losing you before we had the chance a moaner?
to meet.”
Look, I have a date in two hours, so
“Hey, do you happen to know any we better go to your place now.
successful opening lines I could
use?” Why don’t you sit on my lap and
we’ll’ talk about the first thing that
Need some additional openers? How pops up.
about these from Tony Clink’s The
Layguide. They are not for the By now, you’ve aroused her curiosity,
weak-kneed or shy: entertained her with a story and
made her laugh. You are good to go
Nice shoes. Wanna fuck? right into a full conversation. Job
well done, you stud you.
You aren’t going to get too horny if I
sit next to you, are you?
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ALWAYS Remember YOU are the

ALWAYS Have a goal or outcome in NEVER Say “I don’t know, what do

her move on to someone else.

amounts of alcohol. On the other Restaurants: Do you know what the

attitude, the most effective approach women and a challenging on at that

is ripe or whether to get a butternut of events tend to be New Age-y, open

Cooking classes: Many women either Outdoor music events: Is anything

you’re sure to get some up close and

D on’t be afraid to use special

bear. Hold a dozen balloons or three

W hen you first think about

3. Turn forward again and look

► Use some great isolating lines like, 2.5

► If she happens to be with more

Try going out to a bar one night and

A ll this time, you’ve probably

When a man walks into a room,

message. Others she probably has no

GESTURE / SIGNAL Part of the body: VOICE

• Waits for you if you leave to go to

to sound completely spontaneous. who is making her feel that way?

side. What was the very best part of

“What do you think is the biggest

“What is your earliest memory?” “What the hell is up with Britney

“Do you think the 1980s produced

C omment on the situation or

and makes her want to hear more.

Along with this, you also need to

H ere are some other approaches

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