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    Small Talk: Shy Guy to Social Butterfly - Proven Tactics to Improve Your Conversation Skills and Be Charismatic, and Instantly Likable (Communications skills guide for Introverts): Small Talk, #1
    Small Talk: Shy Guy to Social Butterfly - Proven Tactics to Improve Your Conversation Skills and Be Charismatic, and Instantly Likable (Communications skills guide for Introverts): Small Talk, #1
    Small Talk: Shy Guy to Social Butterfly - Proven Tactics to Improve Your Conversation Skills and Be Charismatic, and Instantly Likable (Communications skills guide for Introverts): Small Talk, #1
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    Small Talk: Shy Guy to Social Butterfly - Proven Tactics to Improve Your Conversation Skills and Be Charismatic, and Instantly Likable (Communications skills guide for Introverts): Small Talk, #1

    By Antonio De Luca

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    •    Do you find that you are the one that no one notices when in group situations?
    •    Are you too scared to speak up about your awesome opinion when it comes to debating against others?
    •    Were you well-known as the “shy guy” when growing up and are still referred to that among your friends and family?
    •    Are you tired of feeling like a doormat when it comes to a lack of power in expressing your thoughts and emotions?

    If any or all the above pertain to your life, then I do have a surprise in store for you! There are many methods that you can begin starting as soon as today to totally abolish that shy guy personality and become a sociable, charming, and attractive man that people want to engage with and get to know!

    Sounds too good to be true? I assure you it is not. Within this book, you will find everything you need to know about becoming a social butterfly, including the following: 

    •    The importance of effective communication and body language
    •    The power of influential speech
    •    Ways to drastically improve your social skills
    •    Conversation tactics that will have people hooked on your every word
    •    Ways to improve all your future conversations with anyone
    •    Ways to become more attractive in the eyes of others and be more charismatic
    •    Ways to become nonchalant about what others think of you and how to embrace your unique self
    •    And much more!

    While the roadmap to coming out of your introverted self will not happen overnight, this doesn’t mean that you cannot start today! Each chapter of this book is dedicated to intricate areas of the basics of communication to help you build a communicative foundation, all the way up to acquiring tactics to catch the attention of just about anyone in your life.

    If you are ready for a new nickname, then this is the book for you! Anyone has the power to change their life around when it comes to social and communication skills, you just have to know how to go about learning these essential skill sets the right way. You are just one purchase and a page flip away from becoming a master at the art of communication, body language, and attractiveness. 

    What are you waiting for? The power to change the entire course of your life is just within reach.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherAntonio De Luca
    Release dateMar 28, 2018
    ISBN9781386459859
    Small Talk: Shy Guy to Social Butterfly - Proven Tactics to Improve Your Conversation Skills and Be Charismatic, and Instantly Likable (Communications skills guide for Introverts): Small Talk, #1

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      Book preview

      Small Talk - Antonio De Luca

      Introduction

      Congratulations on purchasing Shy Guy to Social Butterfly: Proven Tactics to Improve Your Conversation Skills, Be Charismatic, and Instantly Likable and thank you for doing so!

      If you struggle to be outgoing in a world that thrives and survives on social connections, then you have come across just the right place to master everything there is to know about being a charismatic and likable person.

      To be quite honest, almost everyone could utilize some of the strategies and methods in this book to engage in more fulfilling conversation, rid themselves of their introverted shell, and make long-lasting connections through the power of effective communication.

      Whether you are a shy person that refrains from stepping foot out of your front door or are looking for methods of becoming more likable and attractive in the eyes of others, then you are in for a treat! All the chapters within this book will graciously walk you through learning how to speak to anyone and how to become a more social person.

      The following chapters will discuss various strategies, teachings, and tips to transform you from a quiet and introverted shy guy into a charming, conversational, and influential human being. Everyone deserves to have the ability to small talk and be charismatic up their sleeve, so are you ready to learn these methods that can help you overcome your introversion? When you put in the work to change the way others see you and speak with you, you hold all of your own cards instead of being led astray by others in your life. It is time to take control of your life and become a fulfilled and outgoing talker!

      While there are other books that discuss ways to become less shy and more approachable, this book is the only one you will need to get on the train to have a better and more sociable life! Thank you again for purchasing this book. Every effort was made to ensure it is full of as much useful information as possible, please enjoy!

      Chapter 1

      Why Our World is Full of Undiscovered Introverts

      Before we dive into the contents of embracing the social life, let me inform you that if you are a shy introvert reading this (in which I assume you are), that I too was once like you. I showed up to parties by myself before any of my friends would arrive. I would sit on my phone or go to the bathroom to kill time and avoid any mingling and awkward conversation.

      For shy people like my past self and you, interacting with others can cause major anxiety and can be a stomach churner. This is how I can tell you straight up that the strategies in this book work because I used them myself to become much more comfortable in speaking and getting to know other people.

      Your friends and family, as well as others who know you well, probably would not use the word shy to describe you. You are here because you find connecting with people you do not know challenging and somewhat daunting. You fear all the unfamiliarity and are afraid of being rejected or judged. Now, there is nothing wrong with this feeling since it is quite natural. But it becomes an issue when it begins to drastically affect your everyday life and leave you unable to control it.

      There are a few things that shy people, in particular, know well:

      The feeling of uneasiness when in a room full of strangers

      That listening becomes an activity that is second nature

      The awkward pause to think before speaking

      The annoying feeling that occurs when referred to as introverted

      Cringing when someone says, speak up

      Wanting to explain to others that being more outgoing is not an overnight skill

      Knowing that they could be an awesome leader if only they were more well-spoken

      Taking a liking to the sidelines rather than the spotlight

      Having everyone consider their shyness to be an issue when it is not

      To be frank, living with the characteristics above, well, sucks! You know you have potential but are unable to communicate that to others and that is a profoundly negative feeling and not a great way to live life by any means. That is why I decided to create and share this book, because a very large number of people are exactly like my past self. I know it is possible to become more outgoing in a positive way and to craft your life into the best version possible.

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      Factors that Cause Shyness

      So, now we will touch on the fact of why shy people act the way they do and take a peek at the psychology behind shyness and the reasoning behind it all.

      If you are trying to stop reading and pinpoint where in your life that shyness started to take over, you will have a difficult time finding it. That is because shyness has no one cause and is typically a concoction of various factors that influence your tendency to be apprehensive and anxious. The heavy feeling of insecurity is created by both nurture and nature and changes drastically in many ways as people grow older and live through different experiences.

      This is the main reason that people remain in a shy state of mind for their entire life. This means that levels of shyness have the potential to rise and fall throughout the course of one’s life.

      Common causes of shyness can be any of the following or a combination of these, as well as others that are not mentioned:

      Life transitions: moving to college, employed at a new job, divorce, etc.

      Faulty perception of self

      Experience of harsh treatment at any point in life beforehand

      The Blooming of Shyness at an Early Age

      There is no specific gene for shyness that children are born with. Young kids, however, can

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