How to Catch a Cheating Spouse & Survive Infidelity: Proven Strategies to Uncover the Truth & Steps to Recover from an Affair
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Do you feel that your partner or spouse is cheating on you?
Is he/she begins to act differently at home? Are you noticing, like your partner start spending more time at work for no obvious reason? Is he/she all of the sudden having frequent overnight business trips? Questionable items on credit card or phone bills? How about the lack of intimacy or even sex drive?
I myself know the sting of a cheating spouse. I had been with my first husband for over 6 years and I thought I knew him better than anyone. But it turned out I was more deceived than most of the people around him.
But discovering infidelity is more than just a gut instinct - it is also a willingness to face the truth; a truth that can shatter everything you hold to be true. That alone can be a dark and fearful thing and requires a bravery you may not even know you have.
And what do you do if he/she is cheating on you? Do you stay or leave? How do you handle the emotional stress?
Fortunately for me, I have gone from the shock of discovering my ex-husband's cheating to full recovery from this nightmare to finding love and being happily married again. I am here to share my experience and everything I have learned throughout my journey. I have helped my friends with this knowledge and I know I can help you too.
In "How to Catch a Cheating Spouse & Survive Infidelity", you will discover all the answers you need to uncover the truth and get through the heartbreak.
Here's what you'll discover in this book:
- Understand the tell tale signs of infidelity...
- 3 little known, yet simple ways to know for sure if he/she is cheating...
- Secrets from experts that few people ever know about...
- 3 proven steps to understanding how to interpret the evidence...
- 2 simple keys (that are right in front of your eyes) to housing finches in an aviary...
- WARNING: 3 things you should never do when it comes to confronting a cheating partner...
- You'll discover in just a few short minutes how to handle negative emotions...
- 6 time tested and proven strategies for dealing with betrayal...
- When to seek professional help when it comes to letting out your emotions...
- 7 everyday but often overlooked tips and tricks for letting out your anger...
- A pennies on the dollar approach to seeking help...
- How often to investigate a cheater on your own...
- How to create a support group...
- The once famous but forgotten secret that instantly allows you to move on with your life after it is shattered by a cheating spouse...
- And much more...
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How to Catch a Cheating Spouse & Survive Infidelity - Kristine C. James
How to Catch a Cheating Spouse & Survive Infidelity
Proven Strategies to Uncover the Truth & Steps to Recover from an Affair
Kristine C. James
Copyright© 2013 by Kristine C. James
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Table of Contents
Introduction
Chapter 1: The Signs
Your Gut Instinct
Red Flag Behaviors
The Subtle Signs
Chapter 2: What to Do If You Suspect
Journaling
Verification
Talking to a Friend
The Moral Dilemma of Digging Deeper
Private Detectives
Cyber-Snooping
Chapter 3: Confrontation
Confrontation Without Proof
Confrontation With Proof
Chapter 4: Recovery
Staying Together
Splitting Up
A Spiritual Journey
Chapter 5: Moving On
Take Some More Time Before You Start A New Relationship
Triggers
Move Slowly
Take a Chance
Forgiveness
Conclusion
Introduction
Betrayal and infidelity seem almost commonplace in our society today. One cannot even turn on the news or poke around the Internet without a story about one celebrity finding themselves in an infidelity scandal.
I know of at least two friends going through divorce proceedings because of infidelity. But honestly it is not something that just happens to other people. It can happen to any of us. As society changes, so too can people. The man or woman you married can change. Sometimes the person who changed is you. For some, change can take your partner onto a path that leads to heartache for all involved: infidelity.
Odds are, if you have not experienced it first hand, you know someone who has been cheated upon, or who has cheated themselves. An estimated 30-60% of married spouses admit to having had an extramarital affair.
I myself know the sting of a cheating spouse. I had been with my first husband for over 6 years and I thought I knew him better than anyone. But it turned out I was more deceived than most of the people around him.
Like most people finding out about infidelity, I had my suspicions early on. One statistic states that 85% of people who suspect infidelity later find it to be true. For me, there were little signs here and there, but mostly a gut instinct that told me something was hinky.
But discovering infidelity is more than just a gut instinct—it is also a willingness to face the truth; a truth that can shatter everything you hold to be true. That alone can be a dark and fearful thing and requires a bravery you may not even know you have.
What do you do if you suspect infidelity? How can you know if it really is infidelity, or if you are just suspicious by nature? You may not be able to point directly to infidelity, short of catching them in the act, but there are some steps you can take to try to find the truth, figure out what you need to do if in fact it is happening, and how you can move on from betrayal and become a better and stronger person.
Fortunately for me, I have gone from the shock of discovering my ex-husband’s cheating to full recovery from this nightmare to finding love and being happily married again. I am here to share my experience and everything I have learned throughout my journey. I have helped my friends with this knowledge and I know I can help you