Love After 50: Love Questions from DearCathy.com After Hours
By Cathy Harris
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About this ebook
This is probably the most difficult book I have ever written. A couple of years ago I became a “Love Coach” and started advising others including couples at DearCathy.com.
When I first thought about becoming a “Love Coach,” I had my doubts about my abilities to motivate people, who were seeking their soulmates.
However, I have known my entire life that I have the ability to bring people together and to let them look at all the possibilities and opportunities, that their lives have to offer.
I would like for everyone to know upfront that this book is not some x-rated book, that will offer you different positions to please your lover in bed.
Instead, it’s a book about answering all those too intriguing and important questions, that men and women have about each other as they age.
It’s about finding a suitable spouse, partner, mate, significant other or someone that you can enjoy your life with. And mostly, it’s about facing the facts in your own life.
I wrote this book because I spent close to 30 years working in a male dominated industry, where my co-workers would ask me all types of questions about their wives or mates. They even called me “Dr. Ruth.”
Even after a short marriage and being single for many years, I still knew what went on in most relationships and what it took to make them work.
Everyone would like to have a life companion, someone exciting to walk into the sunset with for their remaining years. But if it doesn’t happen, it doesn’t mean you are not living a worthy life.
Many couples don’t want to talk about what it really takes to stay together. Many would rather hide what’s obviously broken in their relationships, so that they can go on pretending it doesn’t matter.
This results in many years of being unfulfilled and unsatisfied in their relationships. All of it matters, if they ever plan on having a meaningful relationship, or if they ever plan on creating the type of life that they can truly love.
Cathy Harris
Cathy Harris is an Empowerment and Motivational Speaker, Health and Wellness Expert, Business Coach and the self-help author of 18 books. She is an expert on many different topics including health, business, writing/publishing, workplace discrimination, whistleblowing, law enforcement, domestic and international traveling, politics, community relations, family empowerment, and media. Her books and articles are full of content-rich material to help anyone get back into the driver’s seat.
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Love After 50 - Cathy Harris
OTHER BOOKS BY CATHY HARRIS
The Cathy Harris Story
The Failure of Homeland In-Security
Flying While Black
Domestic and International Traveler’s Survival Guide
Recession Survival Guide
Workplace Survival Guide
Discrimination 101 (Volume I & Volume II)
Police Interactions 101
How To Write A Book
Golden Years
My Hair, My Crown, My Glory
Diabetes 101
Cancer Cures
How To Raise Smart, Talented and Responsible Children
Politics 101
The New CEO
A Woman’s Guide to Buying a New or Used Vehicle
(Part I & II)
A Self-Help Guide to Empowering Your Family and the Entire Community (Series 1)
A Self-Help Guide to Starting Your Own Business
(Series 2)
A Self-Help Guide to Becoming Healthier Over the Next 30 Days (Series 3)
LOVE AFTER 50
Love Questions from Dear Cathy After Hours
by
Cathy Harris
SMASHWORDS EDITION
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Love After 50: Love Questions from Dear Cathy After Hours
Copyright 2016 by Cathy Harris
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DEDICATION
This book is dedicated to everyone seeking to form a meaningful love relationship and build the type of life that they can truly love.
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Dedication
Preface
Section 1: Singles Over 50 Love Issues
Still Hoping and Searching for Love
Dating A Younger Man
True Love – But Two Households
Mate Won’t Destroy Sex Tape
In Love With Friend’s Ex
New Mate Too Clingy
In Abusive Relationship
Mate is the Jealous Type
Dating Outside My Race
Bald Men Make Better Lovers
Getting Breast Implants for Mate
Section 2: Couples Over 50 Love Issues
Sick of Being Sexless in Seattle
Wife Seeks More Intimacy
Couple Need to Shop Online
Husband Left Along on New Years
Husband Can’t Say He Loves Wife
Married to a Homebody
Senior Couple Dislike Seniors
Mate Won’t Give Up Closet Space
End of Dancing Days
Wife Attracted to Other Women
Mate Avoids Intimate Conversations
When Is It Time To Move On?
Leaving Financially Secure Mate
Section 3: Health Issues Destroying Relationships and Remedies
Sick and Dating
ED and A Younger Woman
Leaving Mate Because of Diet
Garlic Playing Havoc on Relationship
Toxic Household Products and Sex
High Blood Pressure, ED and Sex
Testosterone the Love Hormone
Manhood Lost to Prostate Cancer
Wife Has Female Pattern Baldness
Fight Off Depression
Painful Menstrual Cramps
Unbearable Hot Flashes
Hysterectomy Ends Sex Life
Treat Husband for Yeast Infection
Controlling Outbreaks of Herpes, Shingles and Urinary Tract Infections
Viagra Side Effects
Supplements Raises Sexual Desires
Seeking Sexual Activity Through Diet
Healthier Enough for Sex
About the Author
PREFACE – A NOTE TO THE READER
This is probably the most difficult book I have ever written. A couple of years ago I became a Love Coach
and started advising others including couples at http://www.DearCathy.com.
When I first thought about becoming a Love Coach,
I had my doubts about my abilities to motivate people, who were seeking their soulmates.
However, I have known my entire life that I have the ability to bring people together and to let them look at all the possibilities and opportunities, that their lives have to offer.
I would like for everyone to know upfront that this book is not some x-rated book, that will offer you different positions to please your lover in bed.
Instead, it’s a book about answering all those too intriguing and important questions, that men and women have about each other as they age.
It’s about finding a suitable spouse, partner, mate, significant other or someone that you can enjoy your life with. And mostly, it’s about facing the facts in your own life.
I wrote this book because I spent close to 30 years working in a male dominated industry, where my co-workers would ask me all types of questions about their wives or mates. They even called me Dr. Ruth.
Even after a short marriage and being single for many years, I still knew what went on in most relationships and what it took to make them work.
Everyone would like to have a life companion, someone exciting to walk into the sunset with for their remaining years. But if it doesn’t happen, it doesn’t mean you are not living a worthy life.
Many couples don’t want to talk about what it really takes to stay together. Many would rather hide what’s obviously broken in their relationships, so that they can go on pretending it doesn’t matter.
This results in many years of being unfulfilled and unsatisfied in their relationships. All of it matters, if they ever plan on having a meaningful relationship, or if they ever plan on creating the type of life that they can truly love.
SECTION I – SINGLES OVER 50 LOVE ISSUES
Still Hoping and Searching for