To Love and Dream In a Certain Way
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There are various things that we experience in our lives, we meet new people and learn new things every day. We all have goals that we want to achieve in life as well as the lifestyle we want to live, many see themselves owning their own businesses and driving luxurious cars. We all have something that we want to achieve but there are things that one have to do in order to unleash or to achieve your goals.
It’s very difficult to achieve your goals as we face challenges daily and sometimes we face challenges that we cannot control which may make one give up easily onto everything that they’re doing. Well there are few things that we have to understand in order to unleash or to achieve our goals, this includes understanding love.
Love is word that describes or defines various things in life such as relationships. A relationship is a strong thing that one needs to understand and be able to control. Love means happiness and love also means sadness, it’s very difficult to understand love but it’s something that one should be able to know and understand about.
You are in a relationship with someone else, let us say you are seeing someone maybe a boyfriend. Since you’re in a relationship with this guy there are so many things that you should be aware of and so many things that you should understand when you are in a relationship with someone. These things includes difficult times or you’re facing challenges in your relationship in such a way that you can’t take it anymore you just want to call things off because you feel like that’s the only option that will help you find peace in your life.
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To Love and Dream In a Certain Way - Wandile Majola
Table of Content
Acknowledgement
Introduction
Chapter 1: Understanding a Relationship
Chapter 2: Making sacrifices and Being responsible
Chapter 3: Dreams & Goals
Chapter 4: Understanding yourself
Chapter 5: Making Decisions and Finding your Purpose
Chapter 6: Understanding the Nature of your Purpose
Chapter 7: Time and Purpose
Chapter 8: Sacrifices and Benefits of Purpose
Chapter 9: Unleashing your Purpose
Acknowledgement
I’m at peace, I’m on earth, I love, I cry, I make peace, I laugh, I get hurt and lastly I experience
. With everything I have today and the person i am today i believe i’m blessed. To my friends and my family I would love to thank them for everything that they have done for and the support that they gave me till today, with that said I thank them. I have been through a lot in life but God gave me strength to do big things in life and to achieve a lot in life.
I have experienced a lot of things in life, things that made me think twice about my life, but with all the prayers and with God on my side, I was able to move on and face the real world, the world of happiness and the world of peace. Thanks to the people that been there for me since day one and believed in me and the things that I do as well as people across the world who support us as we share these strong words that empowers people, as we share a strong message to the world that with everything going in life, anything is possible and if you believe in yourself, you will one day achieve your goals.
Thanks to my publisher, making it easy for people across the world to get my book and I would love to thank everyone who took this first chance and believing that this book might change his or her life.
Introduction
There are various things that we experience in our lives, we meet new people and learn new things every day. We all have goals that we want to achieve in life as well as the lifestyle we want to live, many see themselves owning their own businesses and driving luxurious cars. We all have something that we want to achieve but there are things that one have to do in order to unleash or to achieve your goals.
It’s very difficult to achieve your goals as we face challenges daily and sometimes we face challenges that we cannot control which may make one give up easily onto everything that they’re doing. Well there are few things that we have to understand in order to unleash or to achieve our goals, this includes understanding love.
Love is word that describes or defines various things in life such as relationships. A relationship is a strong thing that one needs to understand and be able to control. Love means happiness and love also means sadness, it’s very difficult to understand love but it’s something that one should be able to know and understand about.
You are in a relationship with someone else, let us say you are seeing someone maybe a boyfriend. Since you’re in a relationship with this guy there are so many things that you should be aware of and so many things that you should understand when you are in a relationship with someone. These things includes difficult times or you’re facing challenges in your relationship in such a way that you can’t take it anymore you just want to call things off because you feel like that’s the only option that will help you find peace in your life.
You can’t really be that person who is fully committed to someone but can’t control your feelings or can’t deal with dispute and difficult times in your relationship, that what this is all about. You have to know what is it that should be done if you go through difficult times and what is it that you should know about being in a relationship with someone since you know less about serious relationship or let just say you have never been involve with someone for a long period of time.
We also have to understand about ourselves, understanding what is it that we want to achieve and what should be done in order for us to unleash those desired dreams. Having a purpose and knowing the principles of life, knowing that if you want to achieve something in life this should happen and this is what you should do and that the only way to understand more about your journey and some of the ways that can be helpful.
Understanding what you want in life and understanding what kind of a person you are. To understand both these, this may guide one to understanding everything about life and finding their purpose of life. Starting from your first till your last tears, understanding where you come from and who were there as well as how will you achieve whatever you wish to achieve in life.
We come from different backgrounds where we live our lives differently and we behave differently towards one another. The world has its own ways of defining the purpose but it needs one to understand and master the true purpose of life, to know all the rules of how to understand people and the world itself.
This may take years for one to understand the true meaning of life as well as finding their purpose of life, many people are confused by what they believe in because of what they think it true to them, meaning, people are living their lives the way other choose to live theirs not understanding that, to be able to understand yourself, you have to do things that are best for you and things which you decided to make or how you chose to live your life without looking at someone and say, I want to live like this.
It’s good to dream, it is also good to look up to someone whom you wish to be like, but it is dangerous to do or become the person you not, you can never be like someone if you don’t know your strengths and the threats as well your weaknesses. One needs to understand what best for them then to believe if they live like someone else, they will look good or people may see good things in you.
Be able to understand yourself and be able to live your live the way you chose to live it but one should be careful about what they choose in life, that is why in whatever we choose to do in life, we make decisions first, decisions that will help us feel free for the things or the way we chose to live our lives.
Decision making is always helpful to people who have dreams and goals they wish to achieve in life, decisions help us to see things differently and to understand them in various ways which why every person in this world makes decisions and decisions are final calls from what they chose to do or how they want to live their life.
We people have dreams that we wish to achieve in life but fail somehow to achieve them because of failing to understand our dreams too, our dreams are goals we wish to achieve but every dream needs action but to make action you need to plan everything. Planning is everything to achieving something in life.
People dream big but when they wake up their dreams are much bigger than their normal dreams they wish to achieve, meaning, they don’t know what to do in order for them to achieve those dreams. It is very painful to have a dream but fail to find a way to achieve your dream, looking around, you have a plan but still nothing is happening.
That is why we people need to find the purpose of life to be able to understand our dreams and everything we want overcome. Dreams must come true and for them to come true, one needs to follow all the rules of life and being able to understand everything about life. It self and everything that could help you achieve whatever you want to achieve in life.
In life there are rules and rules must be followed, and by following the rules, this means you will have no problem moving forward. But again, one should understand that life is like a video game, and every game has phases where one should reach. Let say you planning a snake game and you’re at your first stage which is your normal stage.
Whilst playing your first stage, everything seems to be normal and easy for you and hopes are high and you have faith and believe that you will reach the last level of this game. But again, in a game as you move on to another levels, the game becomes a little bit difficult for you and there are new things that appears on this game and it’s a must for you to win this game but to win this game, you must be able to win this level.
Think about it, there are many people who reach that stage but there are few of them who wins that stage and some give up and play another game. So this will tell you about life, that how life is, as we on our way to success there are phases we need to pass and some of them are difficult, meaning, we will have more challenges along the way and we have to face them and by facing them we have to move on because we have dreams we want to achieve.
This also tells you that, in life, they will be tough times where