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Model Coach: A Common Sense Guide for Coaches of Youth Sports
Model Coach: A Common Sense Guide for Coaches of Youth Sports
Model Coach: A Common Sense Guide for Coaches of Youth Sports
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Model Coach: A Common Sense Guide for Coaches of Youth Sports

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Winning isn't everything.

It's becoming more and more evident: Parents and coaches are losing sight of the purpose and value of youth sports programs. Youth sports should be as much about developing social skills, understanding what it takes to become a leader, and learning how to become a young upstanding member of society as it is about kicking, hitting, spiking, or shooting a ball.

MODEL Coach is focused on reinstituting the value youth sports has on our children by refining and developing the coach's role. As the first installment in the MODEL Book Series,MODEL Coach helps coaches become well-rounded; and more effective at developing players, creating better leaders, and impacting their community in a positive manner.

Success is a result of doing the right things. MODEL Coach is about doing the right things.

LanguageEnglish
PublisheriUniverse
Release dateDec 1, 2008
ISBN9780595606979
Model Coach: A Common Sense Guide for Coaches of Youth Sports
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Daniel L. Sedor

Dan Sedor was born in Rochester, MN and lives in Lincoln, NE with his wife Karen and children Amanda and Brad. Dan has coached and officiated a variety of youth sports over his lifetime. Dan applies his 20+ years of business experience to coaching youth sports. See LRsuccess.com for details.

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    Model Coach - Daniel L. Sedor

    Contents

    PREFACE

    Convenient and Applicable

    INTRODUCTION

    Chapter 1

    How People Get Involved with Youth Coaching

    Additional Ways to Get Involved

    Influence of Society and Professional Role Models

    Responsibilities of a Youth Coach

    Get Involved

    CHAPTER SUMMARY

    Chapter 2

    Youth Coaches’ Importance to Society

    Teachers and Coaches

    Memorable Impact

    Other Points of View

    Typical Experiences

    Definition of a MODEL Coach

    CHAPTER SUMMARY

    Chapter 3

    Mentally Prepares: The M in MODEL Coach

    Establishing the Right Environment

    What about Winning?

    Being a Champion

    The Why

    The What (Picture of the Future)

    The How

    Implementation

    CHAPTER SUMMARY

    Chapter 4

    Organizes: The O in MODEL Coach

    Does Practice Make Perfect?

    Who Is the Limiting Factor?

    Why Not Keep It Simple?

    The Parent Meeting

    It Takes More than a Parent Meeting

    Planning Backward

    Conducting Effective Drills

    Involve the Kids

    Final Thoughts on Preparation

    CHAPTER SUMMARY

    Chapter 5

    Develops Every Player: The D in MODEL Coach

    Keeping Proper Perspective

    Assistant Coaches

    Determining Players’ Positions

    Try Mentoring

    CHAPTER SUMMARY

    Chapter 6

    Encourages: The E in MODEL Coach

    Setting the Stage

    SSIP Tips for Communicating

    Nonnegotiable Expectations

    Success Chain

    Outcomes

    Behaviors

    Beliefs/Thoughts

    Experience

    Repetition

    Summary of Success Chain

    Putting Things into Perspective

    Engaging Team Members

    CHAPTER SUMMARY

    Chapter 7

    Leads by Example: The L in MODEL Coach

    Consistency is the Key

    Imagine

    Passion

    CHAPTER SUMMARY

    Chapter 8

    Additional Advice for Becoming a MODEL Coach

    Think beyond the Season

    Learn from What Doesn’t Work, Too

    Learn from Others

    Final Thoughts

    CONCLUSION

    Interested in Helping?

    Parting Comment

    COACH’S PERSONAL PLAN OF ACTION

    COACH’S PERSONAL PLAN OF ACTION

    ABOUT THE AUTHOR

    REFERENCES

    FOR FURTHER READING

    ACKNOWLEDGMENTS

    PREFACE

    I chose to write a book about youth coaching because of my passion for developing youth through sports. It also helps that my business background blends well with my love for sports and kids.

    I’ve personally participated in more than twelve sports, coached eight sports, and officiated nine sports over my lifetime. I’ve drawn from a blended background that allows me to state things in a clear, useful manner that youth coaches can understand and implement. My engineering background, human resources experience, and management responsibilities have led me to be a part-owner of a successful business consulting firm that specializes in helping people realize their untapped potential. In dealing with professionals, I’ve learned to keep things simple and applicable, with the goal of empowering people to become more successful. This book connects my passion for helping others with my knack for keeping things simple. I get excited thinking about the impact this book will have on others.

    We all want positive role models coaching our kids as they grow up. Unfortunately, I’ve seen so many poor examples of coaches over the years, and I wonder what impact they had on the youth they influenced. When I read articles about coaches that encourage cheating or hurting other players, I get concerned that more needs to be done to address these issues. Some poor coaches are simply inexperienced, whereas others have a narrow-minded focus on winning at all costs. Regardless of the excuses or conditions that exist for any coach, influence still comes down to the coach and how he or she chooses to act. For the coach looking for guidance on how to influence youth positively, this book will provide productive actions that youth coaches can apply immediately.

    When I think of the consummate coach that continues to be a positive role model in everything he does, the name Tom Osborne comes to mind. Whether Tom is coaching on the field, serving in a political role, or providing leadership for a special cause, he does it in a consistent manner with integrity and a passion to make a positive difference. I am honored and blessed to have Tom provide the following comments regarding MODEL Coach:

    Most people have had an experience with a youth coach. Some of these experiences have been very positive, some have been negative. We often see young people discouraged from further athletic competition by a bad experience with a coach while they are still in their formative years.

    Dan Sedor’s book is an excellent guide to effective coaching and communication with young people. It is extremely important that we realize that young athletes are not professionals and that their self-image, self-confidence, and attitude towards sports and authority figures often is shaped to a very large degree by a coach or two at the very earliest levels of their athletic experience.

    I recommend that parents and coaches read this book carefully.

    Best Wishes,

    Tom Osborne

    Within the youth sports organizations in our communities, there is often limited guidance to support or develop volunteer youth coaches. The organizations that coordinate youth sports must do more to encourage, challenge, and promote desirable coaching behaviors. Imagine the impact of a community that supports good coaches so they continue coaching while helping inexperienced coaches develop into good coaches.

    But what makes a good coach? Simply put, good coaches create a positive environment for learning the fundamentals, take to heart the development of every player, and enhance an appreciation or love of the sport. We can recognize good coaching when we observe at the end of a season that every player has improved knowledge and skill of the sport and the desire to keep playing the sport at home, in their neighborhoods, and again next season. We can also see good coaching when the season comes to a close and players still want to practice. They look forward to attending practice even in muddy, cold, or windy conditions.

    As I’ve observed coaches and players, I’ve noticed there are some common characteristics of successful coaches. With the help of other sports professionals, coaches, friends, and family, I’ve created these easy-to-read and easy-to-follow steps for becoming a more successful coach. Keep in mind, success is a relative term and ultimately is defined by each of us. No one else can make us successful. We must first define what success looks like, and then take actions that move us in a desired direction. Yet even if youth coaches follow only one of the suggestions in this book, it can make them better coaches and community members.

    Convenient and Applicable

    This book is arranged for the reader’s convenience. If you are the impatient, straight-to-the-point type of person, go ahead and read the chapter summaries. Then, if you would like more information, go back and read the entire chapter.

    There are also materials available to you on my Web site. I have also provided links to other helpful coaching resources. Feel free to visit www.modelbookseries.com to access this and other helpful information.

    My primary goal for this book is to help the newer, less-experienced, volunteer coach of any age. My secondary goal is to help hone the experienced coach who may have been a volunteer coach for ten or more years. It is easy to get complacent and to adopt some unhealthy habits over time. This book will reinforce the vast array of positive habits an experienced coach has and will offer a few subtle ways to enhance a coach’s abilities. My goals in this book are the following:

    • Enhance the players’ experience so they want to practice, play games, and return the following year; ultimately, so they continue playing sports and learning life lessons during their sports experience

    • Help coaches build the self-esteem of players while enhancing the players’ leadership skills

    • Help coaches get the most out of their players

    • Help coaches better lead their team and team members better lead themselves

    • Allow the experience of volunteer youth coaches to be more positive and enjoyable so they continue coaching and developing youth

    This book includes a section in chapter four on how to conduct a parent meeting that you should read if you want to be a successful coach. I mention it now to bring it to the front of your brain so that you consider the tips in that section of the book; this is one of the fundamental areas most volunteer coaches overlook. Most coaches think they are merely coaching the players on their team. Beyond the fact that the parents have to see that their child gets to and from practice, coaches need to realize the parents have a profound influence on the success of their players.

    This book also includes stories and insights related to people I have had the pleasure of coaching, playing, or meeting with over my career. You will hear about Timmy’s amazing feat, Nash’s challenge, Bill’s vast experience at getting volunteered to coach, and special coaches like Todd who are willing to take a leadership role. You will see from the perspectives of Linda, Pete, Tim, Kevin, JP, Boyd, Gene, Tonia, Larry, Eric, and an endless

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