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I Refuse to Be A Victim

I Refuse to Be A Victim

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I Refuse to Be A Victim

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Jan 13, 2021


By definition, a victim is a person who has had a wrong done to them. The action was outside of their control. They are powerless to help themselves. Being a victim may leave you in a state of hopelessness, confusion and vulnerability. Without the tools to overcome these feelings, a person in this state will take on a “victim mentality” as a means to attempt to either withdraw from life, or create a false defense against further hurt and disappointment. Unfortunately, it usually leads to more hurt, isolation, and victimization. Sometimes the wrongs against us are very real.

Jesus has the final word on all things. When we live as an overcomer, it begins by trusting in Jesus and in His love for us. That has to be our foundation. This does not mean that it is easy to walk in faith and walk in love, but it is what we have been called to do, and God through His Spirit in us helps us every step of the way.

Jan 13, 2021

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Dr. Jeremy Lopez is Founder and President of Identity Network International, Sounds for Now, Awakening to Your Now and Now is Your Moment. Identity Network is a prophetic resource website that reaches well over 153,000 people around the globe and distributes books and teaching CD's. Jeremy has taught and prophesied to thousands of people from all walks of life such as local church congregations, producers, investors, business owners, attorneys, city leaders, musicians, and various ministries around the world concerning areas such as finding missing children, financial breakthrough's, parenthood, and life changing decisions.Dr. Jeremy Lopez is an international teacher and motivational speaker. Dr. Jeremy speaks on new dimensions of revelatory knowledge in scripture, universal laws, mysteries, patterns and cycles. He has a love for all people and desires to enrich their lives with love, grace and the mercy of God and to empower them to be successful. Dr. Jeremy believes it is time to awake the Christ Conscious mind and live out the victorious life that was mean't for us. His desire is to live a life filled with purpose, potential, and destiny. He ministers with a revelational prophetic teaching gift that brings a freshness of the word of the Lord to people everywhere.This is accomplished through conferences, prophetic meetings and seminars. He serves on many governing boards, speaks to business leaders across the nation and also holds a Doctorate of Divinity. He has had the privilege of ministering prophetically to Governor Bob Riley of Alabama. He has also ministered to thousands overseas including millionaires around the world. He has traveled to many nations including Switzerland, Amsterdam, Jamaica, Prague, Paris, Indonesia, Haiti, Hong Kong, Taiwan, UK, Mexico, Singapore, Bahamas, Costa Rica, Puerto Rico, etc. He has hosted and been a guest on several radio and TV programs from Indonesia to New York.He is the author of nationally published books, 'The Laws of Financial Progression,' 'The Power of the Eternal Now' and his newest book, 'Releasing the Power of the Prophetic'. He has also recorded over 45 teaching CD's. Jeremy's ministry has been recognized by many leaders around the nation.

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I Refuse to Be A Victim - Jeremy Lopez


Unveiling a Victim Mentality

Jeremy Lopez





Chapter One

You are Not a Victim

What is a Victim?

What Happens When You Are Hurt?

Choosing Life Always Means Forgiving

Walking in Freedom

Choosing Life May Mean Walking Away

Remember the Creative Power You Carry

Chapter Two

Victim Mentality is Learned Behavior

Look at the Big Picture

The Downward Spiral

Chapter Three

What is God’s Perspective?

Chapter Four

Oil and Water

It Is Not All About You

Forgiveness Is a Gift That You Give Yourself

Chapter Five

Forgetting the Past

Chapter Six

Down the Rabbit Hole

Patterns and Habits

From Victim to Judge

From Judge to Accuser

Chapter Seven

Negative Empowerment

Poor Me

Take My Side

Constantly Feeling Attacked

Feel Sorry for Me


Comparison, Jealousy and Competition

My Way or the Highway

No Apology is Good Enough

Chapter Eight

Facing a Victim

Freedom in Transparency

Silencing Strife

Chapter Nine

Truth Prevails

Boldness of Truth

Recognizing the Stronghold

Twisted Perception

He Restores My Soul

Surviving the Backlash

Offensive Defense

Accusation of Antichrist

Chapter Ten

Steps to Freedom

Living Free

About The Author

Titles by Dr. Lopez



"I found myself savoring the concepts of the Law of Attraction merging with the Law of Creativity until slowly the beautiful truths seeped deeper into my thirsty soul. I am called to be a Creator!

"My friend, Dr. Jeremy Lopez, has a way of reminding us of our eternal ‘I-Am-ness’ while putting the tools in our hands to unlock our endless creative potential with the Divine mind.

As a musical composer, I’m excited to explore, with greater understanding, the infinite realm of possibilities as I place fingers on my piano and whisper, ‘Let there be!’

Dony McGuire

Grammy Award winning artist and musical composer

You are put on this earth with incredible potential and a divine destiny. This powerful, practical man shows you how to tap into power you didn’t even know you had.

Brian Tracy

Author, The Power of Self Confidence

Jeremy dives deep into the power of consciousness and shows us that we can create a world where the champion within us can shine and how we can manifest our desires to live a life of fulfillment. A must read!

Greg S. Reid

Forbes and Inc. top rated Keynote Speaker

"I have been privileged to know Jeremy Lopez for many years, as well as sharing the platform with him at a number of conferences. Through this time, I have found him as a man of integrity, commitment, wisdom, and one of the most networked people I have met.

"Jeremy is an entrepreneur and a leader of leaders. He has amazing insights into leadership competencies and values.

He has a passion to ignite this latent potential within individuals and organizations and provide ongoing development and coaching to bring about competitive advantage and success. I would highly recommend him as a speaker, coach, mentor, and consultant.

Chris Gaborit

Learning Leader, Training & Outsourcing Expert, Entrepreneur, Network Orchestrator


What does it mean to have a victim mentality?

Can you recognize it when you see it?

Everyone sees things from different angles and processes things differently. This is part of what makes us unique.

Psalm 139:13-14 (esv)

For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well.

We have been fearfully and wonderfully made in the image and likeness of God.¹ Our unique design allows each of us to see things differently, from our unique perspective.

Not only do we have unique perspectives as individuals, but we also have multifaceted qualities that manifest themselves in a number of ways, just like our Creator.

For example, we know that God is both the Lion and the Lamb. He is also the Redeemer and Sanctifier. Look at His redemptive names in the Old Testament:

Jehovah-Rapha, The Lord our Healer (Exodus 15:26; Isaiah 1:5-6; Jeremiah 17:9; Luke 5:31)

Jehovah-Nissi, the Lord our Banner [or Refuge] – (Exodus 17:8-15; Psalm 20:5)

Jehovah-Shammah, the Lord (who) is Present (Ezekiel 48:35; Exodus 33:14-15; 1 Chronicles 16:27; Psalm 16:11; 97:5)

Jehovah-Tsidkenu, the Lord our Righteousness (Jeremiah 23:5-6; Psalm 11:7; 89:14; 1 Corinthians 1:30)

Jehovah-Shalom, the Lord our Peace (Judges 6:24; Isaiah 9:6; Luke 1:78-79)

Jehovah-Jireh, the Lord our Provider (Genesis 22:8-14; John 1:29; Galatians 3:8; 1 Corinthians 2:7)

Jehovah-Ra’ah, the Lord our Shepherd (Genesis 48:15; Psalm 23:1; 80:1; Isaiah 40:10-11; 1 Peter 2:25)

Each one of these names actually has a powerful meaning behind it as to how God reveals His power, provision, protection, and His presence. This is just a sample of the many ways He reveals Himself to us.

All of these descriptions tell us who God is to us—His character and the role He plays in our lives. Because God is perfect in all His ways, when God introduces Himself as Provider, He is not saying He is one of many providers in our life; He in fact is THE Provider; He IS Provision. He is THE Healer because He IS Healing. He IS Righteousness and Peace in perfection.

Jesus is completely human, and He is also completely God, so He is perfect as a human and He is perfect as God. Jesus is the perfect Lamb, the perfect Healer, and the perfect Lover of our souls.

1 Corinthians 1:30-31 (nasb)

But it is due to Him that you are in Christ Jesus, who became to us wisdom from God, and righteousness and sanctification, and redemption, so that, just as it is written: Let the one who boasts, boast in the Lord.

God is perfect in how He manifests Himself to us. God is indeed multifaceted, but this does not make Him fragmented. God is whole and complete in and of Himself, and all of the different descriptions or characteristics of God complement and affirm His completeness. This is a wonderful mystery about God because nothing can be added to Him or taken away from Him to make Him less than who He is.

This is very different from how we, as humans, function. As humans, we have some of those God-given traits that show up in how we perceive and process things. We are also multifaceted in how we manifest our strengths, our weaknesses, and our giftings. However, we have to remember that we are not perfected in our processing. There is a filter in our processing and perception that we draw everything through that is not always perfectly clean of debris.

If you wear glasses, this will make a lot of sense to you. You can start your day with a clean pair of glasses, but as the day goes on, the glasses become smudged with fingerprints, scratches, dust particles and dead skin cells—all of which cloud the glass and make the experience less than perfect. It can distort your view. If the glasses are dirty enough, you will not be able to read or see where you are going.

This is how the human experience can impact our view of what we encounter in our relationships and daily experiences. We are seeing the world through a filter of dirty glasses.

We have to acknowledge this as a weakness that we have as we process things. We have to understand that at times our perception of what is happening around us may not be as accurate as we believe. Be humble, and let God help us to process events or situations from His perspective so we are not locked in by our limited viewpoint.

2 Corinthians 5:7 (nkjv)

For we walk by faith, not by sight.

Each facet of our make-up

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