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    Why Most Men Don't Talk: Silence Isn't Always Golden
    Why Most Men Don't Talk: Silence Isn't Always Golden
    Why Most Men Don't Talk: Silence Isn't Always Golden
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    Why Most Men Don't Talk: Silence Isn't Always Golden

    By Aaroncox52

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    This book is the works of REAL talk with REAL perspectives from the hearts of everyday people. This topic has been cemented in my spirit for a very long time. This book is written with emotional and spiritual insight to help women understand why men don't talk and how their vital roles can help us with this universal and too familiar issue. It is not by accident or coincidence that you have this book in your hands. Studies have proven that men who engage in and have high levels of communication have healthier relationships, better health, higher brain functioning and add years to their lives.

    This book discusses the problems and pain that come when men don't talk. We address this issue with Human Kindness and Spiritual Solutions. This includes all men: fathers, husbands, boyfriends, brothers, sons, nephews, cousins, work associates, friends and neighbors. These discussions could save families, relationships, incarcerations or even someone's life. This book is an NOT an expense, it's an investment. It will help men understand that they lie by keeping their mouth closed. They also condone poor behavior by ignoring issues and more importantly could be lying to themselves. Our children want and need to hear what men have to say and know about money, sex, drugs, education, health, religion, life and family. Being uninformed
    cost our children.*

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherAaroncox52
    Release dateAug 20, 2015
    Why Most Men Don't Talk: Silence Isn't Always Golden

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      Why Most Men Don't Talk - Aaroncox52

      TopTab-INTRODUCTION

      I've been to more funerals than weddings, family reunions and class reunions combined.  With that being said, I've also missed many of those funerals due to circumstances outside of my control.  Actually, I've always considered funerals a forced and unplanned family reunion.  Every single time I see a corpse in a casket the same question comes to mind.  If this person was given a last chance to speak for one minute only, what would transpire?

      What advice would they give?

      What would they caution against?

      What regret or regrets would they have?

      What do they wish they would have accomplished?

      What would they have done differently?

      What apologies would they offer?

      Who would they say I love you to?

      Would they ask for an overdue hug?

      What would they be thankful for about their life?

      Were they content with serving their purpose and mission while here on earth?

      What would be their feelings about the relationships they were in while here on earth (GOD, family, friends, neighbors, work associates, clients/customers)?

      What final thought would they have?

      Did they discover most of their talents and abilities and use them?

      Are they prepared for eternity?

      Did they really know how much of a profound affect they had on your life?

      The unexamined life is not worth living.  - Socrates

      I stopped at fifteen questions that I'd be curious about. You could probably think of additional thoughts and personal questions that aren't listed with mine.

      I was thirty-five thousand feet in the air traveling on a military assignment and my Uncle Samuel H. Cox's funeral was taking place back home in New Jersey.  Uncle Sam was a quiet and reserved man and that's when I had a spiritually defining moment. I asked myself what would Uncle Sam express to our family at this very moment at his funeral if he could speak to us one last time?

      Hold on a minute, why do we have to wait for Uncle Sam or any man or woman to leave us and only wonder what they would want to express?  Why can't we hear what anyone has to say now or before they depart earth? I don't know about you but I want my conversation, hugs and flowers from my loved ones now!  Basically, let's talk NOW! I am certain that everyone would gain something invaluable from someone in their family now.  Talking now will help you cope better with the mourning and grieving process.

      Many years before that thought occurred I had been laughing to myself at men that would rather sit there looking pitiful and silly rather than say something that could help themselves or someone in some way. These men would rather endure pain, punishment and embarrassment than to simply open their mouths.  Since my first book Do You Really Want to Know Why I Am Not At Home, I have learned far more about people than I thought was ever possible. In my heart I know and learned spiritually that we are disconnected as a whole because we don't follow GOD and his word. Here on earth we have to do our part and GOD will always do his. Therefore, now I no longer just observe, laugh and shake my head side to side because it's no longer comical.  It's not comical when I look at how meaningful discussions or clarification could prevent bankruptcies or lower the rate. This communication could mitigate our divorce rates, incarcerations, death rates, health and sickness and stress levels. Our people are just losing themselves through isolation and depression. This is serious! I find this overwhelmingly disturbing and dangerous. This has compelled me to become obligated and get involved through my passion of writing, listening, gathering and sharing powerful information with men and women.

      I’ve also learned that it is not us that destroy ourselves, it's the lack of knowledge and application of that knowledge that does. Knowledge plus action is a powerful tool. You are, by far, my best and most powerful marketing tool. I am going to do my part and possibly a great justice for many with this book.  It's up to you and them to take it in. Please make it part of your world and trusted inner circle.  Trust me, it is not by accident that you are reading these pages. You or someone you're close to has a better life plan that they should be following.  I'm not referring to all men but unfortunately it pertains to someone I’m sure you live with, love or know. This man is either your significant other, father, grandfather, brother, son, nephew, cousin, friend, neighbor, work associate, etc.

      My prayer to GOD is to reach millions of people with the information in this book and instill healthy conversation, expression and ongoing communication.  Not only does this country have a financial deficit but more importantly we have an effective communication and a male expression deficit.  I also believe we are poorly informed or misinformed and at times simply just not informed which leads us to making poor decisions.  We therefore, become captive to the consequences of the poor decisions we make. It’s time to properly address this disconnect as I am a Man of Action!

      Who is Aaron J. Cox and what makes you qualified to write on this topic?

      First and more importantly I am a spiritually grounded man. I'm the Co-Producer of a skit titled Living My Life Right.  I am also the co-author of a very beloved book titled Do You Really Want to Know Why I Am Not At Home. I am also the world’s worst small talker because I am direct, logical and too REAL. One of the reasons I write is because I believe writers live twice and I enjoy sharing information. I am currently serving in my 29th year part-time in the United States Armed Forces and have done countless interviews on this topic with four different work forces; Entrepreneurs, White Collar, Blue collar and our dedicated Military. I will honestly tell you that prior to this book as a man I thought I knew mostly everything about men, women and relationships.

      What did I learn after talking to hundreds of people?  I learned that I knew absolutely nothing and everyone is fighting a hard battle in some aspect of their life.  I knew just enough to get myself in a lot of trouble in my own personal situation.  Everyone has a prior hurt or is currently hurting and have their own story.  More importantly they would admit that many problems and pain would have been avoided if someone would have spoken up much sooner.  Bad things happen when the truth comes too late. That’s another reason I gave birth to this book.

      I am a voracious communicator and rate myself in the two percent apex of all male communicators. I am no expert in relationships and do not possess any formal degree higher than a B.S. in Accounting and a few financial certificates that I'm also passionate about. What I do have is over 2,000 hand-to-hand combat relationship stories from sales with my first book. REAL hard working and everyday people left me with genuine stories and education from their own account about their relationships. I have also blessed people by donating over 300 copies of my first book and their stories were even more amazing. I take every autograph request very seriously.  I consider myself YOUR AUTHOR.

      It is not my aspiration to exude any type of dominion in the relationship realm.  I gather information from individuals and couples and if given their permission I pass it on to others as learning tools. I'm not 100% sold on relationship experts because there are tons of them out there and they are contradicting one another and it confuses millions of people who need real help now! You must become the expert in your relationships.  I don't discount the experts because they are needed and can play a vital role. I respect the challenges they face from individuals and couples that visit them daily. After your money and time is spent on counseling you will still have a lot of work ahead of you. There are no black and white rules. There are just boundaries that you need to know exists and are not meant to be crossed because some of you will never get another opportunity to re-cross them. This book will help you understand and relate to men whether you have money or are poor and I've been both. No matter if you're 8 or 80 this book is for you.  By way of this book I am empowering you to be the expert of your own relationship; not only with the man you deal with the most, but all men. You can control yourself because no one on earth knows you better than you!

      "I must give away what I cannot gain by holding on

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