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    The Secret of My Child’s Success
    The Secret of My Child’s Success
    The Secret of My Child’s Success
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    The Secret of My Child’s Success

    By Gizel Hazan

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    Every parent brings her/his child into the world wishing that the child will be healthy, happy, and successful.
    What is SUCCESS and what is the SECRET of being successful?
    There are two different ideas in the education world. Does the child develop a personality “by nature or by nurture?” Even if we accept both views to a certain degree, we need to know that every minute, we can educate and change ourselves by improving our brain’s functioning. In recent years, even people who were raised under difficult conditions have been able to find opportunities to improve and educate themselves, thanks to self-help books.

    This book draws on my educational and professional experience on child psychology as well as on information derived from other helpful books.

    We should perform our parenthood duties as set forth in the famous Khalil Gibran poem, “Children”.

    At the end of my book, an unexpected surprise will surprise you. Please read until the end of my book to learn what the surprise is.
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherLulu.com
    Release dateMar 20, 2017
    ISBN9781365837036
    The Secret of My Child’s Success
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    Gizel Hazan

    Gizel Hazan (Ender) TED Ankara Koleji ve Boğaziçi Üniver-sitesi ilk bilgisayar programcılığı mezunlarındandır. O yıllarda merak sardığı Yoga konusunu yıllar içinde devamlı geliştirmiştir.İzmir’de evlendikten sonra çalışma hayatında bankacılık ve bil-gisayar öğretmenliğinin yanı sıra, çocuk psikolojisi konusunda da, Holistic (Bütünsel) çocuk psikologu diplomaları almış, Uzakdoğu bilgilerini de sürekli geliştirmiş, Reiki Master olduktan sonra, yaşam onun önüne, yıllarca korkudan yaklaşamadığı sokak hayvanlarını çıkartmış, uzun yıllar onların yaşam hakları için mücadele vermiştir.İyi bir aile yaşamına da önem veren Gizel Hazan, Ziraat doktoru eşine, İzmir’de yazılan ilk mesleki bilgisayar programlarında destek olmuştur. New York’da psikoloji doktorası yapan kızı ve Oxford Üniversitesi mezunu oğlunu da, zorlu okul yıllarında ruh ve beden sağlığı dengeli gençler olarak yetişmelerine gayret etmiştir. Kendi çocuklarının yanı sıra, bilgisayar öğrencilerinin pek çoğuna “kişisel gelişim” dersleri vermeyi ihmal etmemiş, mutlu, sağlıklı, neşeli kişiler olarak yaşam yolunda ilerlemeleri için elinden geleni yapmıştır.Gizel Hazan, betonlarla kaplanan şehirlerimizde insanların be-den ve ruh sağlığının bozulduğuna inandıktan sonra, İzmir’e yakın Urla ilçesine eşi, “iki ayak” ve “dört ayak” çocukları (kedi-köpekleriyle) yerleşmiştir. Urla’da, diğer insanların da güzel ha-vadan yararlanması için “GAYRİMENKUL OFİSİ” açmıştır. Bu kitaptaki bilgiler, 1 yıl süresince, emlak dükkanına gelen müşterilerden oluşan bir demet örnek konudur. Hepsi yaşanmış durumlardır ve pek çok ailede de yaşanmaya devam etmektedir. Herkesin kendi evinde mutlu, sağlıklı bir yaşam sürmesi dileğiyle..Author of "YENİ EVİM HARİKA", Gizel Hazan 2014

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      The Secret of My Child’s Success - Gizel Hazan

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      Introduction

      Every parent brings her/his child into the world wishing that the child will be healthy, happy and successful. There is no need to finish a school to be a mother or father. For every occupation there are short or long training courses but for parenthood there is no prior condition. Even 3 days training isn’t considered to be necessary. In reaction to sexual intercourse there comes a baby as a gift of the nature. Even animals raise their babies by their maternal instinct and then leave them to the nature. When it comes to Humans, they have lost even their natural instincts. They hardly trust nature and never leave them.

      Because of the fact that there isn’t any official parenthood school, parents try to raise their children as an adrift sailboat. If it is a lucky family, they have a regular income and a shelter but if the baby has come to the world to learn the hardest life lessons, he comes to the world as a child of a refugee family or of a family whose income is very low and bearing 10 children. If baby chooses a better life to live, he chooses a family and a country whose wealth level is high.

      Regardless in what condition and situation the baby has come to the world, some people have to raise and educate him. At least until a certain age.

      There are two different ideas in the education world. Does the child raise and develop a personality by nature or by nurture? Even if we accept both to a certain degree, there is a thing we need to know that every minute we can educate and change ourselves by improving our brain’s functioning. In the recent years, even the people who were raised in bad and hard conditions can find opportunity to improve and educate themselves thanks to many self-help books.

      In this book, I’ll try to help children and families with my knowledge of holistic child psychology in which I gained university degree in online education during my children’s and beloved students’ education. This book is written with the notes from my undergraduate and postgraduate child psychology educations and from other helpful books.

      My goal is to provide all children good and positive contributions both for themselves and for the world with the help of their families that raise them. Our world will only get better if the new generation is happy, healthy and successful.

      My book explains the secret of my child’s success. Every mother and father is focused on both their own success and their child’s.

      In our days, people chase after success. School’s top student, winner of a competition, the best gainer, and the best dressed. The list of the bests goes on and on.

      At the end of my book, the unexpected secret will surprise you. First, let’s acquaint ourselves with child education. Let’s put our children in the center and try to raise them as good as possible. The person who is important is your child, not the people around you. But we should also know that we don’t predominate our children. We only perform a duty presented by nature to raise our children right and well. We perform our duties as Halil Cibran’s poem Children says.

      In this book of mine, I will present brief information about lives of my daughter Beliz and my son J. Ceki who are both in their 30’s and both successful in their academic lives and for this reason I believe that I raised them well to serve themselves and our world. And as we are heading to the very end of my book, we will explore the secret of success together.

      Gizel Hazan

      -Family, Life and Education Coach

      Children

      And a woman who held a baby against her bosom said, Speak to us of Children.

      And he said:

      Your children are not your children. 

      They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself. 

      They come through you but not from you, 

      And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you. 

      You may give them your love but not your thoughts. 

      For they have their own thoughts. 

      You may house their bodies but not their souls, 

      For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams. 

      You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.

      For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday. 

      You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth. 

      The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far. 

      Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness; 

      For even as he loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable.

      Halil Cibran

      In Solomon Island, in south of the Pacific Ocean, if people want to cut a tree, they practice a different method. They don’t use a saw or an axe. They appear before the tree and tell it bad, humiliating, sad words. That’s all!

      Within a short time, the tree is weary of life, it drains and dies. There is no need for a saw and an axe¹

      http://bighdwalls.com/wp-content/uploads/trees-hd-wallapper1200.jpg

      ¹https://tr.wikipedia.org/wiki/Solomon_Adalar%C4%B1

      1 - My Child’s Behaviors

      Mr. and Mrs. Jacobson were very happy when their son Tom was born. Both of their families considered Tom the most beautiful and sweet baby in the world. But as Tom was growing, his parents weren’t sure about how to behave their kid. Tom was rebellious for 6 months and happy, peaceful for the other 6 months. When they taught that he settled down, he changed again and became an introverted kid. Mr. & Mrs. Jacobson decided to read the book Child Behavior² and their life changed completely.

      ²Child Behavior, The Classic child care manual from the Gesell Institute of Human Development, Frances L.Ilg. M. D. Louise Bates Ames, Ph. D., Sidney M. Baker, M.D.

      It is very important for all parents who raise a child for the first time to know their child's behavior patterns. In certain ages, children present certain behavior patterns and when those behaviors are predicted it becomes more comfortable to accept them and the family knows how to face them.

      Each child has personal behaviors which they brought from nature. Children who grow receiving respect to their personality, grow happier and more successful.

      Environmental factors also have an effect on children's behaviors. In addition to environmental factors, nutrition also has been a topic to which child development specialists give great importance to. Healthy eating has positive effects on behaviors as it has on any other subject.

      Children's behaviors can be

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