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    The Sex Dare: A Married Couples’ 21 Day Guide to Great Sex
    The Sex Dare: A Married Couples’ 21 Day Guide to Great Sex
    The Sex Dare: A Married Couples’ 21 Day Guide to Great Sex
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    The Sex Dare: A Married Couples’ 21 Day Guide to Great Sex

    By Tenisha N. Collins

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    Sex is great and feels real, real good, but there's a lot more to it than that. Societal trends advocate doing whatever feels good, including having sexual intercourse with someone you are not married to. But the truth is, God has reserved great sex for a husband and his own wife -- period! The limelight shining on sex isn't a good one. It's almost impossible to find positive models of sex while married, in any medium, today. Television sitcoms, movies, magazines, romance novels, gossip radio, and talk shows all highlight marriages consumed with infidelity, trust issues, dehumanizing sex or a lack of sexual intimacy. Most mediums imply that singles are the ones having the best sex of their lives and, if they do marry, great sex ends after the honeymoon.This guide removes all the defective propaganda surrounding sex so that a husband and wife BOTH enjoy sex without any issues. In just 21 days, married couples could be having the best, bed-breaking, intoxicatingly addictive sex with one another. Go ahead and read it...I dare you!

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherTENISHAC
    Release dateJul 25, 2019
    ISBN9781393005278
    The Sex Dare: A Married Couples’ 21 Day Guide to Great Sex

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      The Sex Dare - Tenisha N. Collins

      Day 1: Your Thought Life Affects Your Sex Life

      Did you realize that the essence of WHO you are sexually and HOW you approach intimacy in your marriage is contained in your thoughts? Yes! So, saying your thought life is important is an understatement. Our brains have a tremendous effect on our sexual experience. How we think influences our sexual desire. Your THOUGHTS control EVERYTHING, so you need to make sure that your thoughts are based on His Truth and nothing else.  God’s Truth about SEX will remain on the pages of your Bible and never make it to your bedroom if you fail to read it, meditate on it, believe it in your heart and speak it out loud.

      Now that YOU know that the quality of YOUR bedroom experience begins AND ends with your thoughts, let’s look at WHAT you’re thinking. Take a moment to fixate on what comes to your mind when you hear or see the word, SEX. If people could see what you are thinking in that infamous white cloud above your head, would you be ashamed, embarrassed or condemned?

      What I am referring to is illicit sexual experiences that DO NOT honor your spouse, yourself or God. The Bible speaks to several sexual practices that are NOT holy and should be FORBIDDEN in the life of the Christian. Illicit sexual practices that are PROHIBITED by God consist of lust {Matthew 5:28}, adultery {Mark 10:19}, fornication {Ephesians 5:3}, homosexuality {Romans 1:26-27}, incest {Leviticus 18:6}, bestiality {Leviticus 18:23} and the like. These perversions are to be put away from you, resisted and fled from.

      God’s Word is clear—get rid of WHATEVER is in your heart that causes you to sin and replace it with the Word of God!  Faith comes by hearing and what you hear will provoke a thought pattern associated with what was heard. There is a lot of stimulation in our world and the majority of it is false, unholy and destructive. Get rid of your smart phone, satellite TV, or your social media accounts if it is a PORTAL for temptation. Cut off relationships that tempt you. Stop flirting with ANYTHING that causes you to think, lust, or fantasize about a person other than your spouse! Seek counseling and support when battling sexual perversions and unnatural feelings. Remember, you MUST use your Faith to overcome ANY sexual obstacle you face if you want to be victorious in this area of your life.

      You MUST keep focused on His Word regarding marriage and agape love IF you want to have the kind of thoughts that positively impact your intimate time with your spouse.

      Meditation

      If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell."

      Matthew 5:29

      You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.' But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart."

      Matthew 5:27-28 NIV

      Prayer

      Father God, Your Word says that I can do all things in Christ Jesus, therefore, I declare that I only desire my spouse all the days of my life. Lord, thank You for the power to keep myself pure for my spouse and make myself available to please my spouse sexually. Father may my spouse and I long to sexually please one another till death do us part. Lord may we have a desire to fulfill each other’s needs and have a life focused on You. May our sexual experiences be highly pleasurable to us both and may the intimacy supersede any other relationship, drawing us closer each time we are unified. In Jesus’ name, amen.

      Confession

      Ideclare that I only have eyes for my spouse. I desire my spouse sexually and find him/her attractive. My spouse finds me sexy and can’t wait to fulfill my sexual needs. I can’t wait to be intimate with my spouse and we expect every encounter to be satisfying and explosive! We are committed to each other. We will not commit adultery and we keep our sexual desires focused on one another only. My marriage is strong, full of love and our bedroom is on fire emotionally and physically for the glory of God!

      Homework

      If you are dealing with sexual sin, commit to yourself, God and your spouse to get professional, Christian help in overcoming it. Be sure to confide in your spouse and include them in your journey to freedom.

      Day 2: Communication Is Sexy

      This devotion is a very important one. Great sex starts with great communication. Communication is vital in every lasting relationship. To communicate is to impart or convey one’s thoughts, ideas and feelings. The better a couple communicates, the more understanding, empathy and intimacy will find its place in the marriage. 

      I am going to give you two methods to use to make sure you are effectively communicating with your spouse — the Fishbowl Method and the Marbles Method. These two methods are here to help you determine WHEN its’ a good time to talk and HOW to talk about sensitive or emotionally charged issues.

      Marbles Method:

      If you are unfortunate enough to be in a hospital emergency room, you may see signs with smiley faces and numbers underneath. The nurse will ask you to indicate on the chart, which level of pain you are experiencing. The Marbles Method is similar to that rating

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