Letters to Young Black Men: Advice and Encouragement for a Difficult Journey
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Actually written from numerous historically black colleges, such as Tuskegee, Morehouse and North Carolina A&T, from the very heart of a black Christian minister, who has himself faced all of the perils and problems young black men face today, comes forth this book, written just for the young black man in your life, whether you are a mother, father, grandmother or Sunday School teacher.
Daniel Whyte III
Daniel Whyte III has spoken in meetings across the United States and in twenty-three foreign countries. He is the author of ten books. He is the President of Torch Ministries International, which publishes a magazine called The Torch Leader. He is also the chairman of the National Association to Save Young Black Men. He holds a Bachelor's Degree in Theology from Bethany Divinity College and a degree in Religion from Texas Wesleyan University. He is married to the former Meriqua Althea Dixon, of Christiana, Jamaica. God has blessed their union with seven children.
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Letters to Young Black Men - Daniel Whyte III
INTRODUCTION
It appears that many people are concerned about the worsening conditions in the black community of America. And let's just be honest: we are in a bad way, generally speaking. I say, generally speaking,
because there are some blacks who are not doing badly at all. But the black community, in general, is not doing that well. You don't believe that? Just read the newspaper: we're killing one another, robbing our parents and grandparents, raping our women, selling death to the dying, going to jail wholesale, murdering our babies, not taking care of our responsibilities, and wiping out our future.
Why are we sinking in the sea of murder, drugs and mayhem? How can things be turned around? I believe that the problem lies largely with the black man, and I also believe that the solution lies with the black man. I am convinced that the key to turning black America around is to turn black men around. For any group of people to rise, their men must rise. And after they have risen, they must stay standing no matter what, and take their God-given position as the leaders of their families, churches, communities or what have you. These letters aim to help with that rising and standing.
These letters have been written in the midst of a very hectic schedule of traveling, editing an international publication, and working on several other publishing projects. These letters have also been written in the midst of being a black man, and a black husband and father, with all of the great and awful experiences that go with such an existence. I said that to say this: As I write these letters, I am not in some ivory tower somewhere philosophizing about life as a young black man. Rather, I am right in the middle of life as a young black man.
In short, these letters come from a sincere heart of a black man to the hearts of young black men.
Dear Y.B.M. (Please note that Y.B.M. will stand for Young Black Man
throughout the book): I believe that this is a book that can absolutely revolutionize your life if you will let it.
See this book as a sign-post on the road of life, pointing you in the right direction. Read it, read it again, and then pass it on to another young black man struggling to find his way in this sometimes confusing and hostile world.
Daniel Whyte III, Tuskegee University Campus, Tuskegee, Alabama
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NEVER UNDERESTIMATE A YOUNG BLACK MAN --Daniel Whyte III
NEVER GIVE UP ON A YOUNG BLACK MAN -- BECAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW... --Daniel Whyte III
TO OLDER BLACK MEN: NEVER AGAIN FORGET ABOUT, CAST ASIDE, NEGLECT OR MISTREAT A YOUNG BLACK MAN, FOR THEY WILL GROW OLDER AND REMEMBER YOU--Daniel Whyte III
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ON YOUR LIFE -- SPIRITUAL
THE MAIN THING: Letter One
Dear Y.B.M.:
I am writing this letter from Hamden, Connecticut. I trust that you are doing well in these days.
Recently, I was speaking at a church in Orlando, Florida, and I saw a sign on the front of the pulpit that read:
The Main Thing
Is To Keep
The Main Thing
The Main Thing.
In this, my first letter to you, I would like to speak to you about the most important aspect of your life -- your Spiritual Life: the Main Thing. Now, you may not now think that your spiritual life is the most important part of your life, but trust me, it is. The longer you live on planet earth, the more you realize that life is more about the inner man than the outer man; for you see, you are not a body with a spirit. Rather, you are a spirit with a body. If your physical body would fall away, you would still exist.
Jesus said: Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceedeth out of the mouth of God.
--Matthew 4:4
I realize that talking about things spiritual is not popular these days, and it may not be what you wish to talk about at this time. I recall, when I was a child and got sick with what they called the whooping cough
or some type of flu or cold, my dear grandmother Beaman and/or my great-grandmother Breedlove would give me something that I didn't like -- but needed. It was called Castor Oil
. Dear Y.B.M., you may not like all that I am talking with you about, or you may not be interested in what I am talking with you about, but being that I have gone the way that you are going, I can say firmly and lovingly that you need it! Before we talk about things that may seemingly be of more interest to you, we must put the horse before the cart. We must put first things first.
Your spiritual life, your relationship with God, should be your number one priority in this life. No, it is not your health, your wealth, or even your education. It is God and God alone! There was a time that we as a race of people put more of an emphasis on the spiritual life than we do now. Today, however, we place more of an emphasis on the body, material things and money. And we wonder why we have the murder, mayhem and madness in our community!
Young man, you can be a part of turning things around for your people. But you must put God first and make your spiritual life priority number one.
Jesus also said: For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?
--Mark 8:36
Yours For Putting God First,
Daniel Whyte III
P.S.: Throughout this book, instead of having P.S.'s, I will use P.T.'s for Power Thoughts.
P.T. (Power Thoughts):
One with God is a majority.
--Billy Graham
America has abandoned the strong woman of spirituality and is shacking up with the harlot of materialism.
--Joseph Lowery
He who provides for this life, but takes no care for eternity, is wise for a moment, but a fool forever.
--Tillotson
The greatest riches of our community are not material but moral.
--David N. Dinkins
It is our duty to conserve our physical powers, our intellectual endowments, our spiritual ideals.
--W. E. B. Du Bois
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