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How to be seductive: A woman's guide to being incredibly sexy

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How to be seductive: A woman's guide to being incredibly sexy

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Dec 14, 2011


How to be seductive is an indispensable guide to discovering your sexy side and making the most of the dating game. Packed with down-to-earth, simple and effective advice, How to be seductive helps you make the most of your assets, teaches you how to increase your self-confidence, and will enable even the most reluctant wallflower to get out there and dazzle the dating world.
Dec 14, 2011

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Who would have thought that something as simple and natural as seduction would need a guide book? After all, it’s easy. Don’t your eyes just meet across a crowded room, then you make idle chatter and impress each other with your witty repartee, and the next thing you know it’s all mini-breaks and expensive dinners with flattering low lighting? Right?

Of course, there’s more to it than that, and anyway the times they are a changin’. The chances are that you have successful seductions under your belt, but you may be re-entering the fray and feeling a little bit unsure of yourself. Or you may just want to perfect your seduction techniques, or want to spark up an existing relationship.

The most important single factor in perfecting your seduction king or queen status is confidence, confidence in your own sexiness and desirability, whether you are male or female, gay or straight. We will look at all the ways in which you can sharpen up your act, your whole attitude and your techniques, and bring you firmly into control.

Try to think about what it is that you find sexy in other people. Is it their manner? The way they look? Their voice, their accent, their clothes? One of the quickest ways to become sexy is to look and learn from others. But you have to pick your company carefully. If you play tennis with players that are better than you, you raise your game. If you hang out with sexy, attractive people, you have more of a chance of becoming one as well.

We can’t all look like film stars but we hope this book will at least give you the confidence to behave like one, and an incredibly sexy one at that. Remember, having sex is only one good reason for being incredibly sexy and seductive. Being sexy reinforces your confidence, which in turn makes you come across as younger and more dynamic. Being sexy makes you attractive to people and attractive people are often successful people. So being sexy is about laying a foundation for success. Finally, being sexy means you get to sleep with lots of other sexy people (if you want); a major advantage, but by no means the be all and end all.

1. Learn from the masters

Everyone knows someone who is an incredible flirt, who seems to be adored by all the opposite sex.

Rather than make voodoo dolls of people like this, watch and learn instead. Remember flirting doesn’t have to be about sex. It can just be about remembering to look up, crack a smile and not take everything so seriously. Most good flirts have a few skills in common. They keep things upbeat, they ask questions and remember details and they often use physical contact, sometimes with themselves, and sometimes with others. Touching your hair or face gives the other person a clear signal that you are interested in them. Touching their arm or hand is a way of letting people know that you are comfortable with the idea of being in their body space – or of having them in yours.

That isn’t to say these are necessarily right for you, but you might need to sharpen up your skills. You can also use what flirts do wrong to help guide you: maybe their whole conversation is about the other person, for example, which is a great way to get attention but isn’t going to help move things on to the next stage.

This is why you also need to think about how you already put yourself out there. Do you always come up with wisecracks or remind people how smart you are? Do you find yourself joking about, like you did with your friends at college? Whilst this might be a great place to get to with a partner, it’s not necessarily ideal when you first meet someone. Most people have a limit to how much they can take in during one sitting and definitely to how much they want to know. Revealing yourselves as you get to know one another is a much better way of allowing space for both of you to get comfortable.

Here’s an idea for you

Look at the people who make you feel good and consider which of their qualities you like. Think about how you can adopt these easy ways of being, and look for similar traits in yourself.

2. Heaven scent

One of the things that attracts us to each other is smell. Pheromones are secreted by the body, sending airborne messages that trigger a response from the opposite sex…

You have to smell good. This is a very basic rule of sex appeal: clean is a good smell to go for. Too much scent or cologne is off-putting and you don’t want to disguise your natural pheromones, those seriously powerful substances men and women emit to attract one another.

In one recent experiment scientists sprayed a chair in a doctor’s waiting room with male pheromones (if you’re interested, you can buy them online). A significant proportion of the women who walked into the empty waiting room picked that chair to sit on, despite the fact that it was neither the most comfortable nor the most convenient. So smell is a fundamental factor. If you are looking for the perfect partner, the pheromones in your body scent will play a large part.

The perception of our body odours is highly subjective; some will find us appealing, others won’t. Interestingly we usually smell best to a person whose genetic immunity to disease differs most from our own. In the long run, this makes for stronger, healthier children.

Smells also evoke memories and have been said to do this more vividly than either images or sounds. It’s a powerful reminder and an essential ingredient in a relationship. From the first pheromonal attraction to the

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