Why Can't I get a date?

If you are having a hard time meeting that certain someone special, maybe you
should take a look at some of the following tips. You may find many of these to be
funny but you would be surprised how many people are totally clueless regarding
these things.

PERSONAL HYGIENE:
When was the last time you really brushed and flossed your teeth? I see many
people with a mouth full of GREEN TEETH and a breath to go with it! Do not give
people the chance to say "Do not come near me again until you brush those teeth!"

When was the last time you pressed your clothes? I see many people today walking
around in wrinkled, dirty clothes. Their pants are too long and they are dragging
on the ground. And they look like they have not been washed or ironed since the
day they purchased them. Try it you will be surprised what your friends will say.

POLISH YOUR SHOES:

Do your shoes look like you just came in from the feeding the pigs? Have they
seen a shine since the day they were manufactured? TRY SOME POLISH!

Ok, You have brushed your teeth, washed and ironed your clothes. And while you are
at it, take a bath!

YOU SEE THE PERSON YOU WANT TO MEET: NOW WHAT?

Simply walk up to them introduce yourself and Act like you are really interested
in the person as a PERSON and not as another conquest:

#1:Get their name and REMEMBER IT and then use it alot during your conversation.
Men and women love to hear their name spoken.

#2. When you speak to them say very little. Ask simple questions about their day.
Get them to talk about themself, find out what interests them and let them go on
and on. They will think you are such an interesting person and you will not have
to say much at all.

If you reallly like this person and you think you would love to spend the rest of
your life with them, cut the conversation short.

WHY CUT IT SHORT?

Use the rule of 20/60:

The rule of 20/60 is this; if you like this person and they seem to like you only
give them 20 minutes of your time. Even if you want to give them an hour. If you
give them too much of your time you will not create a sense of urgentcy to see you
again. This is NOT a game but a reality. In this fast paced world we live in,
impatience runs rampant. People want everything FAST, take your time, do not rush
things. If this person is interested you can talk again and again.

more later...

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