Resolving Conflicts with Your Children
By James Sutton
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Conflict with one's children or students can turn a great day into a miserable one. But avoiding necessary confrontation and the difficulty it can bring isn't the answer, either. What's needed is a guide, a master script, for discussing troublesome issues with a child or teen in a way that ends up better than it starts.
In this ebook, child and adolescent psychologist, Dr. James Sutton, outlines ten, simple steps for resolving conflicts effectively, even with a "difficult" youngster. The goal becomes one of creating a place for the child or teen to be a part of the solution. One grandmother, facing challenges in raising her 14-year-old granddaughter, was please with the outcomes of the strategy discussed in this book. "It was better than six months of therapy!" she exclaimed.
James Sutton
I am a semi-retired child and adolescent psychologist that was first a classroom teacher. Much of the last part of my practice involved training teachers and counselors across the country on the best strategies and practices for working effectively with difficult and troubled youngster. I have written several books, including an award-winner and a bestseller.
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Resolving Conflicts with Your Children - James Sutton
Resolving Conflicts with Your Children
A step-by-step-guide for parents and teachers
by James D. Sutton, EdD
Copyright 2015 James D. Sutton
Published by Friendly Oaks Publications
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Table of Contents
Prologue
Introduction
Chapter One: Conflict and Survival
Chapter Two: Coercion and Conflict
Chapter Three: Resolving Conflict
Chapter Four: Other Ways to Resolve Conflict
Chapter Five: What Needs to Happen?
About the Author
Other books by this Author
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Prologue
Just imagine you could actually resolve the conflicts you have with your child or teen. Imagine also that, with a simple strategy based on your sincerity, good will and your love for that young person, you could approach just about any problem or issue in a way that could have them helping you solve it.
What would it mean to have that ability?
It would mean a lot, wouldn’t it? It would have the potential to open the door even wider on the sort of relationship you wouldn’t even try to describe in words.
But the truth is that many of us fail more often than we should. I know I have. As a father, as a public school