Lying, Cheating Men: How to Spot Them and Handle Them
By Lyn Kelley
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New, updated edition 2021. Certified Relationship coach Dr. Lyn Kelley tells you how to rate men on the “lying/cheating scale.” She explains why men lie and cheat, how to know if he’s lying or cheating, how to know if he can change and how to respond to it. She will help you understand antisocial personality, why it’s so hard to leave a cheater, how to know if you should leave him, and how to know if he can change. Here’s what you’ll get:
•Why women get hooked on lying, cheating men
•Top 10 ways to know if he’s cheating
•Tactics men use to “con” you
•How to know if he can change
•How to respond to lying and cheating
•How to get off the emotional roller coaster
•The 10 most effective ways to handle lying and cheating
•Antisocial Personality
•Symptoms
•Treatment
•How will I know if He’s lying or cheating?
•Questions to ask him
•How will I know if I can trust him?
•Do not date anyone who you know has these 5 issues
•How lying, cheating men affect your self esteem
•It starts with disrespect
•How to get off the emotional roller coaster
•Why is it so hard to leave a cheater?
•Emotional detachment
•Where does he fit on the lying/cheating scale?
•Why do men cheat?
•Is using pornography, phone sex, etc., considered cheating?
•Tactics lying/cheating men use to con you
•Top 10 ways to know if he’s cheating
•Can he change? Can he be helped?
•What if I suspect but don’t know for sure?
•How to confront lying and cheating
•How to stop being so nice and use your power
•How do I know if I should leave him?
•How to end it when you know he’s not good for you
•How to re-establish trust
Lyn Kelley
As a Motivational Coach and Speaker, my goal is "to empower people move to the next level of success in their lives." Many people have asked for more information about me and why I am qualified to motivate others. So here's a little bit about me and how I got here. It all started back in Fresno, CA where I was born and raised. As a child I knew I had a calling to help people be happier and live better lives. I knew this because I was keenly observant of people. I observed people and how they lived their lives. At age 10 a friend's family invited me to a musical show called "Up With People!" This show had a major impact on me, and brought up my passion to help people be happier. Although my parents didn't care about my grades, I received all A's in school except I always failed Oral English. I couldn't get up in front of the class and speak. What kept me going in school was my desire for a career in the helping/teaching profession, so I could help others become more successful. The females in my family were discouraged from going to college, so higher education became my way of rebelling. I earned my B.A. in Education from CSU Fresno. During college I had some wonderful professors who took me under their wing and encouraged me to speak in class. I learned that I enjoyed teaching and actually had a gift that had previously been repressed. I went on to get my teaching credential and taught Jr. and Sr. High School for 7 years. I went from a shy little girl who couldn't speak in front of the class to a big girl who couldn't STOP speaking in front of the class! Teaching adolescents was an amazing experience! I found that I wanted to work with them more one-on-one, so I went back to college to become a counselor. I received my M.S. in Counseling/Psychology from the University of Miami and became licensed as a Marriage & Family Therapist. Initially I set out to get a wide range of experience. I worked in a children's psych hospital in dual diagnosis, managed a residential treatment program for severely emotionally disturbed teenage girls, conducted biofeedback therapy for a pain management center, and worked in social services in the areas of foster care, child abuse and family reunification. Once I became licensed I worked in a private counseling practice for 7 years. I specialized in relationship counseling. During this time I realized that coaching, writing and teaching were what I really loved to do, s...
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Lying, Cheating Men - Lyn Kelley
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Author, Lyn Kelley, Ph.D., CPC
Certified Professional Coach
"My mission is to provide understanding, comfort, knowledge,
wisdom and personal power in relationships."
What others are saying about this book:
Well Worth It!
I just finished reading this book and couldn't put it down. It actually comforted me after my breakup with my cheating boyfriend. Now I know leaving him was the right thing to do, and in the future I feel I'll know if a man is the cheating type a lot earlier. I wish I had known about the red flags
before, but at least I do now!
--CrazyFox, Amazon Review
Great Book!
Great book (as well as other books on relationship by Lyn Kelley!). Very informative, bold and to the point. I wish I would have this knowledge 30 years, and prior to my dating and marriage. Aside from showing red flags about different types of men & relationship, Lyn Kelley encourages to raise your standards, teaches how to set boundaries and stand for yourself.
--Marina, Amazon Review
"Dr. Kelley tells it like it is. I’ve read all of her books on relationships and feel I have grown by leaps and bounds due to her honest, straight, real information. She writes like she is talking to her best friend. All the strategies I’ve used so far that she suggests have worked for me! I feel so much more confident in dating now, and I’m not wasting time with men who are wrong for me. This was worth more than 100 times the cost of the books to me. I highly recommend her books."
--Tanya Murray, San Diego, CA
"Lyn Kelley has done a superlative job of explaining why people fail at their relationships and how they can stop this self-sabotage. She explains how to know which men are ‘manageable’ and which men are not. She gives concrete, simple ways to get even the most difficult men to surrender to you. She showed me how I was actually pushing men away from me rather than moving them toward me. I now know what I’ve been doing wrong and am committed to changing myself! I highly recommend this book."
--Michelle Rodriguez, Orlando, FL
"Dear Dr. Lyn,
I just wanted to let you know how amazing and accurate your book is (10 Secrets to Getting Any Man You Want to Want YOU). This book answered all of my questions and I realized what I was doing wrong. Forget women are from Venus and blah blah blah. YOUR BOOK SAYS IT ALL! Thank you."
--Katie Rox
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Dear Jane Series:
Book 1: The 12 Biggest Mistakes Women Make in Dating & Love Relationships
Book 2: How to Cure a Commitment-Phobic
Book 3: How to Turn a Player into a Stayer
Book 4: Controlling and Manipulative Men: How to Spot Them and Handle Them
Book 5: Self-Centered and Narcissistic Men: How to Spot Them and Handle Them
Book 6: Addicted Men – Drugs, Alcohol, Porn and More: How to Spot Them and Handle Them
Book 7: Low Achieving Men - Passives, Wimps, Dreamers: How to Spot Them and Handle Them
Book 8: Cheap Men: How to Spot Them and Handle Them
Book 9: Men who Lie and Cheat: How to Spot Them and Handle Them
Book 10: Emotionally Unavailable Men: How to Spot Them and Handle Them
Book 11: The Romantic Terrorist: Protect Yourself from Stalking, Harassment, Bullying and Threats
Book 12: How to Get Any Man You Want to Want YOU
Book 13: The 10 Biggest Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Love Relationships
Book 14: How to Break Up, Survive and Thrive
Book 15: Bad Dick, Good Jane: How Good Girls Get Bad Boys to Behave, Fall in Love and Commit
New Release!
Bad Dick, Good Jane:
How Good Girls Get Bad Boys to Behave, Fall in Love, and Commit
Other Self-Help Books by Lyn Kelley:
How to Stick With Your Diet & Exercise Program
How to Motivate People! The 3 Magic Keys to Unlock Anyone’s Hidden Motivation
The 7 Self-Sabotages: Why People Sabotage Themselves and How to Stop It
How to Become Your Own Life Coach in 12 Easy Steps
Stalking 101: Everything You Need to Know to Keep Yourself Safe
How to Motivate Yourself: Secrets of the Motivational Superstars
The Magic of Detachment: How to Detach from Other People and Their Problems
Thousands of Angels: Your Guide to Spiritual Empowerment, Peace and Abundance
One Day She Woke Up and Decided to be Brave: A Woman’s Journey from Fear to Courage
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The Biggest Mistake Women Make in Dating and Love Relationships:
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Is He a Commitment Phobic?
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The Magic of Detachment: How