So You Want To Be A Stripper?
By LeFemme LaShay and Nicholas Brown
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About this ebook
This manual is meant to help women who are curious about the strip club scene. It's meant to help girls who are considering this route, telling them how to make the money, but also on how to get out of the club in 5 years or less.
The regular 9 to 5 woman with a significant other can learn a thing or two to keep him happy, or for her to feel sexy for herself. It can also help men get an understanding of what to research if they choose to start their own business.
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So You Want To Be A Stripper? - LeFemme LaShay
Chapter 1:
Intros, Warnings & Reasons
Thank you for investing in my words. In my life, I learned that being up front and raw about things is always the best policy. You can lie and front all you want, but after reading this and you still choose to dance for your money, then it’s on you. All I’m doing is giving advice I wish was given to me before stepping onto a stage. People do what they want to do, so don’t blame me for wanting to help somebody’s little girl get in then get out the game.
If you want to know, I’ve been at this for some years, mostly in Miami. I’ve danced at the high end clubs, in the ghetto spots, and hole in the wall joints where space was very limited. I’ve seen things, been around people I thought I’d never meet, and even became friends with those in society seen as role models where they’re from. This hustle has opened my eyes to how low some men will go while being wild and free, to how far gone some women will stoop to make an extra dollar. And because of this, I’ll be sure to help you avoid these unnecessary traps.
To the normal women reading this, who go to school and/or working those 8, 12, and even 16 hour shifts, some of what I’m saying in this book, you can use in everyday life. I can tell you a few things about what can set you apart from others when in a competitive job environment. And yes, please believe that I know some moves that’ll have your men appreciate what you do for him.
Remember, those who decided on their own freewill to shake what they got, they could’ve jumped into the daily grind, but chose this route. So don’t cry if you get caught up because you ain’t want to listen to what I suggested. I write this out of love and hope that you find your way into something else, for in time your cute little body ain’t going to last.
Slimmer girls, with better bodies, and younger faces turn 18 every day, so how are you going to keep up after a while? There are exceptions to the rule, but do you really want to take that risk?
Games are meant to be played, so you must know when to quit while you’re ahead, or lose it all. In time, you’ll see what can make or break you. I just want to see you at the winners circle, gaining a world of knowledge without losing your mind, body or soul.
Why I started may differ from why you’re starting. With every major choice in a person’s life there are always reasons, so I’ll get into what I’ve come across in this portion of the manual, on why some girls get into this game.
Some of the girls I’ve encountered before they reached 18 years old were either: rebellious kids who did what they wanted to do; teenage runaways or teenage mothers; sexually abused and felt like their physical beauty is what makes them pretty or special; met a pimp who put her under his guidance; come from negative and dysfunctional family environments with drug abuse or alcoholism; or they have weak father figures or no father figures at all.
Other girls without the harsh backgrounds, while in their teens, probably thought that being a sexy exotic dancer was glamorous and empowering in a way. Some had an older cousin or female friend they looked up to who danced, and saw how well they got paid and dressed nicely.
Few that I’ve met were intrigued through rap music videos as kids, or overheard uncles and older male cousins talking about the strip club. While some were sick of being broke, and didn’t want to work an entry level job for low pay. And some just thought they had what it takes to be a dancer then went for it once they turned 18, 19 or 20.
The girls between the ages of 21 and 28 who jump in are either: out on their own with bills piling up; in college or a technical school and they can’t pay tuition fully; worked a normal job but something major like a pregnancy, their man got locked up or important family member got sick; as stated before, a pimp may guide them into the game; a friend suggest they try it along with them; or a small few actually dreamed about being a dancer when they were younger.
All in all, it all boils down to money in the end. How each person spends their cash is their business, but what’s needed to survive shall always cloud our best judgments, especially when you don’t have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of.
FAIR WARNING
You’re going to meet people in this game who share similar interests, and even view as a close as family. But do know, until you thoroughly know those around you, you have no friends. Everybody isn’t your enemy, but keep an eye out because people will try to screw you over emotionally, sexually and/or financially. You’re a pretty girl seen as meek by most people, so be smart about what you do next.
You’re heading into a field where nakedness or partial nudity is a key requirement. Customers will touch you in ways, or say things you truly don’t want to hear. Some nights will be so slow that you end up owing money to the club, if you’re at a low end spot. And there are always new girls or seasoned dancers trying to out perform and out sell you, if you can’t sell yourself to the customers.
You’re heading into a field where weak minds either end up on drugs, become alcoholics, abused or pimped by certain kinds of customers, or just plain lose their minds or faith in humanity. Some people may know of your life as a dancer and automatically stereotype you in the worst ways. The moral and/or religious folks may judge you, knowing they don’t have any right doing so, but need someone to insult so they can feel better about their backsliding.
You’re going to be asked why are you here
, or told you’re too pretty to be in this club.
Your parents, if they care, may be disappointed or even angered by your choice, feeling they let you down somehow. If you have a kid or kids, people may assume you’re an unfit parent, and feel they must keep tabs on you and your kid(s).
Regardless of the fact you get topless or naked for money, you’re still a woman who deserves respect, who’s having a tough time for now. But these are but a few things you must keep in mind. I’m not trying to scare you straight, you’re grown do what you want, but know that I do this because I care.
So once again I ask: So you want to be a stripper?
Chapter 2:
nothing to it but to do it
After debating and pondering whether or not you want to dance, the next step is to figure out which club to go to, and if you fit what that club is looking for. Be sure to scout the clubs you have heard about first, so you can see the environment and ask the dancers some questions. You must find out if the place is safe and has standards.
Most classy clubs tend to look for what’s called the baby doll or Barbie look, which can either be petite and sexy or tall and model like. Thickness (nice round butt, top heavy or both) is cool,