Everyone and their brother has recommended this book to me, so I decided to go ahead and read it. Let's just get this out of the way before I continue: Everyone judges books by their covers, and I'm pretty open about the fact that I do also. I was a bit put off by this book originally because of its cover, and now that I've read it I would still argue that another image would have been better. I enjoyed the book Lolita, but not enough to finish it, and certainly not enough to read another like it, so when I saw this image of child's legs with mary janes next to old man shoes, I immediately thought that perhaps this "time traveler" was a pedophile.However, I'm not one to refuse books - everything gets a chance - and I'm glad I picked it up. The book is about a man who time travels uncontrollably, usually to moments in his past but sometimes moments in his future. He frequently finds himself in the vicinity of Clare, who eventually becomes his wife. According to the back cover, this is a book about their love and what it takes to love unconditionally without boundaries and over time, which is true, but I felt it was so much more than just that. The book is called The Time Traveler's Wife but I would have been just as content with The Time Traveler. It is the story of two people coming together and their lives, not just hers. Struggles are apparent for both sexes.Clare, of course, has to deal with her time-travelling boyfriend. Sometimes she'll wake up in the middle of the night and Henry will be gone. When she was a little girl, she had to adjust to a man coming to visit every so often. One time he'd be 28, the next time 40, then 36, then 28 again. He comes and goes in an instant with no control over it, which I imagine must be very frustrating especially as he is clearly the only one in this book who can cook very well.Henry, as the time-traveler, finds himself at random moments in history without any clothes on. It's true, he can't bring anything with him (except memories, apparently, which are very useful in cheating the lottery system), and that includes clothing. He doesn't know how long he'll be in this new location nor how much time will have passed when he returns (at his wedding, he's gone for five minutes, but finds himself in the past for several hours). I didn't immediately get into this book because it's written in present tense from two different view points - Henry's and Clare's. I seriously expected that at any moment I would find options at the bottom of the page, "If Henry goes left, turn to page 146. If Henry goes right, turn to page 79." (It never happened, sadly, but jumping around pages in this book would totally have fit in the theme of jumping around time.) Present tense narration is always hard for me to get used to, but it was handled rather well. The style was fluid and enjoyable, not difficult to comprehend or get through. I read it in three days and would have finished it earlier had I not been required for other duties.I've been reading a few reviews of this book around the web and it seems like the general consensus is "this book rocks, but there is so much cursing and sex that I didn't finish it." It's true. It's full of loving touches in inappropriate places, random satisfaction, and, ahem, colorful language. That stuff doesn't bother me but I suppose it bothers some more than others. That said, it's worth getting through this book even if you have to gloss over those parts. It's worth getting to know each character, trying to figure out the difference between "fate" and "free will" in this book. There's no such thing as destiny, Henry claims, and yet he already knows what's going to happen to Clare, already knows what's going to happen to himself. I don't read very many time travel books and perhaps this is brought up in a lot of them, but it's a wonderful thing to frustrate oneself thinking about. I'm not sure I could make this review more succinct or interesting even if I put it off another couple of weeks and really hashed out my thoughts. I more or less already discussed the confusing parts with Richard, who had read it previously, and who either explained a bit or admitted equal amounts of confusion. Like, if Henry only time travels while he's stressed, what's with that scene where he time travels while he's calmly sitting on his porch? And if it's hereditary, why did no one else in his family experience it before him? In any case, it's a really good book and I really encourage you to pick it up if you've been wondering about it.