Inspiring You to Live a Fantastic Life

No. 266 Vol. 22

July 2012

WHAT ARE YOU HARVESTING IN THE AUTUMN OF YOUR LIFE? BE PREPARED WHEN WINTER COMES

INVESTMENT CONSULTANT GUS COSIO SHARES ABOUT PREPARING FOR THE WINTER OF LIFE

You Reap What You Sow

NurtureEveryAreaofYourLifeNow andEnjoyaGoodHarvestLater
By Bo Sanchez
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By Bo Sanchez

es, make 100 percent! Dont settle for 50 percent, or 60 percent, or 80 percent, or even 90 percent if God has given you the ability to make 100 percent. Once upon a time, I used to earn P800 a month. I was a missionary and I was very happy. I loved God. Yes, there were days when I got hungry, but that hunger was very good for me. God taught me many things through my hunger. Today, Im still a missionary. But Im also an entrepreneur. I run 12 small businesses. Yes, I earn more now. And guess what: Im still very happy. I still love God very much. The only difference is that Im able to give more. And this gives me so much joy! I can now personally finance my ministry projects, like giving scholarships to poor kids, supporting missionaries or building The Feast. But theres a second reason for earning more, and Im excited to share this with you. Very few people understand this point. When you earn money, its not the money thats important; its who you become through the process of earning it. Let me give you an example. I know of two waiters. Lets call them John and Lloyd. (Both are good looking.) Both of them receive tips. In one week, John gets P1,000.

But Lloyd gets P3,000. Whats the difference? Both serve food. So why is Lloyd tipped three times more than John? Heres the answer: John just serves food. Lloyd serves food and happiness and friendship and fun and kindness and hope and affection. In other words, Lloyd serves food and feelings. How does he do that? When you enter the restaurant, Lloyd literally runs to you with excitement. He greets you like youre the King of Saudi Arabia or the Queen of England. And while youre eating, its as though he can read your mind. Its actually scary. Lloyd knows what you want even before you know you need it. Water. Napkin. Salt. Toothpick. Newspaper. Diatabs. Youre just thinking of it, and it appears right in front of you. Lloyd has a personal mission: to make you happy. Today, Lloyd is paid three times more symbols of value (money) because he has increased that value within himself and is able to give that value to you. One day, I met a wealthy friend who lost millions because of Typhoon Ondoy. His house and cars were destroyed. He said something that blew me away. I asked him, How are you? And he said, I only lost material things. Give me one year and Ill earn it all back. Your wealth isnt your money. Your wealth is who you are. I love saying this: Money is merely a symbol of value. If you want to increase your money, youve got to increase your value. The more value you have, the more symbols of value (money) will flow into your life. May your dreams come true.

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EARN AND LOVE AS MUCH AS YOU CAN

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One thing in Kerygma that captivated me is the way it reaches out to people our age. Though some of the stories are mature in nature, I can feel the heart of the people behind those stories. Often, we tend to see magazines like this as useless material, but Kerygma has something special about it, something that makes it stand out from the rest of the materials our generation reads. The testimonies and the stories of people who lived in darkness and are now in the path of righteousness inspire us and make us feel that we, in our own little ways, can make a change in this world. It enlightens our minds to what the Lord wants for us, and helps us achieve whatever mission He has for us to do. Bella Suansing III-Katarungan School of the Holy Spirit, Quezon City Kerygma became a part of me ever since we were given monthly copies of the magazine at school. It is something I could really turn to in times of trouble. It has truly changed me and helped me become the person I am today. I wasnt fond of reading religious magazines before, but something brought me so close to this magazine and I couldnt resist reading every single issue. Kerygma is great because it gives really helpful and inspiring advice for teens like us who undergo different trials and challenges. It relates to us teens an important factor because many teens nowadays are slowly drifting away from the love of God. I love reading the testimonies and Bos teachings. The experiences shared by other readers in the testimonires are truly worth reading and it gives me strength and inspiration to always believe in the grace and love of God. And of course, Bos teachings are amazing. He gives each and every one of us inspiration; I believe he is a living testimony of Gods love for all of us. Kerygmas impact in my life is indescribable. Through Kerygma, I have come closer to God and my friends have been doing the same, too. It helps strengthen my faith in our Savior and pushes me to spread His love and Word to other believers. Someday, Id love to be part of the Kerygma Family. Its a family full of love. Shara Maling III-Kagitingan School of the Holy Spirit, Quezon City I miss Kerygma. Im so sad that I was not able to read it when I entered Law school. Its good that now I am able to read it online. Eva J. Kerygma Family member Im a seaman and an avid Kerygma reader since 2001. Kerygma is my source of strength and inspiration. Learning from gifted writers and the testimonies of people bring me closer to God while Im away from home and family. Jorge F. Kerygma Family member

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Breathe
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few months ago, my dad was hospitalized even though he didnt feel sick. Well, something was surely wrong with him because he had blood in his stool. But other than that, he was feeling fine. When youre in your eighties, you dont take things like those lightly. But Dad is Superman or at least he thinks he still is so in his matter-of-fact, downplayed text, he says, Your sister insisted that I check in at the hospital although I dont see any reason why. Anyway, Im OK. Nothing to worry about. When I visited him, he was telling me that he felt fine and was whining about why he had to be there. The doctors were running some tests on him so he had to stay in the hospital for a few days. The longer he stayed, the more Dad felt weaker and weaker. And it wasnt because there was really anything wrong with him. (The tests all said he was in tip-top shape.) He said it was the environment that made him think he was sick, so he acted sick. When he remembered that he wasnt really ailing and that nothing was wrong with him, he started acting the way he felt. He sat up when he ate his food. He became more energetic. He walked unaccompanied to the toilet lugging his dextrose along. And before long, he was out of the hospital with a clean bill of health. Dads experience is a classic example of how powerful our minds are. If you believe youre sick, youll soon be sick. Thats why the Bible teaches us to believe and act according to that belief. A number of times in the Gospels, Jesus attributes a persons healing or deliverance to his faith, to what he believed in. Hebrews 11:1 says, To have faith is to be sure of the things we hope for, to be certain of the things we cannot see. In the Amplified Bible version of this passage, it says that faith perceives as real fact what is not revealed to the senses. You havent seen it. You havent touched it. You havent smelled or tasted it. But you believe that what you prayed for is already yours. I learned about exercising this kind of expectant faith as a young Christian. Our elder would preach about faith and tell us, If you prayed that God wont make it rain today, then dont bring an umbrella! With childlike faith I practiced that. And besides, I hated bringing an umbrella along. So in all my four years of college two years of which I was commuting to and from school I never once brought an umbrella. When I went out of class and it was raining, Id pray, Lord, Your daughter needs to walk to the LRT station (or to the car in the parking lot). It would be really embarrassing and inconvenient if I get drenched in my clothes. So can You please order the rain to stop?

By Rissa Singson-Kawpeng

SURE ABOUT WHAT YOULL GET

Expectant faith is believing that God can deliver on His promises

And according to my faith, the rain would either completely stop or subside to a light drizzle, enough for me to get to my destination without getting soaked. Or if it didnt stop, God would send someone to share an umbrella with me. What are you praying for? A house? A lifetime partner? Money to send yourself, a sibling or a child to school? Healing? A reconciliation between parties in conflict? Now start believing and acting that your prayer has been granted.
Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours. (Mark 11:24) Email me at justbreatherissa@gmail.com or follow me on Facebook.

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Departments. Special Section.
21 You Reap What You Sow 22 Gather the Fruits of Your Labor 28 Prepare for Winter

Testimonies.

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3 Just Breathe Sure About What Youll Get 36 Faith@Work Career Lesson No. 1: There Is No Plan 37 K Preacher One World Alive

25 Out of the Comfort Zone and Into the Fight: The Mekeni Story 32 The Values That I Keep, I Pass On

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ABOUT OUR COVER MODEL

chairman of the board and publisher BO SANCHEZ editor-in-chief and production manager RISSA SINGSON-KAWPENG managing editor TESS V. ATIENZA creative director REN CORTES graphics director REY DE GUZMAN assistant layout designer PIO MALLARI contributing writers in this issue OSY ERICA, JOY SOSOBAN photographers DANIEL SORIANO, DAKILA ANGELES columnists BISHOP TED BACANI JR, ALVIN BARCELONA, ARIEL DRIZ sales and marketing manager JOSEPH MARTINEZ administration and finance manager WENG CEQUEA
KERYGMA. A Greek word meaning Proclamation of the Gospel. It is a Catholic inspirational magazine. It aims to be an evangelistic tool to all nations, providing Scriptural, practical and orthodox teachings to Catholics, particularly those in the Catholic Renewal, as an alternative to present-day magazines. It is also committed to fostering the renewal and unity of the whole Christian people. Philippine copyright Shepherds Voice Publications, Inc. 2012. No part of this magazine may be reproduced without permission. KERYGMA is published monthly by Shepherds Voice Publications, Inc., whose editorial and business offices are located at 60 Chicago St., Cubao, 1109 Quezon City. Tels: 725-9999, 411-7874, 725-1190. Fax: 727-5615 Email: editsvp@ shepherdsvoice.com.ph. Website: www.shepherdsvoice.com.ph

Erlynn Clare Madridejo, or Lynch, is in the spring and summer seasons of her life. She continues to plant good seeds and work hard in every area of her life. Being the breadwinner of her family, yet living independently, she tries to save for her future, as she does not want to be a burden to her family in her old age. But more than tangible security, she tries to prepare herself in one thing that she regards as most important in her life: her relationship with God. She nurtures this by immersing herself in community life at the Makati Feast where she not only get spiritual nourishment but also serves in the music, outreach and intercessory ministries, among others. Lynch is presently working as manager in the Finance Operations business of Pilipinas Shell Petroleum Corporation.
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ne of the best ways to be efficient in your work is to have inbox zero every day, meaning that all your emails are read. Here are steps to help you do that: 1. If it takes less than two minutes, deal with it now. Never deal with it later. 2. Delete more, filter more. 3. Write short replies. 4. Use Instapaper (www.instapaper.com) or Read It Later (getpocket.com) for interesting links sent to you. 5. Delete even more.
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Quick Health Tip:

OFU: The intake of tofu reduces risk of stomach cancer. Replacing the intake of meat and dairy with tofu and other soy products would increase intake of folate, vitamin K, calcium, magnesium, iron and fiber. This would lower cholesterol intake, which in turn would lower the risk of several chronic diseases, including cardiovascular diseases.
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BEST FRIENDS ARE FOREVER FOR MEN

pHILIppINES IS NO. 1 IN BELIEF IN GOD

hen it comes to best friends, men tend to be more consistent, while women do strategic investment. According to a report in the journal Nature Scientific Reports, a womans no. 1 contact during her 20s is most often a male, but by the age of 45, shell most likely be calling another woman probably her daughter more than anyone else. Men show a much more consistent pattern, with a tendency to be linked to a female best friend their entire lives. What this looks like to us is a strategic investment in social capital on the part of women that men just dont do, said study researcher Robin Dunbar, an anthropologist at the University of Oxford. Since its not easy to track personal relationships across the entire life span, Dunbar and his colleagues turned to phone records. Using a database of the mobile phone calls and texts of more than three million Europeans over seven months, the researchers looked at patterns by age and gender. Starting at age 18 for women and 22 for men, people usually have an opposite sex best friend. Women keep this pattern for about 14 years (until the age of 32), after which their calling pattern turns more female-friendly. Dunbar said this difference could be evolutionary. Women might focus on their own reproduction and then, once they have daughters, pour their energies into supporting them and any grandchildren.
Source: http://msn.com

he truest of true believers can still be found in developing countries and Catholic societies. And number one on that list is the Philippines. This was the result of a survey called Beliefs about God Across Time and Countries released by researchers from the University of Chicago. According to the research, belief in God is slowly declining in most countries around the world. The Philippines, however, was the country with the highest belief, with 94 percent of Filipinos saying they were strong believers who had always believed. Tom Smith, who directed the General Social Survey of the National Opinion Research Center of the university, said, The Philippines is both developing and Catholic. Religion, which is mainly Catholic, is very emotionally strong there. The report covered data from 30 countries that participated in at least two surveys in 1991, 1998 or 2008. The study found that while overall belief in God is declining, three countries saw increases. These are Israel, Russia and Slovenia.
Source: http://www.christiancentury.org

St. Katharine Drexel

Born and Died: Philadelphia, USA, 1858 March 3, 1955, USA Notable Facts: St. Katharine founded the Sisters of the Blessed Sacrament for Black and Native American peoples, whose members would work for the betterment of those they were called to serve. From age 33 until she died in 1955, she dedicated her life and a fortune worth $20 million to do this work. Mother Drexel took part in opening the first mission school for Indians in Sta. Fe in 1894. Other schools quickly followed. At the time of her death, there were more than 500 Sisters teaching in 63 schools throughout the country. Mother Drexel is the second recognized American-born saint.

Saints at a Glance

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abi nila, ako raw ang black sheep sa pamilya namin. Kasi ang mga magulang ko at lahat ng kapatid ko ay mababait. Ako lang ang pasaway. Nag-abroad ako, nabuntis at panay ang pressure sa akin ng agency na i-abort ko ang baby, kasi legal naman ang abortion sa Australia. Naisip ko na nga rin yun, para tapos agad ang problema at ma-maintain ko pa ang trabaho ko.. (They said I am the black sheep in my family. My parents and all my siblings are good. I was the only one who turned out bad. I went abroad, became pregnant, and was pressured by the employment agency to abort my baby since abortion in Australia is legal anyway. I also thought of abortion as an easy way out so I could maintain my job.) With tears flowing from her eyes, Sandra (not her real name) recalled her journey from Australia to the Philippines, up to the time she entered the Grace to Be Born shelter against her will. Her Misadventures Sandra comes from a rural town in Negros Oriental, from a family steeped in religious values. Her father is a member of the parish pastoral council while her mother is active in many religious organizations. So, she herself cant understand why she grew up to be rebellious, away from the Church and any form of religion. Eventually, she went to Australia to try her luck abroad as a caregiver. She found a nice and easy job where the pay was great. She was able to buy jewelry and expensive cosmetics and other fancy things she had only dreamed about in Negros. Then one day, all her dreams came crashing down. She fell in love (or at least she thought she did), went too far with her boyfriend, and missed her period. The pregnancy test was positive. She took another test, hoping there was a mistake, but it still showed she was definitely pregnant. The employment agency that had sent her to Australia learned about it and was furious, as she still owed them part of her placement fee. And so, they did everything to convince her to abort the baby. But every time she was tempted to agree to an abortion, the picture of the Infant Jesus hanging on the wall of her room kept her from carrying out her decision. Sandra admitted that she was not a prayerful woman and rarely went to church. But for reasons she couldnt understand, she had brought a picture of the Infant Jesus to Australia and hung it on her wall. Going Back to the Sheepfold After weeks of agonizing over her problem, she decided to just return to the Philippines. Her parents were furious when they learned about her pregnancy. They nearly disowned her. But her siblings were supportive of her. Her brother searched the Internet and came across the website of Grace to Be Born, a ministry dedicated to saving the unborn from abortion, providing a shelter for unwed pregnant mothers and abandoned babies. He called up Rey Ortega, the ministry head, who told him he could bring his sister anytime. Sandra initially objected to stay at the shelter but her siblings desire prevailed. She entered the shelter last February. Sandra was a difficult patient, always moody, hating herself and everybody in the shelter. She refused to join the community prayers, a Grace staff recalled. We just had to be extra patient

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THE BLACK SHEEp HAS RETURNED
By Rey Ortega
with her and understand where she was coming from. We loved her just the same and prayed hard for her. Every Sunday, all mothers and the Grace staff attend the Pasig Feast in Valle Verde, a prayer meeting with Holy Mass and a talk by a lay preacher. Reluctantly, Sandra joined the group (or shed face the consequence of being all alone in the shelter!). During her very first attendance at The Feast, Sandra found peace with God and with herself. Returning to the Grace shelter, she called up her mom and asked for forgiveness, saying in between sobs, Mom, I love you so much. I would like to return to you after I give birth. Her mom said she and Sandras father had long forgiven her and would be waiting for her in Negros. Due to old age and frail health, they apologized they couldnt travel to Pasig to visit her. But the miracle didnt stop there. Being a Shepherd Herself When her elder brother visited her in the Grace shelter, Sandra told him about her conversion experience after attending The Feast and how she now looked forward to attending every Sunday. She even invited her brother. Out of curiosity, and so as not to disappoint his sister, her brother did attend. And he kept returning every Sunday, until on April 8, at the Grand Easter Feast, he, too, brought along his wife. Sandra is now excitedly waiting for her baby to be born. She looks forward to bringing her baby home to her parents and other siblings in Negros. The grace of God healed the wounded hearts of Sandra, her mom and dad and a baby was saved from abortion. And not only that. Even the lives of other people, like Sandras brother and his wife, were changed for the better. Truly awesome miracles! Grace to Be Born is located at 53 Dr. Sixto Avenue, Kapasigan, Pasig. For inquiries, contact Rey Ortega at 0917-816-4700 or 0922-8597035, or email at reylindo.ortega@gmail.com. Landline is (632) 501-0965. Donations are most welcome and may be deposited to their Banco de Oro Savings Account 397-005-9687 under the account name: Grace to Be Born.
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would like to improve my relationship with God. I want to be closer to Him. Before, I used to feel that God had His way of communicating with me. But now, I feel that there is something wrong or missing in my relationship with Him. I keep on praying but there are times when I dont feel my prayer, and it makes me feel really guilty. It feels like Im ungrateful even if Im thankful for His blessings in my life. I hear Mass every Sunday. I used to read the Bible, but I stopped now and instead read Didache, Companion and Sabbath. I also tune in regularly to Preacher in Blue Jeans. When I do this, I feel the solemnity of the moment with God. But when Im alone, I dont know what to say to God. In my heart, though, I feel that I have a lot to say to Him. There are times, too, when I doubt if Im doing the right thing because of my past sins. They seem like ghosts that dont want to go away. I keep on telling myself that God has already forgiven me, but I still dont feel free. Please help me to understand myself and how to be a worthy Christian. Goody

Dear Goody, There are a couple of things that would be good for you to reflect on. The first is that faith is not all about feelings. Sometimes the feelings will be there, but more often than not they will probably be absent. This is why we call it faith. Faith is about making a decision to sustain a relationship with God, whether we like it or not, whether we feel it or not, or whether we are worthy or not. If you are going to measure your faith level or goodness according to your feelings, you will more often than not be disappointed. The same goes for the whole thing of being worthy. None of us are worthy or deserve to be loved by God. We are all sinners and stand under Gods judgment, but He chooses not to inflict His punishment or wrath on us. Instead, He forgives us our sins. This is an incredible act of His love for us and we should be eternally grateful for His generosity. Understanding the true nature of Gods love and forgiveness will help you leave behind your past sins because that is precisely what God has done thrown them away and moved on to better things. This is what God has decided to do with our sins. Finally, it is critical that we understand that at the heart of our relationship with God is our decision to love Him and be in a relationship with Him. Ask God to show you His love more deeply. At the same time, reflect on the Scripture texts that speak to you of Gods love and then make a decision to accept His love and forgiveness. You will realize that you are worthy only because God makes you worthy. Decide to believe this truth and pray that God strengthens your belief in His goodness. Fr. Steve Tynan, MGL

Fr. Steve Tynan, MGL, is the spiritual director of the Light of Jesus Community and the Elim Communities. Fun-loving and ever ready for anything, this Australian cleric is presently the parish priest of St. Benedicts Parish in Don Enrique Heights in Quezon City.

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IS LIGATION ALLOWED IN OUR RELIGION?

am expecting to deliver my second baby in September 2012. When I went to my OBGyne for my regular prenatal checkup and handed her my ultrasound result, she was so happy to know that I am expecting a baby girl this time. My firstborn was a boy. I delivered him on July 29, 2010 through a Caesarian Section operation. It was painful and very expensive. I had a traumatic experience because I had a prolonged labor that ended in a CS. Because of the CS, my husband and I were advised to have our second baby after two to three years. We opted to use natural family planning methods because there are no side effects and I obey Gods commandments on conception. However, in less than two years, I got pregnant again. Now, my OB has advised me to have a ligation right after delivering my second baby this September. I already discussed this with my husband and he said it would be better for me and for us. But to be honest I am not into such a thing. And my mother told me not to do it because I am still young. Is ligation allowed in the Catholic Church? Please enlighten me. Mabelle
When Fr. Rudy Horst came to the Philippines in 1984, he was first assigned to the Immaculate Conception Parish in Cubao. It was where he came in contact with the still young Light of Jesus Community. In 1990, he moved to Christ the King Mission Seminary, where he still serves as one of the spiritual directors of the seminarians and teaches Religious Education. He also teaches Holy Scriptures at the Maryhill School of Theology and the Divine Word School of Theology in Tagaytay.

Dear Mabelle, Congratulations on your second baby to be born soon! I understand your concern and the concern of your OBGyne who surely means well. Unfortunately, the Catholic Church does not allow ligation. Years ago, I knew of a very good Catholic couple who, like you, used natural family planning methods. They had three girls and the doctor told the mother that one more birth might be fatal for her. Youd better have a ligation, she was told. She consulted a priest who told her that, in her case, her life was too important, given her husband and three kids, that in such a case a ligation might be allowed as an exception. When she was rolled into the operating room, she saw the crucifix on the wall and told the nurses she would not go through with the ligation. The couple was extra careful, and yet she got pregnant again. She was advised to abort it but she refused. Nine months later, she gave birth by Caesarian Section to their long desired baby boy. It was as if God had rewarded the couple for remaining faithful to the teachings of the Church. Trust Him and I am sure He will reward you also for your continuous faithfulness. I pray for you, for your husband and your kids. Fr. Rudy Horst, S.V.D.

Email your questions to editsvp@shepherdsvoice.com.ph. Or if you need to talk to someone, call (632) 726-4709 or 726-6728 to contact a Light of Jesus counselor. Telephone counseling is 24 hours from Monday to Friday, and 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. on Saturdays. Face-to-face counseling is by appointment. For correspondence counseling, email lojcounseling@yahoo.com or go to www.kerygmafamily.com.

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Pregnant? Confused? Abortion is not the answer. Contact Grace to Be Born at 0917-816-4700 or email reylindo.ortega@gmail.com. You may also contact Sr. Pilar Versoza at Pro-life Philippines. Call (632) 733-7027 or text 0920945-5494 or email pilar.verzosa@gmail.com.
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magine this: 13,000 people and 975 volunteer servants from more than 30 Feasts all over Metro Manila and the nearby provinces packed in a 9,130-square-meter hall. The SMX Convention Center had never seen anything this big on Easter. But if you think about it, what is there to be surprised about? Easter Sunday ought to be one ultra-mega-super celebration: death has been defeated and victory has been won. Its time to rise up with Jesus! Makati Feast Builder Randy Borromeo opened the Grand Easter Feast last April 8 with a powerful proclamation: Jesus is alive! Kerygma editor-in-chief Rissa Singson-Kawpeng, BGC Feast Builder George Gabriel and worship leader Migs Ramirez then rendered equally powerful song performances, giving people a glimpse of Jesus journey from Good Friday to Easter Sunday. Afterwards, kids from the Awesome Kids Ministry, all clothed in white, took the stage, shouting with a voice of triumph. Youth ministers joined in, as they danced with victory and waved colorful banners. Firing up the joyous occasion even more were the Kerygma 5, who then ushered the huge crowd to a hope-filled worship. Bounce! In his Grand Easter Feast message, PICC Feast Builder Bo Sanchez described life as full of potholes. These potholes are our problems, our Good Fridays, but they are gold mines as well: dark

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and dirty but abundant in gold. He encouraged everyone to believe that all is well, even if it doesnt seem so at the moment. With the unbreakable material God has equipped us with, we can bounce back from our potholes and enjoy the gold that has been prepared for us. Celebrate! The Akafellas then treated the Feasters with enjoyable yet meaningful music. By their final song, the crowd was up on their feet, dancing along to the lively tunes. A Eucharistic celebration completed the festive Easter Sunday. Fr. Alex Balatbat, Fr. Steve Tynan, Fr. Lito de Vejas, and Bishop Jesse Mercado of the Archdiocese of Paraaque officiated the sacrament. In his homily, Bishop Jesse urged everyone to rise up immediately, to persevere in difficulty, and to wake up from slumber and break through our cocoons of anger and anxiety. Do not be afraid. If the Lord can be with us in death, how can He not be with us in life? was his reminder. A few seconds later, upon Bos instruction, thousands of colorful balls marked ALL IS WELL flew across the large hall. Everyone was excited to catch a ball of blessing and to throw it back up in the air. Truly, in being a blessing to others, we become blessed even more. By the end of the Grand Easter Feast, the crowd of 13,000 left the hall, all caught up in the joy of Jesus resurrection, ready to rise up, bounce and celebrate!

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ONE DAY SOON, ILL BE ABLE TO pLAY MY GUITAR AGAIN

By Adjarael A. Malali

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On their wedding night, the bride tells her husband, Hon, can you forgive me when I confess that I have false teeth? The husband looks relieved and says, Thank goodness! I can now take off my wig and my artificial legs and relax! A man notices a string on his friends finger. Why do you have that string on your finger? he asks. My wife tied it on to remind me to mail her letter, his friend replies. And did you? The friend nodded. Then why do you still have that string on? he asks again. Because I want to remind myself to tell my wife that she forgot to put a stamp on it. A woman met an old friend at the mall. I saw the doctor today about my loss of memory, the woman tells her friend. And what did he do? her friend asks. He made me pay in advance, she replies.

used to enjoy a simple life with my little dreams. Thats how I was before I became a regular attendee of The Feast at the Philippine International Convention Center. The people who go there call it the happiest place on earth. And I believe that, too! At The Feast, I have many reasons to celebrate life despite my sinfulness. I find comfort at The Feast when I am down, and I get to share my happiness when my heart leaps for joy. It has created so many great things in my life that have strengthened my faith. For example, when Allen (my wife now) and I lifted our prayers for our wedding day and wrote them at the back of the thanksgiving envelope, God answered our prayer with a passionate response. Would you believe 98 percent of our wedding expenses were shouldered by family and friends the photo and video coverage, bridal car, wedding cake, wine, flowers for the church, our wedding rings, giveaways, wedding invitations, our wedding attire, Jem can only hold his and so on. All we had to take care guitar right now, but his of was the food. Even the caterer heart continues to sing for the Lord. gave us reasonable and affordable prices. I cannot thank God enough for everything He has done for us. He made our wedding day so memorable and extravagant, Allen and I could only cry in thanksgiving. And in December 2011, when we celebrated our first wedding anniversary, we found out that Allen was pregnant. Then on December 14, 2011, I had an accident that lacerated my left hand, especially my two fingers. I was rushed to the hospital and my hand was operated on. I was confined for three days. I texted my caring group head, Myee Campos, for prayers because I was afraid of what would happen to my hand. Then I remembered Bo Sanchezs definition of courage at The Feast: Courage is not the absence of fear but doing it afraid! So I prayed, Lord, I know Im so afraid, but let Your great love fill my heart and I know Youll take good care of me here in the hospital. I was smiling when I got out of the hospital and went home. But depression soon hit me because I couldnt do the things I used to do, like playing the guitar. I tried hard to move my two fingers that had been operated on but was able to move only one. I held back my tears as I called my wife and told her what had happened. Be patient. Give time for it to heal, she whispered to me. It took several hours before what she said sank in. And I remembered another thing I learned from The Feast: we have a choice to be bitter in life or be the best that we can be. I decided I wanted to be the best that I can be, and I know that God wouldnt abandon me. He is one compassionate God who is so crazy about us. Because of this, I know for sure that, one day, I will be able to play my guitar again!

Share how The Feast has affected your life. Email your story to editsvp@ shepherdsvoice.com. ph, together with your photo.

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Three postponed weddings paved the way for Lindsay to find a new love: love for herself.

Three Weddings and a Broken Heart

By Lindsay Mariano as told to Osy Erica

e stood there in front of me, the love of my life for the past two years, the man I had planned to spend my future with. His face was ashen, his posture unsure. I knew right away that something was wrong. But not a single word came out of his mouth. With tears flowing, I kept on asking him why. What did I do? What have I done wrong? You told me we would make this work. I begged for an answer, but he remained silent. I have been a good daughter, a loving sister, a nurturing girlfriend. I have been good even to my dogs. I loved him. I loved his family. Still, this happened, I questioned God. The pain was unexplainable. It would have been just like any other breakup, only I was already staring at my wedding dress and was just five hours away from changing my relationship status from single to married.
My First Wedding In the past decade of my life, Ive had three romantic relationships, and for some reason, I would always end up getting engaged. It was 2002 when my then-boyfriend Ryan* asked for my hand in marriage. He was 28 the marrying age for most and I was 23. Ryan came from a well-off family but had the humblest heart. He was an honest man, devout and
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respectful of my opinions. He had the qualities every girl could ever want, but to the young me, all those spelled boring. And, although he was at the right age to get married, he was admittedly not ready to settle down. He was only afraid of losing me, thus the proposal. To me, that reason was a reflection of an immature love, one that relied on security and was superficial in nature. Add to that my boredom, and my decision became clearer. I didnt bother to wear the engagement ring anymore, and after almost five years, we parted ways. My Second Wedding After two years, I met Hugh,* a British citizen from London. It was the first time I was in a relationship with a non-local, and friends warned me of foreigners tendencies to immediately propose marriage. I didnt know where that belief came from, but Hugh proved that it had some truth to it. A year into our romance, he popped the question. It was an easy yes. We didnt have any conflicts in personality and ours was a smooth-sailing union, save for his being in London most of the time. So for the second time, I was engaged. December 2005 was the date we set for when I would become Mrs. Hugh, but four months before the ceremony, questions about my values and integrity started to come up. He began to get cold feet, too, and told me he didnt have the means to pursue the wedding. Later on, he became doubtful of my intentions, thinking I was only in it for his money. The loss of trust was heartbreaking, and that led to a mutual decision for us to cancel the wedding. He continued to pursue me even after the breakup, but I was adamant. What a burden it would be to always have to prove that I was trustworthy. Hugh and I remained friends, but the pain lingered. To cope, I went on dates nonstop. Drinking also became an everyday habit. I spent my weekends, even weekdays in clubs, not knowing where my life was headed. A few more months passed until I could say I had fully recovered. But had I?
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My Third Wedding In 2009, four years into the single life, I was assigned to Cebu for work. Three months after the move, just when I had resolved to stop dating, I met my third boyfriend, Chris.* Early on in the relationship, I opened up to him about my life and my past failed relationships. He knew of my postponed weddings and succumbed to my newly instated law: Do not give me a ring until you are proposing. I was in this for the long haul; fling was not in my dictionary. One year into the relationship, in August 2010, he asked for my hand in marriage. But the proposal wasnt the kind you see in movies that makes you feel all giddy inside. He just handed me the ring without any words. I wasnt convinced that he was 100 percent sure, and my disappointment led to a terrible fight. Seeing a ring and celebrating our anniversary as a couple got me thinking that it was indeed a marriage proposal, but I was so wrong. Although it wasnt the dream proposal, I chose to focus on the past 11 months of wonderful memories together. A second proposal from Chris came, as his mother bought an heirloom-type ring for him to give me, but the second time was a disappointment still. Even his family wasnt convinced that he was ready to wed. Despite my doubts about his sincerity, we went on with the planning. I took care of every detail possible, while he would just casually agree to almost everything. Somehow, that made me feel there was a chance that he was getting the feel of it, and, perhaps, was just as excited as I was. I had to persistently convince myself we were together on this. The journey toward our October 2011 wedding was as rocky as our relationship was turning out to be. He lacked the enthusiasm a soon-to-bemarried man ought to have. The pampering and sweet Chris I knew from the previous year was gone. Our fights had become terrible, of which verbal abuse was a constant ingredient. Alcohol invaded our relationship. His days werent complete without getting drunk. I would often beg or demand for affection, compromising my personal values, going so low just to keep us together. Soon, we were as emotionally distant from each other as the North and South poles. The fights got the best of me, pushed me to lose my self-esteem, and I didnt know that I had slowly developed insecurities. Struggling with these turned me into someone I no longer knew. I was violent during some of our fights, thinking it was my way to get his pity or his attention. Despite the heartaches, I remained a faithful and loving girlfriend. I gave in to his needs and supported him in all his endeavors as my way of proving to him that I was still worth it, no matter how terrible our relationship was becoming. There was a nagging need for me to keep proving myself, my worth, when I myself wasnt convinced anymore. In February 2011, eight months before the wedding, my doubts intensified. In a heated argument, he uttered that he wanted out. A second attempt to call it off followed in May, after which I asked him again if he was completely sure he wanted to continue with the wedding. I was concerned that my family would be dragged into a forthcoming mess, but he assured me that it was still a go. A month before the wedding, in a Discovery Weekend we attended, he manifested again his uncertainty. He was much like Peter, betraying me thrice, and it was not easy to accept. I fell into bouts of depression. I would call my sisters in Manila but kept mum about my troubling relationship with Chris. All they would hear were my

During her bouts of depression, Lindsay found comfort in Mama Mary, holding on to her image as she cries to sleep.

The wedding dress that Lindsay would have worn on that heartbreaking day.

cries over the phone. To colleagues, I was a picture of enthusiasm for the wedding, but deep inside, I was depressed, confused and constantly asking myself why I was in the relationship. My self-esteem went downhill; I lost my identity. At night, I would curl up in bed, hold on to my small image of Mary Help of Christians, and pray incessantly for her to save me. Repeatedly, I cried myself to sleep. Thoughts of ending my life entered my mind. It felt like it was the next best thing to do. Thankfully, I survived those nights until our wedding day, October 8, 2011, came. But nothing could have prepared me for the tragedy that was to come. I remember everything vividly. In the hotel room, as I was being made up five hours before the wedding ceremony, I suddenly found myself surrounded by my family, friends, his family, and, eventually, him. I was surprised by their presence. Chriss sister uttered the most hurtful words any bride could hear on her wedding day. He cant do it, Linds. Chris didnt speak. Not a word. I felt like my heart was literally being pulled out of my chest and squeezed tightly until I couldnt breathe. I went hysterical. I fervently asked him why. He remained silent. My friend Arun Gogna, The Feast Alabang Senior Builder, entered the room, not fully understanding the heartwrenching situation he was seeing. I held Chriss hand and asked Arun to pray over

us. After his The love that Lindsay prayer, I exhaled receives from her community a breath of relief and friends eases the pain of rejection. and let go of his hand. Chris was then prompted to leave the room. I then embraced my sister, crying more than ever and asking why such a thing could happen to a good person like me. My mom reminded me that Jesus was good, too, but He endured much suffering. The following Monday, I flew back to Manila, wishing everything was just a very bad dream. A Broken Heart, A New Love By far, my last supposed wedding was the most painful. The damage was more real, more etched, more life-changing. I admit I may not have been the perfect girlfriend, but there was simply no justification for being dumped on ones wedding day. And a third postponed wedding didnt really look good on any girls love life resume. I admit, in my failed relationships, I had my share of misgivings. I was very controlling to a point; I wanted everything done my way. My plans were golden rules, and that goes for the other aspects of my life as well. I was dependent on other people for my happiness. I didnt stand my ground; I made compromises, the worst of which was giving up my spirituality. I was in a hurry to get married because I was scared to be alone. I wanted to prove that I could be good at this. And now, God is slowly changing all of these in me. For the first time, I am relying on something other than myself. I now live by Gods grace. I have learned to be humble and to believe more in His plans. I dont know has become a new part of my vocabulary. I have also discovered a new love: love for myself, one that is anchored on Gods unconditional love. I am learning to let go of my fear of being alone. My hearts desire is still to be a wife and a mom, and I know Gods plan in answering that prayer is way better than mine. I cant say that I have totally forgiven those whove hurt me, but I take a little dosage of forgiveness every day. The worst is over the groom bailing out on me on my wedding day and I am choosing not to dwell on the pain. I want my love story to end with me being Christian enough to wish well those who have hurt me. And I know, in Gods perfect time, it will happen. At this point, Im at the best place I have ever been in my entire lifetime. Im where Im supposed to be. I will fall in love again. My next relationship will be better than the rest. I am hopeful, because I am loved by my God. *not their real names
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Care and support from her mom Nenen and sisters Lelet and Yanie helps Lindsay in her healing.

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m now 46 and reaping the fruits of what I planted in the earlier years of my spiritual life. The Light of Jesus Family is also growing in leaps and bounds. But when youre my age, you also start thinking of what you will leave behind. When I was a young boy, my father used to pick me up from school. One day, I had a burning question in my mind. I swallowed hard before I blurted out the question, Dad, what will I inherit from you? Why do you ask? my father replied. This morning, my classmates and I were talking about inheritance. One of my classmates said hed be inheriting their huge tracts of land. Another boy said hed be inheriting their hardware store. When it was my turn to speak, I realized I had nothing to say. You dont own a farm or a store. My father chuckled and said, Son, youll inherit my values. My By Bo Sanchez honesty. My work ethic. My sense of responsibility. My faith. My love. Thats what youll inherit from me. I nodded. Thanks, Dad. After a few minutes, I asked, Uh, are you sure you dont own land? Or a hardware store? And we both laughed. Friends, have you thought about it? What will you leave behind for your children and grandchildren? Will you be saddling them with a big burden when you retire? If so, dont fret. Theres still time to plant new seeds that will bear the kind of fruits that you want later in life. Because, in the end, you will reap what you sow.

You Reap What You Sow

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Gather the of Your

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By Bo Sanchez

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ne day, I was talking to a priest. He said he had started smoking in the seminary. Ironically, he said it was the priests who had taught him how to smoke. He started when he was 17 years old. And he smoked for the next 33 years. Hed usually consume two packs a day. When friends told him to stop, hed say, Im a priest. I dont have a woman in my life. Let me have my cigarette! But as the years went by, his smokers cough became very bad. When he hit 50, he finally stopped because his doctor told him, You have emphysema. But it was too late. When I met him, he was in his 50s but it was like he was in his 70s. He couldnt take a few steps without catching his breath. Many days, he could no longer celebrate Mass because he wasnt strong enough. I felt so sad for this man. His story is a classic example of people reaping what they have sown, or what happens in the season of autumn. Autumn represents the ages 41 to 60. I know I look like Im 25 (at least, thats what my friends tell me whenever I treat them out for lunch). But Im actually turning 46 this month. (Im as shocked as you are.) So yes, Im in the autumn of my life. To me, autumn represents harvest. My age is the age of reckoning. At my age, Im harvesting what Ive planted all these past years good or bad. The Bible says people will reap exactly what they sow (Galatians 6:8). If I planted good, Ill be harvesting good. If I planted bad, Ill be harvesting bad. Today, Id like to talk to those who are younger than me. My main message? Be careful with what you plant in your garden. Heres the truth: What you plant in your garden in your teens and 20s is what youll harvest in your 40s, 50s and 60s. Let me give you three examples: 1. Your body is a garden. 2. Your family is a garden. 3. Your finances are a garden.

Your Body Is a Garden The priest I mentioned above planted the wrong seeds, so he suffered the consequences of his actions later in life. If youre young, I urge you to plant the right seeds in the garden of your body because youll be eating the fruits of what you planted. Another example? Dont ever make the mistake of saying, I can eat what I want to eat. Im young anyway. Last year, my mother was rushed to the hospital because she had difficulty breathing. There was phlegm in her breathing pipe. She recovered from it, but it made me realize how hard it is to make someone healthy if theyre already advanced in age. Ive taught my mother how to eat right. For example, shes taking my Morning Power Drink. (For those who dont know what this is, visit www.52healinghabits.com for my Habit #1 eReport.) At my advice, shes also avoiding meat and eating mostly vegetables now. But the problem is shes already 87. Her body is already weak. Changing her diet now wont make her healthy overnight. It wont be easy to flush out all the toxins shes ingested all these
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years. I wish we had worked on her diet when she was 20 or 30 or 40 years old. (But I wasnt alive yet then!) Because what you eat in your 20s or 30s will manifest in your body in your 40s and 50s and 60s. If youre young today, I urge you to eat the right food now while youre young. Change into a healthy diet today! So that youll harvest health when you grow older. The same principle works in your family life as well. Your Family Is a Garden I know of a guy who is exactly my age 46 years old. Twenty years ago, he abandoned his wife and three kids for a younger woman. He just walked out of the house. Later on, he tried reconciling with his kids, but it was very difficult. Today, he is reaping what he has sown. Some of his kids are making the wrong choices, going with the wrong crowd. Im not saying that all broken families will produce broken kids. Thats not true. Some of my friends come from broken families, but God has healed them and theyre living very successful lives. But Im just pointing to a very important fact: be careful with what you plant in the garden of your family life. Whenever my sisters and I are with my mother, its always a happy time. We talk, we laugh and we swap stories with her. She is surrounded by so much love! Why? Because all her life, my mother planted love in her childrens hearts. She raised us well. She spent time with us. And shes now harvesting what she planted a long time ago. My final example? The principle works in your financial life, too. Your Finances Are a Garden After my financial seminar, a 70-year-old man said, Bo, where were you when I needed you? Where were you 40 years ago? I said, Forty years ago, I was playing with marbles, having fun spider wrestling and enjoying patintero.
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He sighed, Bo, I wish someone told me 40 years ago what youre telling me now. The old man told me his sad story. He had worked all his life and retired as the manager of a huge food company. But he never saved. Using the language of my article here, he never planted in his garden. Today, he is very poor. He cant even buy his own medicines. He also mentioned that his kids were very kind and always gave him money. But he feels bad that he still bothers them for his needs. When he left the seminar, his burning resolution was to bring his kids and grandkids to attend my seminar. He was also telling me how moved he was when I explained (in the seminar) that my two young boys, Bene and Francis, are now investing in the stock market. For example, though Francis isnt earning yet, he invests the Christmas money he gets from his ninangs and ninongs (godparents) in the stock market. If he keeps it up, hell be a millionaire when he reaches 18. My kids are planting very early. And their harvest will be bigger than mine. Friend, you need to plant early in the garden of your finances. Teach your kids to invest. Plant financial literacy in their lives. Let me say it again: Be careful with what you plant in the garden of your life! Email me at bosanchez@kerygmafamily.com or follow me on Facebook.

Bos Action Steps:

1. What is the state of the following areas of your life? a. spiritual b. physical c. family d. work e. relationships 2. Consider your goal for each area and then check how far or near you are to them. What can you do today to ensure that you will get the harvest that you want later in life?

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Mekeni is what is it now because Pruds and his brothers heeded their Tatangs call.

rue joy is when you sacrifice your own comfort for the sake of others. Tatang Felix, our father, wrote us these words when he was trying to convince me and my other brothers to go back to the Philippines in 1993. People here are betting on cards, getting drunk, chasing each other with a bolo, going into prostitution. What will happen to these families if we dont give them jobs? he appealed to us.

THE MEKENI STORY

By Pruds Garcia as told to Joy Sosoban

OUT OF THE COMFORT ZONE AND INTO THE FIGHT

This was during the time that the Province of Pampanga was devastated by the eruption of Mt. Pinatubo in 1991 and subsequent lahar flows in the next two to three years. Back then, Tatang would see the same scenario every day, where 200 to 500 families were evacuated just across our house to the school where Tatang Felix and our mother, Imang Meding, worked as school teachers. It was a very sad and pitiful scene that deeply touched Tatang. This prompted him to summon all of us to go back to the country and devote our talents and skills to help our hometown recover and rise up again. We owe a lot to this town, which had been very supportive to our parents when they were just starting a backyard poultry and piggery business to augment their income as teachers. Through their hard work and the business, all of us, five brothers, were able to finish college, which became our stepping stone to establish our professional careers, both here and abroad. At the time of the Pinatubo eruption, my eldest brother, Kuya Adring was in Germany; Lito, the third sibling, and I were working in Saudi Arabia; while Doods (the fourth) and Nards (our youngest) were left with our parents in Porac to attend to our growing backyard meat processing business. I was already at the peak of my career in one of the big companies in Saudi Arabia as an audit manager and I must admit that I was living a comfortable life. It was the same for Kuya Adring and Lito. So we were not keen on going home. But as obedient children, and trusting the wisdom of Tatang, we heeded his call. Crazy Decision When we came back, we could hardly recognize the province where we had grown up. It was a totally different place, a place so ravaged by the force of nature. Our knowledge in business, coupled with the experiences wed had abroad, dictated that investing in Porac was definitely not a sound decision. There was so much work to be done in rebuilding the infrastructure destroyed by Pinatubo roads, communication lines, transportation, supplies and materials. Everybody had a wait-and-see attitude holding on to their money and
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The decision was sealed in 1997, and from then on there was no looking back. Dedication and Discipline True enough, Mekeni was able to hurdle all our challenges and, finally in 2001, we were able to build our modern meat processing plant. It earned not only the loyal patronage of customers nationwide but had been slowly acknowledged as a leader in the meat processing industry. The dedication and discipline of Mekenis people had crowned them with recognition from the Department of Agricultures National Meat Inspection Service. Mekeni won the first competition in 2004 as the Best AAA Meat Processing Plant in the country, and we defended this title in 2005 and 2006. Finally, in 2007, we earned the Department of Agricultures Hall of Fame Award for Best AAA Meat Processing Plant in the country, as a result of the three consecutive years of winning the award. Mekeni, however, did not rest on its laurels. We added another dimension to its goal. This time, Mekeni wanted to be a world-class meat processor, which can only be made possible by developing world-class people. True enough, the workers of Mekeni rallied to achieve this goal by giving their best in their daily tasks. Their efforts paid off with the distinct recognition of being the first ISO 22000-certified company in the Philippines and Asia, and the second in the world. (ISO 22000 is a set of operating standards for food safety developed by the International Organization for Standardization. This means that an ISO 22000-certified company has met all the international standards for food safety at any stage in the food chain.) Used as Instruments We never expected that our decision would come to this. So one time, we asked Tatang about it. Tang, did you expect this? He said no. Then he added, So, if you didnt know and I didnt know, then Someone up there is directing our paths. We have nothing to boast of. This is not ours. God is just using us as instruments. So our next advocacy was to share our story to others so that anybody can believe that they can do what we have done. Once again, Tatang reminded us of our grounding in God. Our blood father he is also our spiritual father. Mekenis success is, in a large part, borne out of Tatangs wisdom, derived through prayer and a close union with the Lord. We try to continue on that legacy in our company as we try to give work-life balance to our employees, making sure that their spiritual life is nourished through prayer meetings, values formation seminars and the like. Our hard work and dedication had given us so many accomplishments, so many reasons to be thankful for. With these, Mekeni is ready for bigger challenges ahead. We are now a multi-million peso company with more than 1,000 workers, most of them from the barrios. Recently, we have started to target the export market. I think thats an opportunity for us to grow even bigger. Mekeni will continue to explore more opportunities for its people and the community. We will not stop doing what we are doing for as long as there are people who line up for a job. I hope we will not be content that we will always move out of our comfort zone and always get into the fight. God will always direct us to the path He wants us to take.

Beside Pruds is his Tatang, who also serves as his and his siblings spiritual father.

resources. Even the community that we wanted to help could not understand why Tatang had asked us to come home and invest all our lifetime savings in our meat processing plant. There was only one thing going for us: it was the people that we wanted to help. And Tatang repeatedly explained to us, These are the people who have lost hope. We need to give them hope. These are good people. They will do everything to succeed. Your challenge is to make these ordinary people perform extraordinary jobs. Against all odds and banking on our greatest asset our people we did the extraordinary. We invested in a new plant and risked everything we had with our fervent desire to bring new hope and new life to our beloved community. Others may have called it a crazy decision at that time, but to us and to our parents, it was the right and probably the best decision weve ever made. We Will Fight! That resolve started our Mekeni journey in 1993. It wasnt smooth sailing because we faced a lot of challenges along the way. But we were able to survive and we celebrated our small victories with our people with the improved operations and sales that we achieved each year. But in 1996, foot and mouth disease (FMD) struck the country and dragged down our sales by almost 60 percent. Then the Asian crisis followed in 1997 when our currency depreciated from Php 26 to Php 33 to a dollar. This time, I told my brothers, We cant go on. We talked to Tatang about it. Again, we were at the point of giving up but Tatang reminded us of our purpose for returning to the Philippines. This is not just for you to decide. The very reason you came back is to give hope and jobs to our people. So if you decide without consulting our people, thats very unfair. Lets get their opinion, whether to fight or surrender; if they say we fight, then lets agree you will not leave, and well all fight together. We took note of what Tatang had said and prepared to consult with our people. We tried to explain to them the odds the business faced and the impact of the FMD and Asian crisis (factors that we had no control of ) to the business. Although most of our workers are high school graduates, we made them understand in simpler and more straightforward terms the difficulties the company was going through. After all our explanations, Tatang once again stood up and asked the question, Are we going to fight or are we going to surrender? Our people stood up and shouted, We will fight! Tatang replied, Then my boys will stay and I promise you that a day will come when you will be proud that you are working with Mekeni.
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inter represents the ages 61 and onwards. You might say, Shucks, Bo, thats not for me. Im far from that age. Believe me, this is for you.

Because you need to prepare for winter. Because the battle is not won in the battle itself. The battle is won before the battle begins. Heres the truth: Victory is all about preparation. I repeat: Prepare for winter. No doubt about it. As sure as the sun will rise tomorrow, winter will come in your life. No matter what you do. No matter how many facelifts and tummy tucks and botox treatments and breast augmentation you get, you wont stop aging. In spring, you plant. In summer, you care for what you planted. In autumn, you harvest what you planted. And in winter, you let the soil renew itself for the next planting. In other words, winter is about giving to the next generation. Giving what? Giving the ancestral blessings that we receive from our parents and our grandparents and the ancestral blessings we give to our children and grandchildren. Nice Benefits of Being 60 Being sixty has cool advantages. Here they are: Kidnappers are not very interested in you. In a hostage situation, terrorists and bank robbers are likely to release you first. People call at 9:00 p.m. and ask, Im sorry, did I wake you up? You have a party at home and the neighbors wont even know youre having a party. Because it is so quiet. Your secrets are safe with your friends because they cant remember them. And finally, you enjoy 20 percent discount in restaurants, drugstores, and if you live in certain cities, free movies at certain days of the week. (I met an elderly couple who have watched every single movie shown.)
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But the biggest benefit for being in winter? God gives them the time and space to ask a very big question. When You Realize You Wont Live Forever When people are in their sixties, they come face to face with their mortality. Let me describe winter for you. When they look at the mirror, they see their onceupon-a-time thick, jet-black hair disappearing before their eyes. (You should think positive. Dont think your hair is lessening. Think your forehead is increasing.) When they see their once-upon-a-time flawless, smooth skin now has wrinkle lines and age spots. (A little girl touched her grandfathers face and asked him, Lolo, did God make you? Yes, He did, he smiled. The girl touched her own face and said, Did God make me, Lolo? Yes, He did, he nodded. The girl said, I think God is getting better in making faces.) What they used to do effortlessly, they cannot do anymore. They used to run up the stairs. Now they cant even climb up without sitting down after a few steps. After taking a rest midway, some even forget whether they were going up or going down. Their vocabulary is now filled with medical terms, words theyve never spoken before words such as cholesterol and arthritis and hypertension and prostate and osteoporosis. Theyre stunned that their own parents died in their seventies or eighties and that is only

10 or 20 years away! At the winter of life, they realize that death is just around the corner. And thats a good thing, because they begin to ask this very big question. The Wise Know What Questions to Ask The Bible says, So teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom (Psalm 90:12). A man who knows hes dying one day becomes wise. How do you know if youre wise? Someone said a wise man doesnt necessarily know the right answers, but he knows the right questions. And a person whos facing his mortality is forced to ask the big question of winter. Please know that people can ask this question at any season in their lives. Teenagers ask this question. Twentysomethings ask this question. People in their 30s and 40s ask this question. But when youre in your 60s, you ask this question with greater urgency and ferocity. The Big Question of Winter Heres the big question of winter: Does my life have meaning? This question is asked in various ways: Is my life all worth it? Am I leaving a mark in the world? What legacy am I leaving behind? What gift am I giving to the next generation? Am I leaving this world a better place than when I first entered it? All of a sudden, you realize that life isnt about you. Life Is About Giving Julie (not her real name) is a 65-year-old woman who was told that she had cancer and she had three months to live. Thankfully, Julie was a woman who had a deep relationship with God. She didnt have fear in her heart. Julie called up all her friends for a special dinner at home. After the meal, she invited them to gather in the living room. Julie then brought out all her possessions. Her jewelry. Her clothes. Her antiques. Her friends were wondering what she was doing. That was when Julie said, As you know, my doctor said I have three months to live. Whether or not this is true, I do not know. But I feel this is a special gift from God to me. At least, I can prepare well for it. One of the things I realized is that when you know youre dying, you suddenly lose the desire to get. You now want to give. When one is dying, one loses the need for all these material things. So I want you to bring home one thing as a token of our friendship, something to remember me by. There was a lot of hugging and crying that night. But Julie was right. Winters most important lesson? Life isnt about getting. Life is about giving.

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But you dont give only material things. The Bible says, A good man leaves an inheritance for his childrens children. (Proverbs 13:22). Primarily, I believe its a spiritual inheritance. (Note: Even if you dont have biological kids, you have spiritual kids. Right now, there are young people who look up to you. What spiritual inheritance do you give to them?) Dads Three Gifts to Me Dad passed away when he was 88 years old. But he did leave behind a legacy. He gave me many gifts, too many to count, but he primarily gave three important ones. Dads legacy consisted of three virtues. Spirituality Why do I love God today? Because all his life, Dad loved God. Dad made God first in his life. For him, it was the only way to live. Dad and Mom started going to Mass daily when they got married. Dad was 25 and Mom was 19. And they never stopped. Dad went to Mass daily for 60 years, until God took him home. And Mom? To this day, at the age of 87, Mom still does it. Shes been going to Mass daily for 69 years. The most important gift my parents gave me is my faith in God. People are shocked as to why I started serving God at such a young age. How could I not serve God? Dad showed me that it was the only way to live. Dad served in our parish for as long as I can remember. He was lector, commentator, lay minister, altar boy, bell ringer and offering collector. In fact, people even called him assistant parish priest. Because the parish would collapse without Dad. Humility The Light of Jesus Family started 32 years ago. I was 14 years old and I was already its overall leader. My father was a humble man. He never took the overall leadership because he believed I had the gift and he didnt. So he just supported me, always working behind the scenes. He knew his place. He knew he was not a good preacher. But he knew he was a good accountant. So he focused on his core gift. He managed the finances of the Light of Jesus Family. Because of him, I realized that humble people are

secure people. Its the insecure people who like to grab the limelight, who scramble for positions, who are enamored with titles because they need the crowds applause. Dad was different. He didnt need anyones applause. He was a silent worker who did what he felt God wanted him to do. In his company, Dad was assistant vice-president. But in ministry, hed arrange the chairs of our prayer meeting week after week after week. Integrity Why did people trust a 14-year-old kid to lead them? Partly because my parents were trustworthy people. They were people of integrity. I always preach that we harvest what we plant. But heres the other truth: Part of what we harvest doesnt come from what we planted. Part of what we harvest comes from what our parents planted. Today, Im enjoying the fruits of what my parents planted. This includes the trust and the respect that people gave me when I was starting out in ministry. Dad was one of the most honest men I knew. He was so honest that everywhere he went, they always elected him as treasurer. He was treasurer in the parish. He was treasurer in the homeowners association. He was treasurer for the Parent-Teachers Association. He was treasurer for his schools alumni association. I bet if he had joined Nora Aunors Fans Club, theyd have made him treasurer, too. (But I think he was a Vilmanian.) Im wondering now if God called him to heaven because they needed a treasurer there, too. This is what I call ancestral blessings. Two Ancestral Blessings to Pass On The Bible says, The righteous man leads a blameless life; blessed are his children after him (Proverbs 20:7). Im blessed today because of the godly life of my parents. If your parents and grandparents followed God, you, too, will receive ancestral blessings from them. If they did what was right, if they stayed faithful to God, if they loved God, then no doubt about it, youre now receiving ancestral blessings. Theres no such thing as a self-made man. Were partly made by the village that raised us. I repeat: part of our harvest comes from what we planted. But theres a portion of our harvest that we didnt plant. It was planted by those that had gone before us. We inherited spiritual wealth from our ancestors. And we also pass this spiritual wealth to our descendants. There are two ancestral blessings you want to pass on.
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The first is spiritual values. The second is a spiritual vision. 1. Spiritual Values Today, I want you to give ancestral blessings to your children and grandchildren and great grandchildren, biological or otherwise. Through the example of your life, bring them closer to God. If you do, the Bible says that youll be like stars that shine forever. Daniel 12:3 says that those who lead many to righteousness will shine like the stars forever and ever. One of the most beautiful legacies you can leave behind this world is people who follow God because of you. This made me think about how hard people work to give a financial inheritance to their kids. According to news reports, Egypts President Hosni Mubarak had $80 billion stashed away in Swiss banks before he was ousted in 2011. Today, he cant get any of it because all his wealth is frozen. President Mubarak is 82 years old. What will he do with $80 billion? Give it to his children? I repeat: a lot of people work hard to earn money to give a big financial inheritance to their children. But be very careful, because a big financial inheritance can be a curse, not a blessing, to your kids if they dont have a spiritual foundation. Instead of giving a financial inheritance, work very hard to give a spiritual inheritance to your children. Thats the best gift you can give your children and grandchildren. Bring them closer to God! But if there are ancestral blessings, there are also ancestral curses. If we live a life of unrighteousness, we pass on ancestral curses to the next generation. The Bible says the punishment of the fathers shall be brought down to the third and fourth generation (Exodus 20:5). What does that mean? Simple. If the kids are exposed to the wrong lifestyle of their parents,
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they may imitate them. (Its still their choice though.) I was talking to a married man who had made a decision to cut off his adulterous relationships. As we were talking and praying together, he told me something that blew my mind. He said that adultery runs in his family. His father had three wives. His uncles all had extramarital affairs. His late grandfather also had four wives. How come? Even if it wasnt openly discussed, the kids grew up sensing the immorality of their father. This exposure made them more vulnerable to temptation in the later years of their life. Let me emphasize. We dont inherit sin. Sin is always a personal choice. But we can inherit the tendency to sin. The only solution? Get re-parented by spiritual parents. Grow in your spirit. Grow in your character. (Thats what a spiritual community offers. Go look for one.) And heres the second part of the ancestral blessings that you want to pass on to your kids. 2. Spiritual Vision Aside from spiritual values, you also want to pass on a spiritual vision to your children, not as an imposition, but as an invitation. There are two kinds of dreams: small dreams and big dreams. Dont pass on your small dreams. Your big dreams are the spiritual vision they need to guide them in life. Let me go off tangent for a while and talk about small dreams. Ive been studying about menopause lately. All of us know that women go through menopause. But do you know that men go through their own menopause, too? For women, its physical. For men, its mental. A womans menopause is caused by the lack of estrogen flowing through her veins. A mans menopause is caused by the lack of fulfilled dreams in his life. A man looks at the mirror and realizes hes running out of time. Hes facing the fact that some of his small dreams wont be fulfilled. Let me give you an example. Like most guys I know, Dad liked cars. And he had a life-long dream of owning a Mercedes Benz. It didnt have to be new even if it was an old clunker, as long as it was a Benz. At a certain point, he was very close to fulfilling that dream. His friend was selling his 20-year-old Benz to Dad. But at that time, Dad was so busy serving God in the ministry. Because he knew the old Benz would cost a lot of time and money to maintain, he gave it up. Owning the Benz was his small dream. Serving God was his big dream. So he gave up his small dream for the sake of his big dream. Thats why it didnt bother him that he never owned a Benz in his life. (In heaven, I bet hes driving a Rolls Royce now.) All of us have small dreams. Go for them. Theyre good for your selfesteem. And theyre absolutely fun. Fulfill them if you can. But sometimes, when theres a conflict between your small dreams and big dreams, give up your small dreams for the sake of your big dreams. I repeat: Dont pass on your small dreams to your children. Small dreams are about preferences, personalities and potentialities. Let them create their own small dreams. Its the big dreams that you want to hand down to them, a spiritual

vision for their future not as an imposition but as an invitation. I tell my kids, I want you to serve the Lord in whatever calling He gives you. You figure out how He wants you to serve Him. You could be a chef or a chemist or a businessman or a preacher. But whatever you do, I just want you to serve the Lord with all your heart. Let Go and Let God Heres the truth: Some of your big dreams wont happen in your lifetime. Thats why you need to pass them on. But thats OK. Because if its a really big dream, the dream is more important than the dreamer. The dreamer can die but the dream wont. If the dream is more important than the dreamer, then youre willing to pass the dream to the next generation. Let go and let God. Moses dreamt of leading the Israelites into the Promised Land. But he was never able to do it. He died before they actually stepped into the land. He had to pass his dream to Joshua, the leader that he chose to succeed him. King David dreamt of building a temple for God. But he couldnt because he was a warrior, not a builder. So it was his son, King Solomon, who built the temple. When it comes to your dreams, dont be distracted about timing. For example, Im dreaming of building 1,000 Feasts (our weekly prayer gathering in the Light of Jesus, my spiritual family). Will this happen in my lifetime? I believe it will. But even if it wont, it wont bother me. Were raising up a new generation of young leaders whom God will use to make that dream come true. I repeat: If the dream is more important than the dreamer, the dreamer can die but the dream wont. Let me end with one last story. One day, an elderly carpenter was about to retire. When he told the owner of the company that he was finally leaving, the man said, I hate to let go of such a great carpenter. Before you retire, can I ask a favor? Can you make one last house for me? The carpenter agreed, but he did so with a heavy heart. So when he was building the house, his passion was no longer there. It was shoddy workmanship. The people around him noticed, and they were sad to see him end such a sterling career in this way. When the carpenter finished building the house, his boss came over to inspect it. The man then faced the carpenter, took his hand, and placed the key of the house in his palm. This house is yours, the man said. Its our parting gift to you for all the years of service you gave the company. The carpenter was shocked. And then his heart

was filled with painful regret. Oh, if he only knew he was building his own house, he would have done a better job! Attention: youre building your house now. Your construction materials are your thoughts, your words and your deeds. By the way you live every day, youre building your house. By the way you talk, the way you treat others, the way you make your decisions every day, youre actually constructing your house a house for your children and grandchildren and great grandchildren. Will it be a house of love or indifference? Will it be a house of fidelity or infidelity? Will it be a house of generosity or selfishness? Will it be a house of forgiveness or conflict? You choose. Because youre the carpenter. My suggestion? Build well. Because you want to give the best ancestral blessings to your descendants.
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BOS ACTION STEPS:

1. What ancestral blessings have you received from your parents and grandparents? 2. What ancestral blessings are you passing on to the next generation? 3. How are you preparing for the winter season of your life?

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pecial TESTIMONY S section

, Augusto M. Cosio, Jr., being of sound mind and body in spite of being born 60 years ago today, solemnly swear to the best of my ability that:
I will avoid acting silly as if I were still 30 years old, even if I still feel 30 years old inside; I will never act as if I knew everything just because of my age; I will never wear a toupee even if my hair has already thinned out and will probably shed some more; I will always be open to change, at least as far as my underwear and socks are concerned; I will never stop smiling because crankiness is a reflection of aging ungracefully. So help me, Nelia (my beloved spouse).

Teaching people how to invest is a passion for Gus. He uses every portunity availableto impart what he knows about investing.

This oath sent my guests laughing as I started to read it. Earlier, while waiting for guests to arrive, I was thinking of what I could do to provide a little entertainment. So I quickly scribbled this oath on my iPad. I had a simple dinner with family and very close friends around 30 people in all. We sat in one long table in a cozy boutique restaurant named Chef Tatungs along Matipid Street in Sikatuna Village, Quezon City. I asked if they noticed the street name. Its Matipid so that my birthday celebration would be matipid (inexpensive), I quipped. It was a night of fun and laughter. The food was excellent and there was none of the tributes and audio-visual presentations that usually accompany milestone birthday celebrations. Aside from family, present were my closest friends whom I have known since we were in third grade at the Ateneo de Manila Grade School, although we really started hanging out with each other when we were already in high school. Back then, Jim Paredes of the APO Hiking Society fame would often pick up a guitar and start playing current hit songs, and everyone would just sing along. That was actually how APO started. That evening, Jim picked up the beat-up guitar and we began singing again just as it was during our teenage years. It was more than enough entertainment for the other guests. The morning after, I filled out an application form for senior citizenship card, and then headed off to the Land Transportation Office in Robinsons Galleria to renew my drivers license my first official act as a senior citizen. Thinking of My Golden Years I started thinking about the golden years of my life about two years ago, knowing that I was already approaching 60. I assessed my life and one thing I am happy to say is that I was able to keep out of debt. It was something that I tried to avoid all my life, which leaves me pretty solvent as I approach retirement. Do I have a lot of money? Not much, so I am setting myself up for some kind of annuity income when regular income eventually stops. When I returned from working abroad, I was able to acquire a small property aside from my present residence. Recently, I put some money down on a condo unit that I hope to fully pay by the time I retire, and then eventually rent out. Aside from getting myself financially ready for the winter years, I am also thinking of a business that I can pursue when I retire. One desire is to write a book on investing in the Philippine markets, my field of expertise. My sons have been egging me to write a book as I have gotten a lot of following in my blogs and in my social media accounts. A Personal Advocacy I Want to Keep Doing If theres one thing that I really love to do and hope to continue doing after retirement is to teach people how to invest and understand markets. It has been a personal advocacy, which is also the advocacy of the company that I now am working for, the First Metro Asset Management, Inc. (FAMI). In FAMI, many of our investors are teachers and regular employees. The founders
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of our company, Francis Sebastian and Jojo Dispo, also devout Catholics, saw that many of our teachers were not able to save because they did not see substantial benefit in putting their money in the bank. The latest survey by the Bangko Sentral ng Pilipinas revealed that only 20 to 30 percent of Filipinos have savings accounts. Of these, many keep a savings account only for the convenience of an ATM or an extended wallet. A large percentage of our population does not know or have not heard of mutual fund investing. For an initial P5,000 investment and then P1,000 on succeeding placements, one could derive returns significantly higher than the current level of interest rates. As part of my preparation for my retirement, I opted to have part of my salary automatically deducted and invested in a mutual fund. I have been on this monthly investment plan for over two years now and it has resulted in what is called peso cost averaging of my investment, an investment strategy that minimizes losses and maximizes returns. This is the mindset which I hope to share with other people. When I lived in Hong Kong, I saw how ordinary people, even taxi drivers, invested in the stock market and in mutual funds. I want to see Filipinos doing the same, especially since we are in the beginnings of sustained economic growth. This inspires me more to do my share in teaching our countrymen how to save and invest for the future. Passing on Spiritual Values to My Children I have been an investment professional for most of my career. As such, I believe in value creation and that God creates value for all of us. I share this spiritual belief with my family. One spiritual gem that I treasure is Malachi 3:10, which says, Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house, and try me in this, says the Lord of hosts: Shall I not open for you the floodgates of heaven, to pour down blessing upon you without measure? Ive been a faithful tither since 1988, and I would tithe even during the times of personal famine. There was a time when I was in between jobs for a number of years, yet I never ran out. Every time I reached the point when I had nothing in my pocket or wallet, always an opportunity would come. Whenever I recall two instances when this happened in my life, I get teary-eyed. Around eight years ago, I had no income. I didnt know how the next set of family bills would be paid. My kids were still dependent on me then. Unexpectedly, an old friend called, Hey, Gus! Can you do something for me and join me in this business endeavor? Then we started the business and income started to flow again. I left the business when it was already running well and, after a few months, money started to run out again. All my credit cards were already maxed out. I was really down and out. Although I had some income, it was not enough to service my credit card payments. Again, an old friend called me to ask me what I was doing and if I was available. He said that my work experience was too valuable to be left untapped. He hired me as a consultant at the First Metro Investment Corporation, the investment banking arm of the Metrobank Group, and in September 2009, they made me take the helm of FAMI. If there is one particular truth about investing that I learned through my experience, it is that if you invest in the Kingdom of God, it will always come back to you. That has made me more earnest in giving 10 percent of my income back to God. Aside from the witness of giving back to God, my wife, Nelia, and I brought up our children in godly ways. Martine, Lorenzo and Carlos, while very young, were exposed to life in a Catholic Charismatic community. So they grew up with strong spiritual values. They are close to the sacraments and to the Word of God, having acquired the habit of reading the Bible since they were small kids. That was a good foundation for them and now that they are parents themselves, I see them passing on the same virtues to their children. Today, my children have their own thriving businesses. I believe, too, that my wife and I have witnessed to them a good and loving marital relationship. I hope that our example would make ripple effects in their own marriages. Speaking of Legacies Recently, in a gathering with high school classmates, one started talking about leaving a legacy. I thought to myself, I really dont think much about it. When I go, I go. Im more interested in going to heaven than in leaving a legacy behind. I taught my children godly values. They grew up as Christians. Im happy with that. In my previous jobs and in the present one, and in the schools where I have teaching stints, Im happy that I am able to open the minds of people in understanding markets and on the value of investing for their personal lives. I also hope they saw God in what I imparted. Between now and the time when my sun sets, I hope to keep doing the same thing. If the Lord gives me a longer time to live so I can pursue my advocacy, fine. If the time is shorter, thats also fine with me. Its not up to me anyway; I live at His pleasure. So Ill just continue what Im doing and hope that I impact other Filipinos lives so that, together, we can all make the Philippines rich both spiritually and materially.
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major university invited my wife to give a career talk. The material she used in coming up with her talk came from writings attributed to Daniel Pink.
Pink is New York Timesbestselling author of A Whole New Mind: Why Right Brainers Will Rule the Future and Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us, as well as Free Agent Nation: The Future of Working for Yourself and The Adventures of Johnny Bunko: The Last Career Guide Youll Ever Need. His career views caught my attention. They are practical, funny, yet extremely useful for people who plan to move up the corporate ladder. He has six points but I will elaborate on only one for now. There Is No Plan... Only Smart Choices Young Steve Jobs took up college at Reed University to fulfill his adoptive parents commitment to his biological mother that he would get a college education. This plan fizzled out as he dropped out of his course and instead took up subjects that appealed to him. Later on, he found himself studying calligraphy at Reed. He was amazed by it, so he pursued it. This later became the basis of the beautiful computer fonts we have
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today. To make the long story short, Steve Jobs is considered to be the Thomas Edison of our time. Did he plan all these? No. He only made a choice to follow his heart and gut to pursue his passion. Young Michael Dell was a pre-med freshman at the University of Texas in Austin. Obviously, the plan was to be a doctor. However, success in an informal business selling computer upgrade kits eventually led him to be a major player in the computer industry. Banking on his conviction that the manufacturer selling computers directly to customers would result in enormous savings, Dell eventually formed The Dell Computer Corporation. Was that his original plan? I dont think so, but his series of choices resulted in him having $15-billion net worth. So What Are Smart Choices? According to Dan Pink, choices can be classified into two types: 1. You can do something for instrumental reasons because you think its going to lead to something else, regardless of whether you enjoy it or its worthwhile. 2. Or you can do something for fundamental reasons because you think its inherently valuable, regardless of what it may or may not lead to. And the dirty little secret is that instrumental reasons usually dont work. Things are too complicated, too unpredictable. You never know whats going to happen. Most successful people make choices for fundamental reasons. They follow their heart, their passion because its the right thing to do. The career is valuable in itself regardless of the consequences. Is This Biblical at All? Psalm 119:105 says, Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light for my path. Notice it does not say, Your word is a search light. Somehow, the Lord is helping us make moment-to-moment, day-to-day choices for Him (see Luke 9:23). While we do set goals and have a vision, the path we are to undertake is what makes life an adventure. As Proverbs 20:24 puts it, The Lord has determined our path; how then can anyone understand the direction his own life is taking? This doesnt mean that we wont plan. Part of being a good steward of the Lord is to set goals and make plans. However, one must realize that plans change because we are not in control the Lord is. Our part is to discern His will and follow it. Get to know who our real Boss is and know His heart for you. And there you will find the smart choice.
For feedback, email me at faithatworkariel@ gmail.com.

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By Alvin Barcelona

ONE WORLD ALIVE

et me share with you a song, which I wrote during my younger years as an ethnic-rocker, entitled Galit na si Inang.
Hindi mo ba napapansin, iba na ang simoy ng hangin Kapag uminit sobrang init, ang katawan moy nanlalagkit Hindi mo ba nahahalata, ang panahon ay nananadya Kapag umulan todo buhos naman, parang dagat ang mga lansangan. Galit na nga si Inang, galit na galit na si Inang Nagalit nang tuluyan si Inang, galit na nga si Inang Kalikasan.

Roughly translated and summed up, it says, Mother Nature is mad! When its hot, it doesnt just get real hot. It burns. When it rains, it doesnt just pour. It floods! I wrote and performed this in the mid-90s. (I hope I didnt give away my age again.) But look around and see that its actually happening. Talk about prophetic songs. And what have we been doing so far about it? Well, we should be thankful for the gallant efforts and campaigns to be environment-conscious, nature-friendly, and to take care of Mother Earth.

Yet, at the rate were going, we seem to be losing the battle. Think of Ondoy, Pedring and Sendong, and you know the issue is literally a matter of life and death. We realize this is not just a matter for environmentalists. It is now everyones urgent concern. In fact, this is one big area where Christians are expected to act as Gods stewards! Since the Old Testament times up to the New Testament, we have always been given the sacred power to take care of Gods creation, but coupled with careful responsibility. Now we learn that the important creations of God that are dear to us our family, our homes, our livelihood, our lives are in one big place called Earth. You can do your best to take care of everything but neglect that one place theyre all in, and you will regret to see that they can all be wiped out in the blink of an eye. But all is not lost. Hope springs eternal. But we need to act fast on that hope. Let me end this article with a few lines from one of my newest songs which, in contrast to the first song, is a more hopeful prophecy. Its entitled One World Alive. I have a dream of a world we all want to see The fields are all green, the waters are clean Theres plenty for you and me.

I see the earth one home of everyones birth And in everyones hand, child, woman and man One world will be set anew. I have a life, I will survive Ill walk on water, and I will cross over I will keep this world alive. I have a song, nations are singing along Every gender and age, every color and race One world we all belong. We have a life, we will survive Well walk on water, and we will cross over We will keep this world alive. Love God. Love others. Love Gods creation. Love Mother Earth.

Email me at kpreacheralvin@gmail.com for comments and feedback. Catch Alvin Barcelona (and listen to his songs) at The Feast PICC (Plenary Hall) every Sunday at 3:45 p.m. or at The Feast Marilao at the Cinema 2 of SM Marilao every Saturday, 5:15 and 7::45 p.m.

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Baby Patricks life began with a struggle, but Gods love won it for him and his parents.

have always been a checklist kind of girl. I had checklists for my grocery, husband qualifications and wedding preparations. So, as expected, I had my own pregnancy checklist. I think I ticked on all the items humanly possible, even including some untraditional ones like custom-made maternity gowns and blue nail polish. However, there was one box I didnt think Id have to check: my baby staying at the neonatal intensive care unit (NICU) for 33 days. Ive always prayed for patience and God had His ways of teaching me. I prayed and waited so long to be a wife. My husband, Alvin, and I prayed and waited so long to be parents. So you can imagine our excitement when the day finally came. On September 24, 2011, I was scheduled to give birth to our first son, Patrick, who would complete our small family of three. The day came but there was no Patrick to bring home. While giving birth, my uterus bled profusely and I lost a lot of blood. This resulted in my son not having enough blood to bring oxygen into his brain. He was rushed to the NICU 45 miles away because he became unstable, pale and cyanotic. His brain and kidneys were damaged. All I got to touch was his hand before they transported him to the NICU. I felt so helpless. I didnt know if I would see him again. They werent sure if he and I would survive. How could the most anticipated day of my life end up in tears?

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I am usually happy to see our priest but when I saw him beside my recovery bed, I knew something was wrong. Alvin, just like any good parent, had to make a decision that was best for his son. He had Patrick baptized the same day, which was a blessing in the midst of all the chaos. As desolate as our situation seemed with my baby and me both in the ICU, each day gave me hope. I found myself praying even more. I didnt have the heart to get mad at God for how my sons birth went. I could have questioned Him as to why my delivery went haywire after all our prayers for a healthy baby, but I needed Him more than ever. As mind-boggling as it was to have needed an emergency C-section due to excessive bleeding even after 40 weeks of good OB checkups I had to accept that this was Gods will, and trust that He would save us. I clung to His Word more than ever: Have no anxiety at all, but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, make your requests known to God. The peace of God that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and minds (Philippians 4:6-7). After a series of blood tests, medications and blood transfusions, I was discharged. I thanked the Lord for saving me so I could be there for my son and my husband as we faced our babys uncertain future. The only certain thing was that I had my strong and loving husband holding my hand through all the uncertainties. As heartbreaking as it was for us to see another mothers fragile baby lifeless in his incubator, seeing Patrick gave me a glimpse of hope that hed be alright. By the doors of the NICU, a quote read: Every day holds a possibility of a miracle, and every day we walked through those doors, thats exactly what we prayed for. And God answered our prayer. Patrick improved every day and passed all his tests! He was a fighter. Patrick was admitted as critically ill but was discharged by the NICU doctors and nurses as the miracle baby. Now that were finally home, we look back at this chapter in our lives with much gratitude for the newfound strength in our marriage, our newfound faith in God, Diane and Alvin rejoice in and the newfound their miracle baby, Patrick. friends we met along the way. Finally, we can hug baby Patrick as much as we want, minus all the tubes! As for the luggage of necessities I had prepared according to my checklist, they werent necessities after all. I realized that all we needed was each other, our faith and the love and prayers of our family and friends. We are ever grateful to our Father God for saving our son. We believe He has great plans for him. And so we pray that his life will bring glory and honor to His Holy Name.

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PRAY THAT GOD LIFT YOUR TRIALS, heal your diseases, bless your problems and direct you to the path He wants you to take. I pray that God remove your fears and give you the courage to surrender your burdens to Him.
So place your hand over my hand, and lets pray with trust, together with our prayer team of intercessors praying for you right now This page is our Point of Contact, our spiritual connection. Say after me In the Name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Lord, I surrender to You my worries and anxieties. I surrender to You my needs, my problems, my trials. I place them all in Your big hands. And I open myself to all that You want to give to me. On this day, I say yes to Your love, to Your blessings, to Your healing, to Your miracles. And Lord, specifically, I ask for the following miracles for my life... I believe that You answer my prayer in the best way possible! And I thank You in advance for the perfect answers to my prayers. I also ask for the special intercession of Mama Mary. I pray all this in the Name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit, Amen! SPECIAL INTENTION FOR THIS MONTH: Bless the readers of Kerygma, Lord. Grant clarity to their hearts and minds so that they may only desire things that will give meaning to their lives. Teach them to sow only good seeds in all aspects of their lives physical, mental, emotional, spiritual so that they will reap good fruits, too, in their old age. Free them from senseless pursuits that will only lead them away from the real meaning of life. Help them to walk in Your ways, Lord, so that one day they may all be with You in heaven. Praying for you, Email your prayer requests to me at bosanchez@kerygmafamily.com or write to me at Shepherds Voice Publications, #60 Chicago St., Cubao, Quezon City, Philippines 1109.

I pray that you receive your miracles in Jesus name!

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